May 16, 2012
I’m afraid to have children…
I’m afraid they’ll be like me…
and they’ll hurt me like I hurt my parents.
Category: New Secrets
Tags: children, fear
I am just the same.
I feel the same way.. Im scared that when my future child turns 12, that I will have cancer. Im scared that everything I did to my mom & dad, that my future children will do to me 10fold… Its a huge fear, but I know that we can make it through it…
I don’t know if I can do it. I’m scared my children will betray me. I’m scared to fall in love because I know I would want children with that man. Sometimes I feel so selfish, at other times I’m so convinced.
Know there are others out there who feel the same. My fear of my children having any of my unfavorable traits is one of the biggest reasons I believe I’ll never have them.
The fact that you have even had this/these thoughts proves you are better then your parents AND that you have grown and changed as you’ve gotten older. It’s gonna be great ^_^
I’m afraid to have children because I hate kids. Some people call me a monster for hating them…but I just do. And I’m afraid that if I DO have them I won’t be the loving mother that every child deserves.
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