August 15, 2012 by Tom McG You are a different person now and the circumstances you are in are different…just because you ARE different. You have learned, grown, and, apparently suffered for your previous choices. You were given “second” chances then. Perhaps you can be in a position of getting those chances again. If the chances are denied you, then work to make your own chances. Volunteer, adapt, whatever it takes to have those kids again. Good luck.