August 20, 2012 by Tom McG Perhaps try focusing that energy to meeting your crushes yourself! I’ll wager your friend SEEMS more attractive to you but the guy who works for you will love YOU for what and who you are. As silly and movie as it may seem, there is a lot to be said for Colin Firth’s character in “Bridget Jones” liking HER for who she is. Don’t worry. You will be loved and get to share YOUR love.