August 3, 2014 by Stacey That’s not fair to anyone. Not only are you hurting your current significant other by pretending to have more feelings for him than you really do, you are also hurting the man you want to win you back by rubbing it in his face that you’re with someone else. Most importantly, you’re hurting yourself. Doing this will not make him fight for you, it wil make him think you’re better off without him and it will leave you miserable. You all deserve better.