July 4, 2012 by Tom McG Sweetie, you aren’t “keeping” him lying to yourself. You really don’t have him anymore as it is. You are really only hurting yourself and hiding from the agony you know awaits you as he cheats more and more. The longer it goes on, the more it will hurt, the harder it will be to heal, and more of yourself will get lost. Please consider trying to save yourself. It is hard. It is like having a horrible hurt as you lie in bed and you fear moving because it will hurt worse. But you reach the point where you force yourself through the pain to get up and once you are upright, it is a sigh of relief and you can get about living and healing. You can do it. You are SO worth the effort!!! Believe it!!