35 thoughts on “This is the girl I’m still in love with”

  1. Trying to figure it out will drive you nuts. Just be good to yourself and get on with your rocking life.

  2. I’m still in love with a guy I lied to. It’s been almost a year and a half. I still think about him every day and have had 2 boyfriends since him. And I don’t know why I love him and he wants nothing to do with me.

  3. your in love with her because you see something in her that you’ve never seen in someone, your in love with her because although she may have had a destructive persuasion on the person that you became when you where with her, you loved how she made you feel. theres nothing wrong with that, but you need to decide whether you love her, or how she makes you feel.

  4. I am still madly in love with a man that hates me and never wants to see me again. Neither of us did anything wrong, the last fight just ticked him off a little too much. Take chances, you’ll fucking regret it one day.

  5. Thanks AliceRose, i’m not the guy who posted this but I could relate to it, so thank you very much, i needed to read that.

  6. You’re in love with her because you havent had enough of her is all. I know the feeling. You just weren’t done.

  7. OopsMyBad: I have the same worry. Nobody has been “hung up” on me, and I feel like time is running out.

  8. i have been in love with a girl I havent seen in five years. I had a chance when I was 14, but blew it by trying to find love in someone else that shared my terrible priorities of my youth.as I grew older, I saw what was inside of her that I missed out on. She permeates my thoughts everyday, and will be marrying her high school sweetheart. I wish everyday that I was in his place

  9. I’m in love with a man that I’ve known for years, but I just don’t have the courage to tell him because I’m pretty sure he doesn’t feel the same. And I hate that about myself. If you can muster the courage, go and talk to her. You don’t have to tell her you love her, but just working on whatever separated could mean the difference between regret and happiness.

  10. i feel the same way about my ex girlfriend.
    thanks to the post by alice i realize it was because of how she made me feel.
    i cant help but replay her in my mind often though, and every febuary since we met, i still celebrate in the parking lot that held our first introduction.
    its only so dear to me bc she wont speak to me at all. memories of better times is what ill hold onto.

  11. I think a great deal of people still have that one person in their past that they still hold in their heart. I do, despite being married and a mother. I don’t love him anymore, but I do think about him a lot; wondering how he’s doing, who he’s with, how his life has changed since we last talked 3 years ago. I guess you just have to move on so you don’t drive yourself crazy about it.

  12. I’m in love with my best friend but shes in love with a guy who cheats on her, calls her every name he can think of when they fight, breaks up with her every week, and mentally abuses her. Sometimes I think giving up is the best but then she says or does something and I’m right back to where I started.

  13. I once had a male friend who was with an abusive woman for 2 years.When they split up he was a mess until I got him to write a list of things he loved about her,things,he liked ,things he disliked and things he hated. It turned out there wasn’t much he loved other than her physical appearance and their sex life. His list of dislikes was so long that he was horrified……he had not realised how he had been feeling until he wrote it down. He was upset with himself very briefly but then was finally able to let go and move on. Believe it or not this very simply method has sorted out the lives of almost everyone who tries it (and it certainly helped me stop pining for Mr wrong…..it also helped me see when I met the right person).Maybe it can help you too 🙂

  14. sometimes i find myself thinking about that girl that we’ve all lost… but today i know that it was really for the best and i’m way better off

  15. go for her , the guy that was in love with me and couldnt figure out why got into a bad relationship with a girl who looks exactly like me now he says how he wishes he had just asked me out

  16. I’m in love with this girl I met few months ago. We used to see each other in school, but we barely talk. I tried to talk to her in school, message her on Facebook, get to know her more through her friends. But the more I try, the more I feel like I need to give up; she just ignores me…I’m still love her, i just can’t get her out of my mind. I just wanna stay beside her, have her in my arm, kiss her.

  17. I know how it’s like. Why don’t ya go after her then? If she’s not married yet you still have a chance dude!

  18. Sometimes I don’t know what is wrong with me. I’m 23 and have been in love with my ex-best friend for 10 years now. I say ex because after being her best friend but secretly in love with her, I cut my arm open one night she came to visit at college. Since then, even our friendship is done and that’s what hurts the most. Now it’s like what is wrong with me, 10 years! I feel like a damn fool knowing that she still holds a place in my heart. And it’s definitely not intense anymore but if we somehow made up then I would probably go out with her instantly and again put myself in a situation where I would hurt myself is something went wrong.

  19. im in love with a girl who doesnt want any of the things i want and she refuses to compromise. it really hurts but i still love her.

  20. i am only in my 20s and everyone says im to young for love but i think thats a bunch of bull becuase u will no when u are in love because seeing that person wont be about sex or what they can give u its when u can sit and be with them for hours without saying a thing so i went for it and now im engaged to the guy i new i loved and still do.

  21. yea im bi and i know how that is. i lost my girl 2 years ago and everyday i wait to see if she will walk up too me.. but she wont.. im starting to except that. and want to know the worst part????? i hated her so much… that i loved her to death… she changed me.. made me see things ive never seen… and now shes no longer with me.

  22. I didn’t marry the man I’m still in love with after 5 yrs of being married to the guy I was breaking up with the day I found out I was pregnant. I hate myself for it everyday.

  23. I’ve loved the same guy since I met him when I was 7/8 ish. We still see each other often, I wish he loved me back, he practically told me we were incompatible, then asked if I would pretend we were going out (for a laugh). It breaks me, and yet we still grow closer every week. Nobody understands-they just think he’s weird. I’ve tried telling myself everything~the last thing being just to tell him when he leaves for uni at the end of this year, so I can get over this. We match completely, he’s the light to my darkness. I guess I’m just lonely.. and needy.

  24. I am still in love with the girl I dated almost 7 years ago. We have had our ups and downs, we have gone months at a time not speaking, yet she is my best friend and I am hers.. However, every girl I have dated since we broke up, I have compared each one of them secretly to her and none of my relationships since have worked out. I have listened to her share her future plans w someone she’s dated, about getting married or how many kids they want and so on.. Those used to be our plans. And when they broke up I thought, finally I have my chance again to prove to her I’ve changed and we are meant to be together.. Best friends and Lovers.. But I am too scared to tell her in fear it would put a gap into our friendship, because the last time I did express myself to her.. Her response was “you never know what the future holds” that was two years ago and just a sugar coated way of saying no. I won’t give up though… Bc as much as I have tried to move on and find someone who will love me to that extreme it never lasted bc she is the one for and she will always be the one for me, together or not.

  25. @JLM1215# — When I read your comment I sort of had to gasp. For a moment, I thought.. could this be someone I know? Ha. Your initials are not HIS so I know you’re not him. It got me wondering if it could have been my ex from 7 years ago. I completely understand where you’re coming from, but the only thing between you and I is that you two are still friends whereas I have no contact with HIM. I wish you the best. I hope someday it works out for you two.

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