I’m an 18 year old girl and was dating a 15 year old guy

I'm an 18 year old girl and was dating a 15 year old guy

50 Comments on “I’m an 18 year old girl and was dating a 15 year old guy

  1.  by  Kedwynn Slain

    At the age of 32 I left my husband of 9 years for a man 11 years younger than me. Six years of unbelieveable sex later, I couldn’t afford him any more and had to move on.

  2.  by  becky

    i have been fooling round with my friends little brother for the last year because she fucked me over and stole the guy i loved.

    i am 17 he is 14. the irony is he is just using me and i am just using him and we are both is seperate relationships.

  3.  by  TK

    I started dating the man I’m with now when he was 14 and I was 18. It’s been 6 years and we’re still just as in love as the day we met. My mother threatened to charge me with statutory rape if I didn’t leave him. Telling her “bring it” was the best stupid decision I’ve ever made. Age is just a number. Now I’m 25 and he’s 21 and we’re going to spend the rest of our lives together. Don’t let fear ruin the real thing. Love is love, no matter how old you are!

  4.  by  J

    Leave children to be children. Don’t be so selfish. If you love someone at least let them become adult first. I am a liberal person but I think this is WRONG’!!!!!!!!!!!!

  5.  by  becky #

    @ J #
    when do you stop being a child? i am more of a child than he is. i am more innocent, and he kept trying to push me. not the other way round.

  6.  by  Shannon

    When I was 23, I slept with a 15 year old. I was so ashamed but I couldn’t stop myself. Now I’m 27 and he’s 19 so I don’t feel so bad anymore :)

  7.  by  opal

    wait a couple years, if its love he can wait right? that could seriously mess him up, my dad had that happen to him, he says it was the worst mistake he ever made and it still makes him feel sick.

  8.  by  Dawnieangel76

    I find it amazing nobody said anything about the STD part…and that the author is speaking about him in past-tense.

    Seems the author is more immature…and irresponsible…than the younger tee.

  9.  by  anika

    I’m eighteen and am dating a fifteen year old. But we’re not having sex. Yes, it’s possible and we’re very happy, thankyouverymuch. : )
    Oh, and shouldn’t you be more concerned with actually giving him an STD?

  10.  by  Annna

    I lost my virginity when I was 14 to a 19 year old guy. He found out my age afterwards, and he told me he couldn’t see me anymore. two years later we started dating and now, 7 years later we’re still in love. I’m 24.

  11.  by  anon

    I’m an 18 year old girl dating a 15 year old boy (he turns sixteen in 16 days- lol irony). I don’t see why you would be charged with statutory rape?? Well, I live in Canada and the law is that the age difference for a minor and a legal adult dating or having sex can’t be more than 5 years… We’ve got like 2 1/2 years difference. I’d be more worried about the STD, to be honest. Me and my boy haven’t had sex or anything like that because I know and understand that he’s still legally just a child and has so much more maturing to do. If he decides he wants to and is ready for that- that’s great. But if he’s not ready, that’s great too.

  12.  by  renee

    The day before my 18th birthday I had sex with a 25 year old. He was the lead singer in a band. I was really drunk and was on a break with my boyfriend of two years. That was two years ago and I still really wish that it wouldn’t have happened…

  13.  by  loa

    I wish you wouldn’t disgrace Marilyn in this like that. At that young, that age, nothing can be true enough to be real.
    Next time, don’t give the prostitot a disease. They have to live with it a lot longer than you after all.

  14.  by  Gemini

    I am… a good bit older than you at this point, but I am the younger half of a relationship with a 19 year age gap.

    And he’s one of the best I’ve ever had.

