I have been having an affair with my husband’s best friend for 6 months.

28 Comments on “I have been having an affair with my husband’s best friend for 6 months.”

1. August 30, 2012  by  bc

   If you have kids I feel sorry for them. I also feel sorry for your husband as trust will be hard for him to have with another female. I know it happened to me.
2. August 30, 2012  by  Tom McG

   Why will you live the lie until you get caught? Why will it stop then? It sounds as if you aren’t in love with the best friend rather you want to hurt your husband. More than that, you want to hurt yourself! What could you have done to want to hurt yourself so much? The fact your husband married you suggests he loved you once and may love you still. Does his love scare you. Do you think you may not be worthy of love? The path you are on will shatter three lives. Whatever sin or hurt you are running from, I hope it is worth all the pending pain.
3. August 31, 2012  by  lijbi

   Classy! You and fungus have something in common….
4. October 1, 2012  by  kariru desu

   This sounds to me like the relationship between your husband and yourself has become very distanced. You might enjoy this now but if you still feel anything towards your husband you should stop. The one who will suffer the most at the end of this is your husband; you’re going to take so much from him. You should talk to him, your marriage might be worth saving.
5. October 12, 2012  by  v8momma

   You will get caught. I did.
6. October 23, 2012  by  Steph

   Guess you’re stuck. Good luck figuring out how to deal with this clusterfuck.
7. November 1, 2012  by  Rasp

   I don’t understand how anyone could ever do this. Harden up and end it with your husband. No matter what has happened in the past, no one deserves this.
8. November 5, 2012  by  Priscilla

   I understand
   I’m living a similar lie with my best friend’s married brother.
   I’m tortured.
9. November 10, 2012  by  regret

   first hand experience- after all is said and done..you’ll regret every day after. i know i did. it’s something you’ll have to live with long after the fun and games.
10. November 11, 2012  by  Regret

    I have a similar situation, except it’s been continuing for almost 5 years. I love him and I hate him, and I hate what he’s done to my life. I love him more than myself but every time I see him it’s torture. You can never be happy like this, I promise. You’ll always be torn.
11. December 4, 2012  by  Sam

    Wow, you are pretty judgmental for a bunch of people probably here to post your very own dirty secrets.
12. December 8, 2012  by  mike the pest

    I wish I was your husbands best friend…
    I love having affairs.
13. December 15, 2012  by  Annie

    My best friend had an affair with my Husband and now they are married. I can honestly tell you that it pretty much destroyed my life. You are a selfish and nasty person to continue this life. I hope you get everything you deserve and I feel sorry for the ‘innocent’ victims in this charade!
14. December 31, 2012  by  Amanda

    Been there, got caught, lost both men. Found something better. Ignore the judgment because they don’t know your situation. But I would end it if I were you…should have ended mine sooner and just divorced. Then he wouldn’t have had blackmail to loom over me when it came to the children.
15. January 2, 2013  by  Boss's

    Seriously. I’m in a relationship with a man who’s x wife cheated on h and because of her he doesn’t want to marry again. So to whores like you, thanks
16. January 5, 2013  by  E A

    I cheated as well so I know how you feel. It was exactly what I needed to finally ask my ex-husband for a divorce. The ex will never find out. I hope you find the same kind of peace I did.
17. January 23, 2013  by  bearman

    Enjoy the sex, and when you give your STD to your Husband what are you going to say. But I am sure the Big O was worth it.
18. January 27, 2013  by  Joe

    I applaud your honesty. This is your secret (for now). I do sense remorse and maybe sorrow when its found out. Now lets look at at all the judgmental comments shall we? All the folks who have no experience in the matter, claiming you have an std or just in it for the “o”. WHAT IF its because of lack of affection, lack of communication, lack of understanding, intimacy, conversation, touch, friendship, aging, morals, changing………. All these posts are so selfish, maybe she has had enough neglect and its time for her to be selfish! Maybe you should get offline and work on your own issues at home. Im a man. Ive been where this girl is. I salvaged my marriage after it was found out. REMEMBER….. You only live once, die trying to be happy.
19. January 31, 2013  by  LolaLo

    I’ve done the same thing… end it with him before he finds out to prevent the heart break.
20. February 7, 2013  by  Secretconfessor

    My wife did this to me too. Not my friend but just some guys she found. She always lied about it all. It wasn’t until I had tons of proof that she had no way out, she looked like a scared rabbit…there was no way out. But you know what I did? I forgave her and tried to reforge trust again. You know what? She did it again. Again I tried (for the kid’s sake mostly), but you know what? Yeah, she did it again. The kids found out and we all left her very alone.
    What am I saying? LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND NOW! Stop screwing up his mind and soul. You will NEVER change (likely), you will only continue to harm him. If you don’t care that is called sociopathy or psychopathy (depending on a few small variables) Consider getting help, but leave your husband. Tell him the truth and leave him. Don’t let him make the same mistakes I did.
21. February 26, 2013  by  Irene Hollimon

    Your husband might already know.
22. March 2, 2013  by  mouse

    Yeah. He probably knows. Being cheated on is a total mind fuck. So many obvious lies. It all adds to the betrayal. Just be honest with him. At this point what have you got to lose? At least this way you will retain some integrity through honesty.
23. March 5, 2013  by  The Good Girl

    So immature, Love is not a game and people are not toys. You need some perspective girl
24. March 6, 2013  by  Gigi

    I really don’t mean to judge you, but I cannot IMAGINE how hurt your friend will be when she finds out. I would be so crushed, not only that my husband was sleeping with another woman, but that woman was someone I called my “best friend” I can’t imagine that pain, and I feel so sorry for her. Poor thing.
25. March 13, 2013  by  Ana Blue

    filing a divorce is $400 if you do it yourself. go get one before you remove your pants, or anyone else’s, again.
26. March 27, 2013  by  sissy

    You got caught!! Now it’s over. Sad joke it’s all on you!! YOU don’t love your husband but your a great actress.
27. April 27, 2013  by  Jesbo

    Typical, modern day slut. I’m sure the hamster brain has spun it’s wheel so fast, that everything has been twisted to be the Husband’s fault. Do the world a favour and get into porn.
28. May 12, 2013  by  Tom Leykis

    He’s not his best friend if he’s fucking you.