July 19, 2012 by Alanna It always bugs me when people say: “I’m not X but (insert contradictory line”. By definition you are prejudiced against black males. This is a form of both racism and sexism. You feel guilt and I think that’s what differentiates you from being an ignorant person. Learn to admit when you have a fault, so that you can understand why you have this notion and you can work on overcoming it. You will always be lying to yourself and not growing as a person if you always hide behind the “I’m not rascist” statement when you actually have a stereotyped fear!