I thought if I gave in to what he wanted..sexual favours, then he would learn to love me.

I thought if I gave in to what he wanted..sexual favours, then he would learn to love me.

I thought if I gave in to what he wanted..sexual favours, then he would learn to love me.

but he stopped talking to me.

10 Comments on “I thought if I gave in to what he wanted..sexual favours, then he would learn to love me.

  1.  by  Tom McG

    I am SO sorry you had to live through that. You found out he is a jerk who can’t handle feelings. As hard as it may seem, you will move on and now have a better idea of what you are looking for and how to read the signals WHEN (it WILL happen) someone really loves you and then they won’t be “sexual favors;” instead those actions will be “making love.”

    PS Watch out for twisted idiots like “The Dude” {above)

  2.  by  Al

    Unfortunately you are not alone but please also take comfort in that. All we can do is learn from each situation and move on.

    P.s “The Dude” Maybe you should post your secret, it might help you address the reasons why you have to hide behind your computer and behave like a bully.

    Until then this community will just ignore you.

  3.  by  D

    On a different note, I’m really sorry that this happened to you… We should all learn from our past experiences, and I’m sure that one day, you will find someone who wants to “make love” rather than “have sex”…

    PS: I really wish that there could be a “report user” option, so that people could report other people such as “The Dude” which should probably be renamed to “The Douche”.

  4.  by  Woodrow Dollarhyde

    If The Dude’s plan is to make us think he is trying to act like THE Dude from “The Big Lebowski”…

    *shakes head in disgust*

    Yeah, I’m all for the “report” button thing.

  5.  by  Crystle

    Sad thing is it happens way to often it happens to me too he only talks to me when he needs something but I still love him

  6.  by  Ashley

    It happened to me too. I gave into him and he stopped talking to me. I ended up losing my best friend because of him. she hasnt talked to me in 4 months and it kills me.

  7.  by  Amol

    Dont slip n fall in love. Just b with him or her. Do support physically,mentally, not sexually. Think on every step of life when u r in love.

  8.  by  The Good Girl

    I think this happens to all of us at one time or another. It teaches us about men and how they can be. If you dont learn a lesson from it, you’ll repeat the same mistake.

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