August 3, 2012 by Tom McG Perhaps whatever had to be “let go” was much more painful than the person you are speaking to thought it ever could be. Perhaps they wanted you so much and loved you so greatly that they wanted to be friends so they could still be around you, still talk to you, still have you in their lives and they be in yours. Maybe that all turned out to be impossible. They love you too much to just be friends…it ISN’T enough. Your accusation is SO harsh, it sounds as if you love them more than you thought; that you miss them in YOUR life. Try to talk to them. Get them to talk openly, bare their soul and get it the real grit. But you have to be willing to do that as well. Maybe, just maybe, you will settle things. Your secret is so emotional, it sounds as if you are BOTH hurting a great deal. It is worth a try!!