July 4, 2012 by Melissa T It took me over 3 years to get over my ex, who did all of those things and more. I don’t want him to be part of my life but I still love him.My heart still beats faster at the sound of his voice or a glimpse of a old photo. I think I will always love and think of him but I will never trust him. I think the one thing that help me the most was think that even though he still living the man I married is dead. Its now been 5 years since our divorce and I’m not the same person I used to be but I’m getting to like the new me. You will get though this.