July 2, 2012 by Tom McG What he is feeling has nothing to do with you, sweetie…it is all HIS internal struggle. You must be a wonderful person if he shushed his internal voices to have sex with you. You were able to draw him out…it is just that his internal demons were too strong for him to stay out. Keep trying…it is SO worth it getting closer to people…finding people to love…and that you can accept love from. Please don’t let one guy’s baggage weigh you down…life can be hard enough as we struggle with our OWN stuff. Hang in there. You are worth it…to others as well as yourself.