June 14, 2012 by Think positive! First, I am very sorry you feel this way. You should know that positive thinking and actions will yield positive results. Just think positive thought and everything will be ok! Second, there are lots of people who are more than happy to help you and your family through any hardships you may have when he comes home. Don’t ever feel that any sort of negative change is normal. Be proactive. Be extra supportive. And make sure that he knows no matter what you will always be there for him. I wish you the best of luck.