Comments on: My best friend and I recently stopped talking. http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/ Tell us your secret Fri, 10 Feb 2012 05:16:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Kay http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-16144 Kay Fri, 06 Jan 2012 18:13:01 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-16144 I love my best friend but he is "in love" with me. We're still best friends as I couldn't stand being without him. He is the constant in my life when many of my other "best friend" relationships turned to shit. It may be selfish to hold on to him when we feel differently and I hope dearly it doesn't hurt him but he is truely my best friend and I could not be without him. I love my best friend but he is “in love” with me. We’re still best friends as I couldn’t stand being without him. He is the constant in my life when many of my other “best friend” relationships turned to shit. It may be selfish to hold on to him when we feel differently and I hope dearly it doesn’t hurt him but he is truely my best friend and I could not be without him.

]]> By: Sarah http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-15375 Sarah Thu, 13 Oct 2011 07:14:58 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-15375 I don't know if I should say sorry or congratulations. I also lost my best and dearest friend about two years ago. I realized we had grown apart into two separate people and we slowly drifted apart. I was lonely for awhile but I didn't really miss her. But then I met my current best friend and I couldn't be any happier. She is truly the best thing that's ever happened to me. We're like two halves of a whole, the same, different, complementary. Don't worry. I'm sure you'll find another friend who's even better than the last. I don’t know if I should say sorry or congratulations. I also lost my best and dearest friend about two years ago. I realized we had grown apart into two separate people and we slowly drifted apart. I was lonely for awhile but I didn’t really miss her. But then I met my current best friend and I couldn’t be any happier. She is truly the best thing that’s ever happened to me. We’re like two halves of a whole, the same, different, complementary. Don’t worry. I’m sure you’ll find another friend who’s even better than the last.

]]> By: Lisi http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-15317 Lisi Sun, 09 Oct 2011 03:01:14 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-15317 im in love with my best friend. she and i met in 4th grade. im in 8th now.i am not sure if she would be bisexual. if i ask her and she says yes, she will be my first love. im in love with my best friend. she and i met in 4th grade. im in 8th now.i am not sure if she would be bisexual.

if i ask her and she says yes, she will be my first love.

]]> By: Aine http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-15060 Aine Sun, 04 Sep 2011 23:45:14 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-15060 Me too... And I miss her every day, but I will never forgive her Me too… And I miss her every day, but I will never forgive her

]]> By: loa http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-14964 loa Tue, 23 Aug 2011 00:40:18 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-14964 Then they weren't your best friend. Don't try to pretend. Then they weren’t your best friend.
Don’t try to pretend.

]]> By: claire http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-14726 claire Sun, 24 Jul 2011 08:16:44 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-14726 i "broke up" with my best friend of four years, and it was the worst choice I've ever made. i miss her. i “broke up” with my best friend of four years, and it was the worst choice I’ve ever made. i miss her.

]]> By: some one http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-14042 some one Wed, 04 May 2011 23:40:26 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-14042 i always screwed up all my "best friend" relationships i still dont mind i always screwed up all my “best friend” relationships

i still dont mind

]]> By: Meg http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-13762 Meg Thu, 07 Apr 2011 13:36:10 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-13762 I know what you mean. My "best friend" of five years recently out of nowhere just stopped talking to me. Since then I've realized it was never a good friendship because I was always there for him but could never rely on him to be there for me. I feel so much better now! I know what you mean. My “best friend” of five years recently out of nowhere just stopped talking to me. Since then I’ve realized it was never a good friendship because I was always there for him but could never rely on him to be there for me. I feel so much better now!