  15.  by  Simiana

    Im a 19 yr old girl dating a 15 yr old boy were truley deeply in love he would do any thing for me. Sometimes i jus think of what other people say or would say about me when they know our age is this relationship wrong. I don’t know what to think sometimes. I mean is it so wrong to date someone of this age. If your in love. I don’t wanna lose him. As well as him the same for me

  16.  by  Simiana

    I love him alot wat can i say Im a 19 yr old girl dating a 15 yr old boy were truley deeply in love he would do any thing for me. Sometimes i jus think of what other people say or would say about me when they know our age is this relationship wrong. I don’t know what to think sometimes. I mean is it so wrong to date someone of this age. If your in love. I don’t wanna lose him. As well as him the same for me

  17.  by  Ashman

    All these basterds so lucky im 15 and wish to have an 18 year old hotie

  18.  by  Latoya

    I’m 18 and dating this 15 year old boy, we where so much inlove and our age difference seem 2 not affect as in any way. But I told him they’ll be no sex until he’s much older, 17 or 18 I think, its gona be hard 4 him I knw :), buh love is more than just getting physical. I don’t mind waiting at all for him :)

  19.  by  Awkward Giraffe

    If your state has a Romeo and Juliet clause, the statutory thing shouldn’t be an issue. The STD thing, on the other hand…

  20.  by  Awkward Giraffe

    For high school relationships, in my opinion freshman are off limits to anyone older than a sophmore, not because 14/15 year olds are necessarily less mature, but because they are adapting to a new environment and are much more vulnerable then they otherwise would be. This becomes less of an issue as the year goes on, though if you’re worried about how you’ll be percieved, you may want to wait until the year is over before persuing a relationship. Beyond that, it’s mostly just a question of maturity. As long as you’re both on the same level mentally and emotionally, go for it.

  21.  by  #Swaqq

    I’m a 15 year old guy and I’m dating a 19 year old girl and idgaf what anybody else says. We dont have sex. We just kiss and that’s it is there something wrong with that? We love eachother :)

  22.  by  itzel

    I am 18 years old girl and I like a 16 years old boy :/ he does not know about my feelings but I want to wait at least one more year. I hope he does not get a girlfriend by then :)

  23.  by  Anon

    Well I have a mind boggler.. I dont know if i quite like this guy.. hes 15 im 18..He great. Funny,likes the same things as I do.. He even can hold amazing conversations… I just feel so happy talking to him.. I mean i have issues with relationships period.. they never work out..
    Well either way.. Hes a great guy we dont live near each other but I met him through a skype based group chat through friends on Minecraft…The whole group is younger then me but more then a few of them are smart and have good heads on there shoulders. My issue is have been on this server for around 2-3 weeks almost every day skyping with the group and sometimes just him. My feelings are so mixed because he is younger then me..I personally act childish and due to that I get mistaken for a younger age sometimes.. or when im mature i get mistaken for being older!! (bleh).. I know this is just me rambling.. I just would hate to see a opportunity for a chance at love to go by…
    My one thing im actually sure about in my life choices is wanting to find the right person so I can have someone there… and be there for that person.

  24.  by  Sia

    I’m a 19 year old girl ,I skateboard I met a guy skating 3 years ago then he was 12 I never looked at him until this year and it’s weird but I love him he’s 15 and I want to be with him but some people who noticed our to close friendship said some hurtful things to me in a fb message like I’m a pedo and I’m not I didn’t mean to start to have feelings for him .we are just so much a like and he is mature for his age. I know he feels uncomfortable too I can tell but when it’s just me and him we are happy . We haven’t had sex and I told him when he’s 17 he laughed and simply said soon enough. We r just great friends I don’t know what to do?!!!!

  25.  by  mehran

    i am 20 yearz old and my galfrnd is 27 yearz old we both felt in love

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  27.  by  Bballbaby

    I am an 18 Year old girl and in love with a 15 year old boy. Ive been through relationships and have never felt the way I do with him. Im not someone to get butterflies, but when it comes to him..I cant stop them. Our issue is my parents will not allow it. They said its not morally correct and I need to be with someone older. I dont want to though.His parents are completly okay with it. Im happy when I am with him and I know he cares. I dont know how to convince my parents?

