July 22, 2012 by Tom McG I understand what you mean by viewing yourself as a possible threat. I can only hope my personality will shine through. I KNOW I would never hurt a woman…it is the feeling that I am looked down upon…lumped in with the boors, the idiots, the sexual bigots that upsets me the most. I am not allowed to even tell a woman how attractive she looks in that dress or those shorts. I don’t want anything from you, I just want to express how stunning you are. OP, I can only suggest that you be as good a friend as you know how to those women around you; the ones you love, and as they get to know you and relax; they will tell you your worth as a person…a male person. If you respect them and respect yourself, you will be fine.