I’m 16 and I told a bunch of my close friends that I miscarried..

15 Comments on “I’m 16 and I told a bunch of my close friends that I miscarried..”

1. March 22, 2012  by  colleen

   I’m 30. I really did have a miscarriage at age 23. When I was 26 my doctor told me I can never have children. I understand your desire to have children. I feel hurt that you would lie about something like that.
2. March 30, 2012  by  Silverwave21

   You are a heartless bitch to joke/lie about something like that. One day if you really do miscarry it will be justified by your horrid lie.
3. April 2, 2012  by  pualanikam

   Youre 16, a baby will change your life in a way you can’t imagine, can’t be ready for. Wait for it so that when it really happens you and the baby will both have a good life.
4. April 7, 2012  by  katherine

   I’m 18 and i have made the decision to have a child, just because we’re younger doesn’t mean you’s would be better at it than us.
5. April 24, 2012  by  Elise#

   Silverwave21
   Get the fuck off this site. All that you do is spew negative crap that doesn’t need to be said. People write on here to be listened to and understood or at least to have a release. Do you remember what it’s like to be a 16 year old girl? And then to wish a miscarriage on someone that just wants to be a mother? You are a terrible person, you should not have to right to go on postsecret if all you do is judge people and give no room for understanding. Go get a soul and get the fuck off of this site.
6. April 25, 2012  by  nyomi1990

   I’m 21, currently trying too concieve with my partner. I’ve always wanted a child and sometimes wished I would get pregnant when I was a teenager.
   I’ve had 3 miscarriages in the last 8 month and now my depression is the worst its ever been, I’m scared ill never get the chance too have a child.

   I feel so sorry for this person too feel the need too say this too her freinds. I know how it feels too want a baby so young and now at 21 I have many more reasons for it too happen.

   People will always judge what others have too say and what others feel, I haven’t judged this person and I hope she never does suffer a miscarriage.. Its one of the hardest moments I’ve had too deal with in my life and I hope I never have too again.

   X
7. May 8, 2012  by  dreaminrewind

   Bravo, Elise. Your post made me laugh out loud! Silverwave obviously needs to kick others when they’re down to feel good. People like that hate the person in the mirror. Just ignore it, and it will go away.
8. May 10, 2012  by  living2lives

   As a grown woman who has miscarried, I can tell you that it’s something I wish no one had to experience. Painful both emotionally and physically. Look inside and figure out why you have this void you’d like to fill with a baby. And find something healthier that won’t affect someone else’s life.
9. May 10, 2012  by  Dude

   Nah, I am with the chick who said she wishes she has a mis carriage, to lie about something like this is like lying about cancer, sick, and twisted, and karmically, the only thing that should is happen, is for their lie to actually happen to them. It is the only way they will truly realise how messed up their lie was.
10. May 15, 2012  by  Bee

    Not to judge, but you should wait until you’re older. There are a million reasons, but most of all so you can have a childhood. Don’t give up on that yet, stay a child as long as you can.
11. May 30, 2012  by  PA Mary

    Please please please wait until you are older and mature enough to raise a healthy and happy child. I see so many children raising children it saddens me. Live life a little beforehand. Travel, find what job you want, give back to society.
12. June 20, 2012  by  Leanne

    I don’t think that you want a baby so much as you want attention. Being a teen mother would do that. But lying about a miscarriage would be so much more dramatic and interesting.
13. August 26, 2012  by  Kitty

    Maybe nobody should judge her at all ! you should never wish a miscariage upon anyone it is the most horrible experience ever ! and if you guys really know what it is like to DESPERATLY want a baby, then u will understand that you do and say silly things that you cannot take back ! so you have no right to judge her
14. September 17, 2012  by  Demmers

    Im 20 years old and my partner and I are trying to conceive. I’ve had 2 miscarriages in the past 2 years and its probably the hardest thing I have gone through. That being said, it still doesn’t make me angry that people lie about this. I don’t necessarily understand it but I do get the attention thing, and I understand wanting a baby so bad even lying about it can make it feel real for a few seconds.
    People are on a site that’s dedicated to people telling secrets l, things they want to get off there chest and your going to get super pissed about it? Get off the site!
15. April 14, 2013  by  Louise

    I had a miscarage a year ago I’m 20 it was the hardest thing I Eva whent threw I know I had a boy Harry he grew his wings 16/11/11 the night I almost grew my wings to but the ambalance got me three on time I lost that much blood I was seconds away from being with my angel baby I’m glad I didn’t die beacouse I love my family but I do love my baby in heaven u sould Neva lie bout these things beacouse one day it might happen to you