July 23, 2012 by Think positive! Dont do that to yourself. An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. You are a much much bigger person and a GREAT parent for showing your daughter that revenge is NOT the way! We can’t control every aspect of our lives and sometimes horrible things happen to good people. This is the way of life and part of the tests that God gives us every day. You made the right choice! Please find a way to allow yourself to accept that.