April 26, 2012 by Amy Are you religious? Your best bet would probably be to look at some Christian Dating services. Or some kind of Abstinence Dating service for people who are like-minded. I’m not going to lie, if you’re just dating randomly then it WILL be hard. Lots of women and men like to be sure that they’re sexually compatible before tying the knot, so to speak (for instance, I once dated a guy who I liked A LOT, but we were just too incompatible in bed. We liked different things and were to set in our ways to change, and so the sex was just never great. We broke up amicably and moved on). Finding a random guy in this age who won’t mind waiting until marriage isn’t going to be easy, I’m not going to lie. But he’s definitely out there, OP. Don’t give up. 🙂 I seriously recommend the christian/abstinence dating services, by the way.