  28.  by  7/1/13

    I’m dating a 14 year old and I’m 20.
    We don’t have sex, we kiss occasionally. We act more like best friends then anything, we make each other happy and people me all the time that we are perfect for each other, my whole family loves him & all know he loves me just by the way he is when he’s around me, I love him so much & I have tried dating other guys just ain’t never worked out, then I meet him & I have never been more happier or in love in my whole life, I couldn’t honestly imagine my life without him, we have been talking a lot bout our future together, marriage, kids…etc. I know he is young but he mainly brings up those conversations, hell he has even told my dad he was being serious about marrying me:) Anyways, Age is just a number, if your happy with someone don’t let other people’s opinions break you guys up or whatever, as long as your happy, that’s all that should matter. I love my boyfriend more then life it’s self, he was my best friend for 2 years before we started talking bout dating. He still is my best friend, I talk to him about everything. Literally. He talks to me about all his problems as well. Just fuck what others have to say, if your happy, that’s good. :)

  29.  by  Katherine

    Wow, I love to see that I’m not the only one. At the beginning of my relationship, both my parents and his did not want us to be together. I told my mom that I am 18 and can make my own decisions, so she said she wouldn’t step in my way. His mom found out about me being 18, and demanded that he break up with me because of our 3 year age difference. We dated in secret, at school, and she had met me several times without knowing who I was. One day she found out, and told my boyfriend that she will not stand in his way, and will support him in his choices. I have now hung out with his family a lot, and really love them.. his sisters grandma, aunt mom and dad.. they are already like my second family, and support me… luckily, my best friend also is dating a guy younger than her, and yes, people say hurtful things, but I don’t let it bother me… I still remember how scared I was that we would have to break up, but things eventually fell into place, and I’m glad they did, and that my boyfriend didn’t leave me when he was told to. Don’t let anyone tell you who you can and can’t love.

  30.  by  G.A

    I’m amazed to know that I’m not the only one out there who feels this way… Recently, I (currently 18 years old) have a crush on a 14-year-old boy – he has a buff physique (surprisingly a much bigger built than most guys his age lol) – he’s cute and all; we’ve chatted several times and I find him interesting and witty (not to mention his expressive gestures). Initially I thought that he was just a quiet guy, but through those talks we had… I realized that I’m getting attracted to him – and crushing big time too – I’ve never ever dated before, but just noticing how his gaze would follow me (goodness, I even accidentally caught him staring straight at me on my camera when I was getting a shot of a scenery) and that playful smirk of his, my mind is instantly filled with him and my heart races fast, knowing how close we were to each other…
    It’s just a crush, thou I’ve always been afraid of falling in love (older guys kinda creep me out); this time my heart’s beating for a younger guy. Oh my.. I’m even considering asking him out for Prom (thou he’ll be 15 by then). I’m so confused.. How should I be feeling? Is this right? Should he be my first? I could really use some advice here..

  31.  by  cheerleader1455

    I’m an 18 year old dating 15 year old. I love him deeply. I’ve had multiple boyfriends and none have made me as happy as he does. We do t have sex and we won’t bc I want to wait till I’m married and he knows and respects that. My parents are completely against it but I refuse to break up with him. My mothers been saying she gunna get me for statitory rape and she’s taken my truck and everything. But I love this boy like no other and he loves me as well neither of us want to be without the other and his parents approve of us and believe we are great together. So i don’t care what people say I will continue to be with him until he says he doesn’t want me .. which may never happen but you never know unless you try.

  32.  by  Amber

    I am 19 and my boyfriend…Well ex boyfriend was 15 when we started dating and he still is now.I was 18 at the time and we were both really in love.I had never been in love before like I had with him.But our relationship only lasted a few months.We had to keep it a secret because everyone we knew would freak out if they found out.But thats what led us to break up.I’m still deeply in love with him and still not over him.Its been 7 months.

  33.  by  liz

    Thank God I’m not alone in this. I’m a 22 year old girl, dating a 16 year old guy. I didn’t mean for it to happen. But you know how feelings are, they’re hard to control and they make things so confusing. It started over the summer. He basically lived at my aunt’s house and I would be there everyday. I guess I’m just naïve because I didn’t realize he liked me. I thought he was cute, but would never make any advances because HELLO he was 16! But we started hanging out more and getting closer. I kept telling myself, this isn’t right because he’s younger and in society’s eyes, it’s wrong and sick. Well, FUCK THAT! I feel completely happy and I’m myself with him. He loves me and I love him. And that’s pretty much all that matters.

  34.  by  markus smokester

    im 14 my gf is 19 we are deeply in love we haven’t had sex but she wants to i want to the age is getting in the way (don’t comment “your to young or it’s illegal or you’ll regret it or ect. plz”)

  35.  by  Taylor

    I’ve totally fallen for my best friend, who happens to be 15.. I just turned 19 in September… He’s seriously the best thing that’s ever happened to me and I’m so glad to have him in my life. But i’m afraid for us to become anything more because of societies views on age differences.