]]> By: opal http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-13566 opal Sat, 19 Mar 2011 20:42:13 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-13566 I have this friend, shes my best friend and last year we were pretty much inseparable,I gave up all chances of hanging out with anyone else to be there for her, she would do most of the talking (complaining mostly) and I didn't really mind cause I'm quiet anyway. this year though we had a fight, she hand started to do some hardcore drugs and I kept reminding her about when she freaked out because one of her other friends did weed. we didn't talk for a week...i finally apoligized for acting like her mother and I thought we were good... now we never hang out and I feel like she's just cast me off like an old coat... I miss her so much and now I have no one when things are actually starting to get hard... she was self centered and some times a little thick but she was all I had. I have this friend, shes my best friend and last year we were pretty much inseparable,I gave up all chances of hanging out with anyone else to be there for her, she would do most of the talking (complaining mostly) and I didn’t really mind cause I’m quiet anyway.
this year though we had a fight, she hand started to do some hardcore drugs and I kept reminding her about when she freaked out because one of her other friends did weed.
we didn’t talk for a week…i finally apoligized for acting like her mother and I thought we were good… now we never hang out and I feel like she’s just cast me off like an old coat… I miss her so much and now I have no one when things are actually starting to get hard… she was self centered and some times a little thick but she was all I had.

]]> By: Chels http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-13100 Chels Thu, 17 Feb 2011 20:51:19 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-13100 I wish i had the guts to do this. My best friend treats me like crap most of the time and usually pushes me to the back burner. I'm usually her go to girl if she has no other plans and it makes me feel terrible. Good job for having the guts to actually do what i've been trying to do for over a year now. I wish i had the guts to do this. My best friend treats me like crap most of the time and usually pushes me to the back burner. I’m usually her go to girl if she has no other plans and it makes me feel terrible. Good job for having the guts to actually do what i’ve been trying to do for over a year now.

]]> By: Parrotedsecrets http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-12529 Parrotedsecrets Sun, 16 Jan 2011 19:04:58 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-12529 It seems like breaking up with a best friend is about the same as breaking up with a boy friend. I find that interesting. It seems like breaking up with a best friend is about the same as breaking up with a boy friend. I find that interesting.

]]> By: Vi http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-12271 Vi Mon, 03 Jan 2011 06:47:59 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-12271 The same thing happened to me. My "best friend" treated me like garbage for years. She shared my secrets with other people, ridiculed and judged me as often as she could, tried to control me, and acted as if she was superior to me...all the while referring to me as her "sister." When I finally stopped talking to her she wrote me a nasty letter. In it she accused me of being the sole reason as to why our friendship fell apart (using as much lingo she could remember from freshman psychology). I never answered her letter, she doesn't deserve a response. She's so delusional I don't think that she'll ever realize the reason I stopped being her friend is because of how she treated me. Now that I'm on my own, I'm elated! That horrible experience has helped me to realize it's better to be alone and happy than having someone to hang out with and be miserable. The same thing happened to me. My “best friend” treated me like garbage for years. She shared my secrets with other people, ridiculed and judged me as often as she could, tried to control me, and acted as if she was superior to me…all the while referring to me as her “sister.” When I finally stopped talking to her she wrote me a nasty letter. In it she accused me of being the sole reason as to why our friendship fell apart (using as much lingo she could remember from freshman psychology). I never answered her letter, she doesn’t deserve a response. She’s so delusional I don’t think that she’ll ever realize the reason I stopped being her friend is because of how she treated me. Now that I’m on my own, I’m elated! That horrible experience has helped me to realize it’s better to be alone and happy than having someone to hang out with and be miserable.

]]> By: Noodle http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-11988 Noodle Sun, 21 Nov 2010 06:26:05 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-11988 I pretty much told my supposed "Best Friend" off about 6 months after being in college. She was loud and would feed off of anything remotely intelligent (few and far between in high school, lol)I would say, like a leech, then repeat it louder and frequently to make it sound like it was her idea. When people would laugh at me, she would laugh with them. Whenever she needed emotional support, I was there. Whenever I needed emotional support, she was busy. She would ignore me until I would stop trying to make contact, then "hey! What are you doing?!". I finally just shot her a message telling her psuedo-religious, whiny butt to quit complaining all the time, and actually follow the bible she so proudly proclaimed to believe. I wish we had left on better terms, but I don't regret not being her 'friend' anymore. She was a brat. I pretty much told my supposed “Best Friend” off about 6 months after being in college. She was loud and would feed off of anything remotely intelligent (few and far between in high school, lol)I would say, like a leech, then repeat it louder and frequently to make it sound like it was her idea. When people would laugh at me, she would laugh with them. Whenever she needed emotional support, I was there. Whenever I needed emotional support, she was busy. She would ignore me until I would stop trying to make contact, then “hey! What are you doing?!”. I finally just shot her a message telling her psuedo-religious, whiny butt to quit complaining all the time, and actually follow the bible she so proudly proclaimed to believe. I wish we had left on better terms, but I don’t regret not being her ‘friend’ anymore. She was a brat.

