I’m an 18 year old girl and was dating a 15 year old guy

I'm an 18 year old girl and was dating a 15 year old guy

65 Comments on “I’m an 18 year old girl and was dating a 15 year old guy

  1.  by  Anna

    I feel relived. When I was 14, I had a crush on an 11 year old boy. Funny enough, the year before he had a crush on me. But none of us shared our feelings with the other because our parents are best friends and it would make things awkward between me, him, and my younger sister, who is closwr in age to him. Plus, our parents would never approve of our relationship. Now, we are almsot enemies. Now, I am almost 16 and I am in love with a 13 year old boy who is my friend and we have contemplatee a relations hip. My friend is the best thing that has ever happened to me, despite the age difference. I hope him and I are together for a while.

  2.  by  Jackie

    I’m a 16 year old girl secretly dating a 13 year old boy. We have been together for a year now. We see eachother sometimes and we haven’t done anything like sex or stuff. He’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me honestly and idk what I would do without him. He’s so much more mature for his age. His mom doesn’t approve and my parents don’t really know. His mom thinks I’m only with him to “take advantage of him”, which is not true. It’s so hard but we make it work

  3.  by  Teshan

    Im 15, about to be 16 in august. And i like this boy who is 13. So im a junior and hes going to 8th grade. But anyway, my cousin recently passed. He was murdered actually. But i found the boy i liked as a way out. After that, he was ike the only thing that made me happy. My source of light. My attachment. My little addiction. It sucks cause he broke his phone, which mean we havent talked in a while. so this have taught me how to get over him sorta. But i bet if he was to text me now i would be all over him again. Thats just the effect he has on me. Im stuck dude. I admit, i like tha kid.. aloot. I mean, gosh its 5:25 am and i haven’t talked to him in 4ever, but im STILL thinking of him. People have effects on your life. No matter the age. You cant help the way you feel. If you vibe, then you vibe. If he makes you happy, he makes you happy. Fuck what anyone else has to say. Cause when hes 20 you will be 23. And guess what… no one will have a problem. Its your relationship. Not theirs. Let them stay out of it.

  4.  by  H

    Right; so I’m fifteen years old, in year ten, and I’m currently doing my work experience at my old primary school just down the road from my present school. Basically, I did a few drama performances while at that primary school and my old drama teacher, Mr. B, invited me to come and watch the school rehearse their play, Grease, and the boy who plays Danny Zuko is in year six, so roughly 11/12 years old. He’s leaving school and going into year seven at the end of this year. So basically, after watching a few of their rehearsals, it seems I’ve developed a crush on this kid. I really don’t know what to do, like I think about him constantly but because of the 4 year age gap, and the fact that i’ll be on my last year of secondary school when he’s on his first, nothing can happen. That bothers me a lot. If anyone could give me advice or anything, it would be appreciated. I’m lost. – H

  5.  by  anonymous

    I am a 15 years old and I have a crush on a 12 year old guy.. basically nothing too special has happened between us (we havent even kissed yet) but we both know we want to be together.. his parents are family friends and of course they know nothing about the situation. My dad is kinda suspicious and he isnt letting me hang out with him because he is “taking advantage of me” (wtf?) I dont know if it will ever work out but i still feel a bit weird about the age difference :/

  6.  by  Selina

    i am 18 years of age and currently dating a 16 year old guy. we talked, kiss and have fun. He has been the most perfect guy to me and he’s also matured. I wish that we would married in the future n have our desired children

  7.  by  maddie

    Im 17 turning 18 in a few months ive know this guy im dating for 3 years and hes 15..idk what to do bc I love him so much and its only three years. Hes so mature and eeve been togther for 4 months

  8.  by  Samuel

    Is it normal for a 15-year-old guy to think a 20-year-old girl is sexy, has a sexy body, etc?

  9.  by  Sean

    I was thirteen when I started dating a girl who was four and a half years older than me. We were both hopelessly in love, and the year when I was thirteen was probably the happiest year of my life. She told me I was more mature than most boys even her age and she’d rather be with me than some older college guy. Then after we’d been together for a year and half, when I was a freshman in high school and she was a freshman in college, she cheated on me and it ended. She was in college and I was still in high school; she changed and I stayed the same, so she grew bored of me.

    For a while I still harbored feelings for her. Then eventually — now, two years later — I realized I’d essentially been abused. There is a reason why statuary rape is illegal; it’s not that a teen can’t truly give consent, it’s that he or she is too naive to consider the emotional consequences that could result from such a relationship. I was mature, yes, but I knew nothing about love or relationships. Now I have to live with the feeling of having been used by someone until she grew out of me.

    I don’t blame her, though; just because she was eighteen didn’t mean she was suddenly an adult and had better judgment. But please, to anyone else who is in a relationship like this, I know it feels like nobody else understands you, I know it feels so right despite what everyone says, but think about it. Five, ten years from now, if you’re no longer with the same person, will you be proud of who you were now? Or will you cling to an obsessive, fantastical version of the past; will you feel like something is stuck on you can never rub off?

    No matter what, if you’re the adult in the relationship, it’s your responsibility to look out for the emotional well-being of the younger one. If you truly love your boyfriend and girlfriend, please, take a moment to think about whether it is healthy for him or her to be dating you. I know it will be difficult, but it may very well be the right thing to do. And if it’s too hard, tell yourself that, given five years or so, you need no longer feel any guilt about it — even if that’s not entirely true.

  10.  by  Federico

    I’m 15 and I like an 18 year old girl what should I do she is so beautiful the thing is that she likes my personality in a way but I don’t know if she likes me In general. Her ex is the biggest guy iv ever seen and she is not that tall she’s my same height . Please help

  11.  by  Kat

    I’m 15 in the 9th grade and I have a crush on guy A, who’s 14 in 9th grade (different states) and guy B who just turned 13 in the 7th grade….

  12.  by  hikari

    I’m 18 and I have a huge crush on someone who is 15, thing is he doesn’t look like it. He’s 6″2 and I’m 5″ 6 so he looks older than me and I look younger than 18… So is that good or bad? ???

  13.  by  Alyrricyst Angel Smith

    Nah just don’t date someone whose 6 or 5 years younger than you but your ok kiddo

  14.  by  Barbie

    I’m 18 and this guy who is 15 likes me…. what should I do

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