May 7, 2012 by Voice of Reason Their are other virtues held as tantamount directives that must precede loyalty. LOVE, Kindness, Truth, Justice, Honor, Decency, Respect. We all fall short of perfection it is true. So thusly we all have shame and regrets. However we are only as sick as our secrets. As a result our secrets can and will make us sick if not reconciled. Your so called friends trusted with info that lightened their load but burdened you. Their intent was purely self serving and with no regard for how it would impact you. If your friends secrets hurt others including you, you have a moral obligation to do the right thing and convince your friend to tell the proper authority/people or share in their blame for the completed outcome.