]]> By: GB http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-11582 GB Sun, 24 Oct 2010 03:25:50 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-11582 My "best friend" and I stopped talking a month ago, but the relationship fell apart about 4 or 5 months ago. This is the happiest I have been since I was in grade 5, actually. My “best friend” and I stopped talking a month ago, but the relationship fell apart about 4 or 5 months ago. This is the happiest I have been since I was in grade 5, actually.

]]> By: parrotedsecrets http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-11533 parrotedsecrets Tue, 19 Oct 2010 07:24:48 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-11533 Yeah me too... earlier this year I finally found a good reason to stop talking to my BFF of 6 years... It's been 6 months since I last talked with her... and even though I still think about her every day, I couldn't be happier to be rid of that phony relationship. Yeah me too… earlier this year I finally found a good reason to stop talking to my BFF of 6 years… It’s been 6 months since I last talked with her… and even though I still think about her every day, I couldn’t be happier to be rid of that phony relationship.

]]> By: Ash http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-11427 Ash Tue, 12 Oct 2010 00:31:17 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-11427 That's more because of what you were doing though when you were living together, I don't agree with this advice, I have lived with my best friend for a year and we are better because of it. That’s more because of what you were doing though when you were living together, I don’t agree with this advice, I have lived with my best friend for a year and we are better because of it.

]]> By: Olya http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-11320 Olya Sat, 02 Oct 2010 04:16:07 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-11320 as long as you're happy as long as you’re happy

]]> By: A http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-11183 A Thu, 23 Sep 2010 06:11:03 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-11183 i still cry myself to sleep every couple nights i still cry myself to sleep every couple nights

]]> By: A http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-11182 A Thu, 23 Sep 2010 06:09:59 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-11182 i wish i wasn't the so-called "best friend". it hurts even more knowing that he wasn't even sad when he left me. i cried myself to sleep for a week after that. its been a month and i miss him more then ever and hate myself for being the reason he left. i have never felt this much pain in my entire life nor have i cared more about him then anyone in the world (including my family) the worst part is that he works with me and we have the same friends every time i see him i go home even more depressed then i already am. i wish i wasn’t the so-called “best friend”. it hurts even more knowing that he wasn’t even sad when he left me. i cried myself to sleep for a week after that. its been a month and i miss him more then ever and hate myself for being the reason he left. i have never felt this much pain in my entire life nor have i cared more about him then anyone in the world (including my family) the worst part is that he works with me and we have the same friends every time i see him i go home even more depressed then i already am.

]]> By: B http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10958 B Wed, 01 Sep 2010 20:54:27 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10958 I wish this was me. I want rid of my so-called "best friend" so badly it hurts. I think I hate her... But she needs me. I wish this was me. I want rid of my so-called “best friend” so badly it hurts. I think I hate her…

But she needs me.

