July 22, 2012 by Tom McG The thing is, he did something major to you without your permission. Just like the act itself wasn’t your fault, how you react to it isn’t your fault either. We can’t help how we feel. Please don’t blame yourself for any part of this. Regardless of how you felt or feel…you should consider talking to someone…someone you can trust. You are not warped or twisted in any way. No one else was there but you and him. No one was in your head but you so we can’t judge you. You shouldn’t judge you. You should look at your life and your responses to see how and why. Get to know yourself better. Please let someone help you with this.