March 19, 2012 by He Deserves Better, I Think I am sorry that you feel this way. But I feel worse for your poor boyfriend. He truly deserves better, if you are not willing to believe in him and his words. You want to be loved, admired, and feel sexy? By who? The world? Your partner is supposed to BE your world. I am an overweight 20 year old woman, and I have an annoyingly high and soft voice that drives my family and many others insane. I have NEVER felt pretty, beautiful, sexy, or even DECENT. Then my boyfriend called me beautiful. Sexy. Pretty. Perfect for HIM. Who cares that some stranger halfway around the world thinks your carefully angled Internet photo thinks you are beautiful. When are you going to meet him? Where will you HEAR him say that you are beautiful while watching his eyes glimmer with emotion? Try to feel the sincerity in your boyfriend’s voice when he tells you. You need to be able to trust your partner here, because if you cannot do that, then I do not know who you can ever trust to see you as being beautiful.