I’m scared that no one will ever love me..

14 Comments on “I’m scared that no one will ever love me..”

1. July 16, 2012  by  Tom McG

   Somebody WILL love you, if you let them. Relax and open up. Forget about your breasts. The one who really DOES love you won’t care!! What is inside really DOES count. But, you will have to stay calm and let people approach you. Do your friends care about your breasts? If they really are your friends, than the answer is no. Love is like that too.
2. July 16, 2012  by  Jade_Phoenix

   That is part of being a natural woman! Either embrace who and what you are or have plastic surgery and correct it. Either way, how can anyone else love you if you can’t love yourself?
3. July 17, 2012  by  bc

   a real man will not care
4. July 17, 2012  by  leila

   Get it checked. You might have scolliosis. I know this from personal experience. It’s fixable. And you have nothing to worry about plus, you have to realize that there’s so much more to you than just a flaw in your chest.
5. July 18, 2012  by  Similee

   Don’t we all have one breast bigger than the other? I know I do. I also walk funny. I was always worried no one would ever really love me. I have someone to love me. You will find the same.
6. July 22, 2012  by  Nicole P

   I used to feel the same but I’ve found someone who loves me regardless of my flaws and you will too. He always says its like having the best of both worlds can’t argue with that! I’m also considering plastic surgery down the road after having babies has ruined them completely. Keep a positive attitude and you’ll find that the right kind of man wont care.
7. July 26, 2012  by  Milagros

   Get surgical help!
8. August 4, 2012  by  Itsme

   Don’t most people? For some it’s more noticeable but everyone has one bigger than the other-it’s normal. Don’t worry
9. August 6, 2012  by  anonymous

   My left breast is bigger than my right. I like to think that because one is little and one is big I have the best of both worlds :p
10. August 13, 2012  by  Smile 4 me

    You are beautiful the way you are. If someone doesn’t love because your breast are different then they are not worthy of you
11. August 27, 2012  by  elk

    Hey listen. A lot of woman do. I do. My breasts, I think, are hideous. And you know what? Somebody loved me, even when i was naked. And get this. No one is perfect. Not one single person. And everyone is too focused on their own flaws to worry about yours. Don’t beat yourself up. Be comfortable with who you are. It is much more beautiful and sexy then perfectly symmetrical breasts.
12. August 28, 2012  by  JustAGirl

    You should find out why you think you are un-worthy of being loved. Boobs aren’t important to real men, it’s whats on the INSIDE that counts.
13. September 27, 2012  by  JustLikeYou

    At the age of 15, I had surgery to even out my very uneven breasts – one was a full C while the other was not even an A. The surgery saved my life but now, 13 years later, part of me does worry about the long-term effects. I know how you feel – I felt like a freak show, that no guy would ever love me, so why continue on with life. Please, don’t despair. Talk to a mental health professional about your feelings. And then decide if you want to physically fix your problem. You’re not alone.
14. January 28, 2013  by  Exactly the sameas you

    I’m sorry for my English, but when I saw this postsecret, I feel it was my duty to comment it.
    I have exactly the same problem as you, since I’m 11. You have no idea how much doctors I saw, and NO ONE ever find why I was like this.
    I am now 19 years old, and I had been surgery a few months ago.
    All I can tell you is that I totally understand your fears. The fact that you cannot wear a swimsuit, being relax with someone you love because if you want to go further, you’ll HAVE to explain your problem.
    Please, just don’t give up. I never meet woman with the same problem as me, and I don’t know if you too, but, keep hope!
    My doctor use the BRAVA system, it’s more natural and safe! Make research, I beg you, don’t give up!
    I’m not with someone right now, but I know I will found someone who will love me, even with my scars. Please, don’t give up, it’s the same for you! If you want to speak with me, don’t be shy!
    Also, I am really sorry for my english, but it isn’t my native language..