August 3, 2012 by Tom McG Could we be having language difficulties here? I don’t understand. Does it really feel good to mislead someone or is it just that addictive feeling of knowing you are loved and desired by another. Even if you have no feelings for that person, someone having a crush on you (or whatever you wish to call it) is VERY powerful. It is hard not to just revel in the glow. If it really is the “misleading,” then that is simply lying, and do you really want to hurt a friend that way? Confusion about what you are feeling or heading is one thing…cruelty is another.