July 9, 2012 by Tom McG Sweetie, as hopeless and unending your current misery may seem, it really isn’t so. This is not the real you talking; it is a part of you; a person inside, in the form of a judge or some ogre, that is screaming at you that you are ugly and worthless and just basically the blackest, most vile sludge on the planet. That is SO not true. Please try to talk to someone. If it can’t be a counselor or a therapist, find a friend that you can really expose yourself to. Tell them how you feel about yourself and your life. But you have to listen to what they say when they tell you how beautiful and valuable you are. The idea of opening so to anyone may seem impossible…but if you are bent on ending things; then what do you have to lose? It doesn’t matter if you will appear crazy or weak or whatever. But what does matter is how the people you love see you…the magnificence of you. Please try to stay. We need you.