August 9, 2012 by Tom McG Please don’t wish bad things upon yourself. We have SO much trouble getting past the bad things we already have. The person you are “speaking” to may NEVER know how badly you are hurt. But if they have hurt you, whether or not if they know how much, take the hardest step there is (or so it seems when you are doing it) and move on!! Focus all your wishes and energy on that and you may find rewards beyond your wildest imaginings. You may find someone who loves you enough NOT to hurt you!!