]]> By: Rocky Rocker http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10828 Rocky Rocker Mon, 23 Aug 2010 20:24:37 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10828 i have recently fund myself in the scariest situation that i have ever faced, so natually i went to my best friend (since the 4th grade). Only to find out from another friend that doesnt even know her that she went and told my exhusband.im lucky that he is the person that he is because he could have made things much worse. I had never felt more hurt or alone. Luckly I have an amazing lil sister that was by my side when i jus wanted to give up. There is no way i could ever repay her! I love you so much! thank you for everything. i have recently fund myself in the scariest situation that i have ever faced, so natually i went to my best friend (since the 4th grade). Only to find out from another friend that doesnt even know her that she went and told my exhusband.im lucky that he is the person that he is because he could have made things much worse. I had never felt more hurt or alone. Luckly I have an amazing lil sister that was by my side when i jus wanted to give up. There is no way i could ever repay her! I love you so much! thank you for everything.

]]> By: Ivory http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10713 Ivory Fri, 13 Aug 2010 21:40:30 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10713 I was in exact same situation for a year since my best friend and I spilt up after HS graduation and went to different colleges. She turned into different person so I was, too. And lately she was so judgemental and acts like she knows it all because she is completely serious about her life and I am not. I am tired of having to lie to her all of time to not be judged now we aren't longer best friends and I've been never happier... but I am going very difficult situation right now and don't have a best friend, I am pretty much alone so I think I maybe I wanted to take her back again. I was in exact same situation for a year since my best friend and I spilt up after HS graduation and went to different colleges. She turned into different person so I was, too. And lately she was so judgemental and acts like she knows it all because she is completely serious about her life and I am not. I am tired of having to lie to her all of time to not be judged now we aren’t longer best friends and I’ve been never happier…

but I am going very difficult situation right now and don’t have a best friend, I am pretty much alone so I think I maybe I wanted to take her back again.

]]> By: Holly http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10712 Holly Fri, 13 Aug 2010 19:56:16 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10712 This is the EXACT same situation I have... I haven't talked to my best friend since 2nd grade since high school graduation, she was insecure so she tried to bring me down with mean rumors and lies, and she tried to drag me into her new life of drinking and partying (unsuccessfully) >:( After graduation we just stopped talking. I love not having to deal with her. All my friends didn't like when she tagged along. This is the EXACT same situation I have… I haven’t talked to my best friend since 2nd grade since high school graduation, she was insecure so she tried to bring me down with mean rumors and lies, and she tried to drag me into her new life of drinking and partying (unsuccessfully) >:( After graduation we just stopped talking. I love not having to deal with her. All my friends didn’t like when she tagged along.

]]> By: Butterfly http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10634 Butterfly Sun, 08 Aug 2010 06:10:49 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10634 I can totally relate. I cut off my best friend of 4 years after graduating this year. She was convinced she was a gift to the world and even threatened physical harm if I didn't stay in touch with her while at college. Now none of our other friends will talk to her either. She got what she deserved and I finally feel like myself again. I can totally relate. I cut off my best friend of 4 years after graduating this year. She was convinced she was a gift to the world and even threatened physical harm if I didn’t stay in touch with her while at college. Now none of our other friends will talk to her either. She got what she deserved and I finally feel like myself again.

]]> By: HeartBroken http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10620 HeartBroken Fri, 06 Aug 2010 17:17:42 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10620 My moms best friend calls me fat. I just want her to dump her already. She is really bad into drugs and my mom always takes her in no matter how shitty she treats my mom. My moms best friend calls me fat. I just want her to dump her already. She is really bad into drugs and my mom always takes her in no matter how shitty she treats my mom.

]]> By: Kay http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10602 Kay Wed, 04 Aug 2010 22:51:30 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10602 This recently happened to me as well, and I totally agree with you. It is like a weight has been lifted off me. I wasn't so much her friend as her aliby. I would get txts and emails from her telling me to tell anyone who asked that she was with me the night before....WTF!!! This recently happened to me as well, and I totally agree with you. It is like a weight has been lifted off me. I wasn’t so much her friend as her aliby. I would get txts and emails from her telling me to tell anyone who asked that she was with me the night before….WTF!!!

]]> By: Meg http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10598 Meg Wed, 04 Aug 2010 18:23:34 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10598 I hope this never happens with me and my best friend. We've known each other almost 18 years and I cant ever imagine living without her. I hope this never happens with me and my best friend. We’ve known each other almost 18 years and I cant ever imagine living without her.

