July 4, 2012 by Tom McG You won’t always be alone. Are all the bridges burned with your adaptive parents? Are they really? Look hard. If, indeed, they are, then try to open yourself to friends. People that become your friends and especially those friends that become lovers, can help a lot. You may never heal the parental hole in your soul, but if you feed your spirit, that hole and its pitch black bile of pain can become manageable and you can live your life….NOT alone.