July 9, 2012 by Tom McG Honey, you are SO brave to be able to admit this state of affairs enough to articulate it so eloquently. Please use that courage you have to change your life. You are so much better than that…you don’t deserve (nor need) to be treated like crap at all. Please think about leaving and restarting your life. You have so much worth and so much to offer. What you deserve is to be treated like the wonderful person you are.