]]> By: Heather Marsh http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10575 Heather Marsh Tue, 03 Aug 2010 23:16:51 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10575 Ditto Ditto

]]> By: Nikki http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10547 Nikki Mon, 02 Aug 2010 10:15:21 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10547 I've had the same BFF since 6 th grade...14 years now. She moved in with me as a favor which nearly destroyed our relationship. She saw me do things I should not have been doing and we pretty much avoided each other for the whole year. Luckily we talked it out a few months after moving out. However, I had been replaced. While we still have a special relationship her new BFF is her maid of honor at her upcoming wedding, and apparently the godmother of her future child. While I understand completely why this happened I admit I am very jealous of their relationship. The new BFF is doing all the thing we had talked about growing up. Now I have no BFF aside from my husband. The moral of the story being, if you want to keep you best friend, DO NOT LIVE WITH THEM!!! Someone warned me if that fact prior to us moving in together but I ignored it. Very sound advice. I’ve had the same BFF since 6 th grade…14 years now. She moved in with me as a favor which nearly destroyed our relationship. She saw me do things I should not have been doing and we pretty much avoided each other for the whole year. Luckily we talked it out a few months after moving out. However, I had been replaced. While we still have a special relationship her new BFF is her maid of honor at her upcoming wedding, and apparently the godmother of her future child. While I understand completely why this happened I admit I am very jealous of their relationship. The new BFF is doing all the thing we had talked about growing up. Now I have no BFF aside from my husband.

The moral of the story being, if you want to keep you best friend, DO NOT LIVE WITH THEM!!! Someone warned me if that fact prior to us moving in together but I ignored it. Very sound advice.

]]> By: Sam http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10507 Sam Fri, 30 Jul 2010 19:00:42 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10507 Re: ipax Having a best friend is similar to being in love in that when the friendship ends it can be just as devastating as breaking up with a boy/girlfriend. When you break up with someone you have shared so much of your life with, it hurts about the same, or can be just as liberating. Re: ipax
Having a best friend is similar to being in love in that when the friendship ends it can be just as devastating as breaking up with a boy/girlfriend. When you break up with someone you have shared so much of your life with, it hurts about the same, or can be just as liberating.

]]> By: Linny http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10391 Linny Thu, 22 Jul 2010 10:35:54 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10391 My 'best friend' and I parted company over a year ago. I was always a bit unsure as to what I was getting from the relationship, she had my confidence, my house if she needed a place to sleep/hide/come and cry, in fact I was a bit like a mother when ever she fell out with her own and a husband whenever she fell out with her own and even a boyfriend whenever she fell out with her own etc etc - but thankfully without any sex!! When we argued about my kids, I was relieved to be able to yell at her, and finally put a wedge in the way of continuing our very lop sided friendship. It was like shedding a very uncomfortable skin. I can now concentrate on the real friends in my life. Phew.... My ‘best friend’ and I parted company over a year ago. I was always a bit unsure as to what I was getting from the relationship, she had my confidence, my house if she needed a place to sleep/hide/come and cry, in fact I was a bit like a mother when ever she fell out with her own and a husband whenever she fell out with her own and even a boyfriend whenever she fell out with her own etc etc – but thankfully without any sex!!
When we argued about my kids, I was relieved to be able to yell at her, and finally put a wedge in the way of continuing our very lop sided friendship. It was like shedding a very uncomfortable skin. I can now concentrate on the real friends in my life. Phew….

]]> By: ipax http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10297 ipax Fri, 16 Jul 2010 02:35:25 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10297 I have never had a best friend. I have never had a best friend.

