August 15, 2012 by Tom McG I am so sorry you are hurting. Whatever the deal is, know that the person you are speaking to is hurting as well. Depression or “self,” if you were close enough for them to break your heart, then they broke their own as well. That doesn’t make things easier nor dull the pain, but I feel sure that it wasn’t malicious. Perhaps you need to try to move on (great, ANOTHER difficult task).