August 6, 2012 by Tom McG This secret is confusing. You are looking back at what WAS said but applying it to the present. Don’t you know how you are turning out, at least so far? Whatever was said, “they” don’t really matter…it is how YOU want to be. The mere fact you are questioning suggests you are self aware and introspective. Therefore, I am guessing you are trying to be the best you that you can be. That is what really counts. The self-awareness suggests that you are in good shape, on a good path, and are most likely a great and beautiful person!! Yay you!!!!