]]> By: tinistini http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10283 tinistini Thu, 15 Jul 2010 03:52:03 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10283 My best friend and I have been friends for 8 years. I love her dearly, but she is very opinionated, judgmental, and always assumes she is right about everything. She also assumes she knows me better than I know myself. For the past several months I have found it easier not to confide in her with my problems. She is moving to another state soon, and I can't say I'm terribly disappointed about it. My best friend and I have been friends for 8 years. I love her dearly, but she is very opinionated, judgmental, and always assumes she is right about everything. She also assumes she knows me better than I know myself. For the past several months I have found it easier not to confide in her with my problems. She is moving to another state soon, and I can’t say I’m terribly disappointed about it.

]]> By: Tara http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10268 Tara Wed, 14 Jul 2010 05:03:08 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10268 I can completely relate to this one. I knew my best friend from 1st grade until we graduated high school. After graduation, I told her what I really thought of her. It's been two years, and it's a little sad but... I don't miss her one bit. She treated me like absolute shit because of her own insecurities. Nobody understood why I stayed friends with her. But I just did, for some stupid reason. I can completely relate to this one. I knew my best friend from 1st grade until we graduated high school. After graduation, I told her what I really thought of her. It’s been two years, and it’s a little sad but… I don’t miss her one bit.

She treated me like absolute shit because of her own insecurities. Nobody understood why I stayed friends with her. But I just did, for some stupid reason.

]]> By: Bianca http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10245 Bianca Tue, 13 Jul 2010 02:44:48 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10245 This exact thing happened to me recently and its the best decision i made. I hated her more and more for months, everything she would say was so against my own morals, believs and felings etc, so i eventually told her i dont like her. We lived together at the time haha. The things she said to me when i told her that, really showed how horrible she is, and always will be. Im so glad to have a person like that out of my life forever!good on u! This exact thing happened to me recently and its the best decision i made. I hated her more and more for months, everything she would say was so against my own morals, believs and felings etc, so i eventually told her i dont like her. We lived together at the time haha. The things she said to me when i told her that, really showed how horrible she is, and always will be. Im so glad to have a person like that out of my life forever!good on u!

]]> By: Del http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10226 Del Sun, 11 Jul 2010 20:20:55 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10226 :( My best friend in high school broke up with me when we graduated. By the end of it, our entire relationship was about drugs and alcohol and being slutty so I guess its good that its over but still part of me wishes that we could watch eachother get better together too. She deleted her facebook, cut all of her friends out of her life. Me and my bf have been going out for a long time he helped me get sober and clean, he is my best friend. But sometimes I still get lonely and I wish I could see what shes doing. I have new friends and better hobbies but I can't help but feel nostalgic :( My best friend in high school broke up with me when we graduated. By the end of it, our entire relationship was about drugs and alcohol and being slutty so I guess its good that its over but still part of me wishes that we could watch eachother get better together too. She deleted her facebook, cut all of her friends out of her life. Me and my bf have been going out for a long time he helped me get sober and clean, he is my best friend. But sometimes I still get lonely and I wish I could see what shes doing. I have new friends and better hobbies but I can’t help but feel nostalgic

]]> By: Jess http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10155 Jess Wed, 07 Jul 2010 23:30:11 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10155 Hey, mine too. And you know what, I'm happier too. Sometimes we have to let go of the weeds that wreck out lives. Good luck finding your own way in the future! Hey, mine too. And you know what, I’m happier too. Sometimes we have to let go of the weeds that wreck out lives. Good luck finding your own way in the future!

]]> By: aniie http://postsecretarchive.com/2010/07/my-best-friend-and-i-recently-stopped-talking/comment-page-1/#comment-10120 aniie Tue, 06 Jul 2010 06:52:25 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=6685#comment-10120 I and my best friend also went through same situation for our good <a href="http://secretzen.com/anonymous/secrets/132600" rel="nofollow">since she stopped talking to me like 2 years ago, everything is worse and pointless now, I miss her so much, she was the bestest friend I've ever had.</a> you also keep this thought in mind.... I and my best friend also went through same situation for our good since she stopped talking to me like 2 years ago, everything is worse and pointless now, I miss her so much, she was the bestest friend I’ve ever had. you also keep this thought in mind….

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