May 13, 2012 by Woodrow Dollarhyde At the very least, you should tell her that you think of her as your best friend. Nothing to fear, go for it. I don’t know are you M or F. I’m M, and I had similar feelings for my best friend. Nothing could ever happen between us, and she managed to get over it pretty quickly. I put on a brave face, but it is hard for me, and I can still get down over it. Something happened between us recently that actually proved to me that she doesn’t have those kind of feelings for me anymore, and it’s killing me. I’m even afraid I’m losing her as my best friend over it. And the end of the day, it’s up to you if you decide to tell her only half or all of your secret. But what I’m getting at is that if you do tell her the whole thing, and the second part doesn’t go the way you’d like it… Just be ready for it, because I wasn’t.