September 3, 2012 by Tom McG He is an asshole for telling your sister that (if indeed he did…does your sister have reasons to make something like that up?). If he did say that, it is about him and HIS fears, not you. Fat has NOTHING to do with love. When we love someone, we are accepting them as they are…we are not trying to change them. Why would you want to change someone to be a reflection of you? You are loved. Let yourself believe it and learn to love yourself! Real love WILL happen for you.