13 Comments on “I’ve slept with seven guys. None of them has cared about me.”
by Tom McG
Have you cared about them? Do you care about you? Could it be that you didn’t LET them care about you?
by L.
I lived that too, but, it was with much more guys actually… And then one day, on a pub, I found a guy who didn’t only want sex with me. It was love at first sight !
It will be 10 months, tomorrow.
You just have to believe
by chanum
The best relationship I’ve been in is the one with myself, once I learned to love myself.
by lexitron
i feel the same but i am worse
by quierocake
I have 16 guys under my belt… I count them proudly, but I would give anything to have just one that truly did care to be with me.
by Vanessa
I have 27 under my belt. I believe 26 never cared about me. Including the one I lost it to at 14. I am 21 years old and finally found a man who cares about me more than I ever thought possible. Don’t give up hope.. Theres one who will care.
by weeone
MUST READ: “What Smart Women Know.” Fast, easy reading but will completely open your eyes!
by The Truth
“If you’re good at something, never do it for free” – The Joker.
by The Good Girl
Yeah, guys only like you if they have to work for it. The longer you make them wait, the longer they stick around. And being a bit mean and unavailable usually works too. If you see yourself as a prize, they will too. Or hang around long enough to find out why you think your so good. Try it as an experiment. Also there are about 3 billion men out there, odds are, youll fall in love with one of them xx
by Ana Blue
I know exactly how you feel. I’ve slept with about 4 times that many “men,” who could have cared less about me, just so I could feel like someone liked me. None of them ever treated me like they cared, and that includes the one I married. Then, two years ago, I went on my very first date (I was 28 at the time and had never been on a real date. who had time, what with all the casual sex I was having?). I spent the night at his house that night (we didn’t sleep together until about three days later), and every night after that. Two years later we are still together. Find someone who wants to take you out and be nice to you, because you deserve it.
You really do. Trust me.
by adrianne
You need to care about you and the rest will follow
by K.D
The hopeless romantic in me just yearns to meet someone that has never had someone love them the way it should be. So much of my life is really great.. But being alone really sucks. I can afford to take trips as often as I like…I have a good job… Great support from family and friends. But I’m the only one in my family that is single… I moved back home to help with my aging parents as they needed the support more than anyone.. But I guess my fear now is that I will end up being that bachelor guy that never ends up with anyone. Like time is running out.
by Amelia
I have 9 guys under my belt and I know for a fact that only 2 of them really cared about me… My first love(also my first I was his) and my amazing best friend (didn’t let sex change that) I know exactly how you feel
Have you cared about them? Do you care about you? Could it be that you didn’t LET them care about you?
I lived that too, but, it was with much more guys actually… And then one day, on a pub, I found a guy who didn’t only want sex with me. It was love at first sight !
It will be 10 months, tomorrow.
You just have to believe
The best relationship I’ve been in is the one with myself, once I learned to love myself.
i feel the same but i am worse
I have 16 guys under my belt… I count them proudly, but I would give anything to have just one that truly did care to be with me.
I have 27 under my belt. I believe 26 never cared about me. Including the one I lost it to at 14. I am 21 years old and finally found a man who cares about me more than I ever thought possible. Don’t give up hope.. Theres one who will care.
MUST READ: “What Smart Women Know.” Fast, easy reading but will completely open your eyes!
“If you’re good at something, never do it for free” – The Joker.
Yeah, guys only like you if they have to work for it. The longer you make them wait, the longer they stick around. And being a bit mean and unavailable usually works too. If you see yourself as a prize, they will too. Or hang around long enough to find out why you think your so good. Try it as an experiment. Also there are about 3 billion men out there, odds are, youll fall in love with one of them xx
I know exactly how you feel. I’ve slept with about 4 times that many “men,” who could have cared less about me, just so I could feel like someone liked me. None of them ever treated me like they cared, and that includes the one I married. Then, two years ago, I went on my very first date (I was 28 at the time and had never been on a real date. who had time, what with all the casual sex I was having?). I spent the night at his house that night (we didn’t sleep together until about three days later), and every night after that. Two years later we are still together. Find someone who wants to take you out and be nice to you, because you deserve it.
You really do. Trust me.
You need to care about you and the rest will follow
The hopeless romantic in me just yearns to meet someone that has never had someone love them the way it should be. So much of my life is really great.. But being alone really sucks. I can afford to take trips as often as I like…I have a good job… Great support from family and friends. But I’m the only one in my family that is single… I moved back home to help with my aging parents as they needed the support more than anyone.. But I guess my fear now is that I will end up being that bachelor guy that never ends up with anyone. Like time is running out.
I have 9 guys under my belt and I know for a fact that only 2 of them really cared about me… My first love(also my first I was his) and my amazing best friend (didn’t let sex change that) I know exactly how you feel