  36.  by  Gazi

    Guys,its right to chose decisions and i dont see anything wrong with your feelings,GOD made everyone with the same materials so there is no difference in dating as long as you know the feelings you have for each other which is greater than ages and you know love is blind which does not know boundaries it passes through it crazily and nothing can stop it .What you do is your own right which your love feels,so do your own thing.

  37.  by  SaberGurl

    I just turned 18. My boyfriend has been 15 for a few months now. When I was seventeen I found that I was finding myself crushing on him. When I found out he felt the same way, we fell in love. I did not know his age till he had his 15th birthday four months before mine.
    We were dating for eight months until he finally got up the nerve to give me a kiss on New Year’s Eve. I planned on continuing my education in college. When I told where I was going, it turned out he is a super genius and going to the same college I was in the same year. My parents were relieved, because they think I am attracted to success.
    I have grown up with very wonderful parents who support me in everything I do, so they are not offended by the age differences. I am also friends with my boyfriend’s parents and they support my relationship with their son 100%.
    The reason I am making this post is that this is my first boyfriend. I have no idea if this relationship will last, but I feel like I am in love with him. I believe in waiting till marriage for intercourse, and he grew up in a family which taught him to be a perfect gentleman. I grew up being self reliant, but I am also slightly childish. My boyfriend is teaching me to be more mature and considerate of the other gender.

  38.  by  anonymous

    I am a 15 year old guy dating a 22 year old girl and neither one of us could be happier because we are truly in love with each other

  39.  by  sharleene

    Its cool,dating someone younger is not always a bad thing. NOWERE in the bible says that you should date someone older,look at celebs some date but they are still famous, gone are the days were women were expected to date older ppl,im 18 dating a14 year old, (PS :IF OLDER GUYS HIT ON YOU,TELL THEM TO F***OFF, TELL THEM THEY ARE TOO OLD,4U

  40.  by  lovlyii mottu

    Guyz i am boy 18yrz old..thr iz no prblm against me,,u al making mañy mistakez.u al r doing..bt i knw thr iz no way to relief the paiñ of love,here my problm iz..i hv a lovr..samé. age f myn..v love each other fr many yearz..bt no sex materz done in our love.i dnt knw why,..

  41.  by  sam

    I am a 19 year old girl dating a 15 yr old boy. He is my brothers friend and we obviously met through him. He started coming over my house a lot because him and my brother always hung out. At first I didn’t think he was all that cute but as he kept coming over and spending time with me I began to see him liking me and then he told me he did and I didn’t really think much of it because he is 15! I began catching feelings and one day at the park he just went for it and kissed me. Ever since then we have been seeing each other behind everyone’s back, it’s a shame because I feel very strongly about him and I wish I could bring him over for the holidays and be with his family as well. I really hope nothing brakes us apart because our bond is strong and when I turn 100 and he is 97 it won’t really matter. Right ?

  42.  by  Zach

    I’m 16 and my friend and I were playing foot ball at a school near my house saw 19/18 yr old girls that were pretty cute and one of them seemed sad and two of her friends were trying to cheer her up my friend is 4 months older than I am so when we were playing catch we didnt mean to but we got the girls attention they said HEY COME OVER HERE WE NEED TO ASK YOU SOMTHING and I was like … Ok so we went they said they were trying to Cheer up there friend and my friend pointed out the 2 empty wild tukrey 101 alcohol WHISEY and they still had a full one and they were smoking majuanna so my friend was talking to them and not even 20 mins the 18 yr old drunk girl kisses my friend i was like what then the 19 asked if we were virgins i was like uhh and my friend said yep so I obviously said yes the 18 year old whispers to him lets go on the roof of the school so we did and thats when they grabbed their stuff brought up to two roof and they laid the blanket down pushes us to he ground and had their way the 19 year old pinned me down and her friend was switching from me and my friend sitting on our faces the blanket was not thick enough and I hurt me head and it was good until they started putting the condom on us and then teased us and finally after 10 mins we started to have sex after that and our point of climax the 19 year old took off my condom and Layied down and said put it in and I was stupid enough so I did this is the first time I am talking about it and idk if its wrong or not I’m just confused -_-

