That’s what I get for attempting to get closer to people.

The only guy I ever had sex with

Told me he felt ashamed and guilty about what he did.

and that he is now afraid to come near me.

July 2, 2012 by Tom McG
What he is feeling has nothing to do with you, sweetie…it is all HIS internal struggle. You must be a wonderful person if he shushed his internal voices to have sex with you. You were able to draw him out…it is just that his internal demons were too strong for him to stay out. Keep trying…it is SO worth it getting closer to people…finding people to love…and that you can accept love from. Please don’t let one guy’s baggage weigh you down…life can be hard enough as we struggle with our OWN stuff. Hang in there. You are worth it…to others as well as yourself.
November 12, 2012 by No one important, obviously.
I know whos secret this is. Thanks for having sex with my boyfriend… especially when we were together for so long.
January 30, 2013 by Cake
Eff him, it takes two to tango, HE GAVE HIS CONSENT, he could have said no. Don’t even feel bad about this chump.
March 13, 2013 by Ana Blue
honestly, that sounds like an excuse bnot to call you again. like “I think we should just be friends,” but WAY worse. his guilt isn’t on you- in order for sex to happen, there have to be TWO people there. it’s not like you had him at gunpoint. tell him to take his guilt, tape it to a brick and shove it up his ass sideways.