  43.  by  Brent

    I am a 15 year old boy and like a 19 year old girl. Im not sure if she knows. One time we were at a party for my best friend who is her ex boyfriend. He is 20 in a couple of months. During the party, she asked me if I wanted to take a drive in her car, out of everybody, just asks me. I said sure. So were driving around and were talkin, and it was cool just us 2 hanging out. Were driving and talking for about a half hour before we got back. It was funny when we got back everybody was like, “whoah what were u two doing.” And later she asked me to walk her to her car when she was leaving. As we were walkin it was killing me to know what was gonna happen. Of course right as we got outside there was cake smeared all over her car by her ex. So she screamed, had a fight with him, and left. Til this day, I have no idea what she was gonna say. I have no idea if I should tell her how I feel or what to do. Advice would be great

  44.  by  fifi

    I’m a 19 year old girl dating a 14 year old boy. He turns 15 in January , we met a couple months ago & it wasn’t my intention to catch feelings but it happened. I really like him but everybody has such negative things to say. His dad is ok with us dating but his mom thinks imma cougar & up till today my mom thinks I should back off until he’s 18. Idk what to do , im falling for him & 3 years is so far away. Wish I didn’t care what people thought but I do. Any advice??

  45.  by  SaberGurl

    I’m still 18, and my boyfriend has just turned 16. I understand what is like to be called a ‘cougar.’ I do not consider myself or anyone this, unless there is a significant age difference (more than 10 years), or a significant maturity difference.
    My advice to anyone whose mother disproves of the relationship, is to wait awhile and see if the feelings subside. Before I started dating my boyfriend, (he was 14, and I was 17 at that time), I took several months in order to process my feelings, and I told him to think about his feelings and focus on what would be important to him.
    Dating a younger guy should not be based solely on feelings, time together and similarities in hobbies should be an important factor. One thing I found about dating, (I have only been dating this one guy, so it might be with every man) communication is very important and can be frustrating when only one person puts in the all the effort. Make sure that both of you are mature enough for the relationship.
    I always recommend this to everyone: Do not do anything sexual with anyone until you both are of age as long as you are dating. Do not feel pressured to do anything you do not want to do. Be true to your heart, and focus on the positives. Love when it is mature, is a wonderful thing (mature love is when two people can be together and talk without doing anything). I hope that this may help someone, sorry about the length of this, though.

  46.  by  Shelby

    Okay so I’m 18 and my boyfriend is 15…I’m so in love with him he means the world to me but the police says if I have contact with him I can go to jail. I’m scared

  47.  by  Bree

    Oh my gosh I thought I was the only one I’m 17 year old girl and love a 15 year old he turns 16 in January he’s an amazing guy he can make me laugh and just seriously happy like no other but he hasn’t told his parents and I haven’t told mine yet I don’t know why I feel so awkward and weird because of the age difference… I have no clue how to deal with this.

  48.  by  bri

    I am 20 years old and in love with a 14 year old.
    Yes, you read that right. I just got out of a 4 year relationship… and my brother had this supposedly ‘gay’ friend that likes to hang out with him a lot. Let’s just say feelings between us started bubbling… I hate to mess with this because he’s so young and vulnerable at that age. Remembering myself at that age scares me to think dating a 20 year old would be okay. But now… I can’t really help it. We love each other and that’s all that matters. <3

  49.  by  17

    I’m a 17 year old girl and i’m in love with a 13 year old boy. He’s gonna be a freshman by the time i graduate. Is that weird? I mean i like him and he likes me too, but we don’t want to be together because we’re afraid of what people will say. Also my little brother is best friends with him and he doesn’t know we’ve been talking for the past 4 months. My little brother will totally rat me out if he finds out. Help me please!?!

  50.  by  Boni

    I’m a 17 year old girl and I think I’m getting feelings for a 13 year old boy. He’s just such a lovable person, we get on really well, I feel like myself around him. He can always make me laugh. We have knoe each other for about 6 years.We spent 3 days together at an event and we were always together hugging and making each other lauhh. I think he feels the same about me, but I’m not sure about the hole thing because of the age difference. I really don’t know what to do…

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