Comments on: i thought you were a good idea

By: cold

cold — Wed, 01 Feb 2012 06:44:28 +0000

Took is what it means.
” he was a good idea, until he took my virginity”
Took as in it was his decision to take…
I’ve been there..
And comment #14, you have completely taken the words from my mouth. Just be glad you
don’t have a baby to remind you of him.

By: Mae

Mae — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 17:39:25 +0000

I lost my virginity to someone who liked to de-virginize girls. He made false promises but i didn’t really like him so i didn’t care when he left for another state. My second was a guy who was a virgin. We were together for three years although i didn’t love him for the last year. I was afraid to break his heart. He left me because he said he was bad for me. I told myself i wouldn’t have sex with someone until i knew we felt mutual love. I had sex with a friend. He now ignores me. I feel stupid and sleazy

By: VG

VG — Sat, 19 Nov 2011 22:26:56 +0000

I gave my virginity to someone that I didn’t care about because I didn’t want to give it to someone that I loved for fear that it wouldn’t work out and I would end up heartbroken like alot of other people do. I have yet to regret my decision and that was 9 years ago…

By: #justaplainjane

#justaplainjane — Wed, 19 Oct 2011 23:11:33 +0000

@womens’ lib? you take offence far too easily, i see where you are coming from but its a well used term, dont read so far into it, its just something people say. i dont exactly think its offensive, so stop picking offence outve everything,i think this is whats hurting society these days, people are far too sensitive, and look for offence in everything. just sayinnnnnn

By: Women's Lib?

Women's Lib? — Fri, 10 Jun 2011 04:21:52 +0000

I take offense to the term “took my virginity”, as it disempowers the person who decided to loose their virginity. It implies that a non-consensual theft has occurred. If you thought she/he was a good idea, and made a decision to have sex with she/he…it seems like you made a decision. Now you regret that decision. It may be helpful to own that decision so that you can move past it and have a great life, instead of victimizing yourself. Unless rape was involved (which I hope to God it was not)…nobody “took” anything from anybody.

By: well fucK

well fucK — Tue, 15 Mar 2011 01:28:34 +0000

virgin win

By: Samantha

Samantha — Mon, 07 Mar 2011 22:02:11 +0000

he used me and showed me off to all his friends to make me feel special. an he did. i knew it wouldnt last forever but i didnt think that it would have ended like it did. now its all they want because they all know that i’ve already done it once

By: kari

kari — Wed, 02 Mar 2011 22:09:58 +0000

been there. >__<

By: same here

same here — Tue, 01 Mar 2011 01:10:26 +0000

if i knew the guy i lost it too was going to leave me after i wouldve saved it.

By: ouch

ouch — Thu, 03 Feb 2011 22:31:17 +0000

I took the virginity of the first (perhaps only) man Ive ever really loved after 4 month of dating. I kept asking if he was sure and we set a special date and everything. It was beautiful and I wished so much he was my first too (only my second mind)… he turned into a total jackass afterwards and tried to get with every girl he could and treated me like shit but i stayed because I loved him. He dumped me a few weeks later and I feel that this could have been the way he thought too, and all his jerky actions could have been him trying to get me to leave him instead of having to break my heart. im a little bit sad now.

By: Ladybug

Ladybug — Tue, 18 Jan 2011 17:20:27 +0000

The man I have been with for almost 2 years took my virginity… all really want to to have sex with everyone else… is that wrong?

By: Ramil Meza

Ramil Meza — Sat, 27 Nov 2010 10:10:40 +0000

oh snap

By: It Doesn't Matter

It Doesn't Matter — Fri, 19 Nov 2010 08:40:07 +0000

You gave me so many reasons of why i should leave you…
but i didn’t want losing my virginity to mean nothing… so i didn’t leave.
I thought that if i stayed with you, things would work out eventually….
but things only got worse. I put the thought of you away in the back of my mind… Hoping to forget everything. But i know i can never truly forget you because of what you took from me.

you were a horrible boyfriend.
i regret everything so much.
you ruined everything for me because everything was already ruined for you.

and i still cry sometimes because of you… even though it was years ago… because i know that if it wasnt for you stealing that from me…

i would still be able to live.

i secretly hope that you’ll get paralyzed from the waste down.

By: Miss Tragedy

Miss Tragedy — Sun, 14 Nov 2010 18:09:20 +0000

This is horrible. I know how that feels.

By: Courtney

Courtney — Sat, 13 Nov 2010 00:43:18 +0000

Aww. I empathize, but I was lucky enough to lose mine to a man I truly loved after a year of dating. We’re still together and I’m happy. I wish that could have happened for this poster.

By: lisa

lisa — Mon, 25 Oct 2010 10:13:15 +0000

By: Amber

Amber — Tue, 05 Oct 2010 01:11:12 +0000

yeah, i feel the same way

By: Dillon K

Dillon K — Thu, 30 Sep 2010 14:56:32 +0000

BUMMER…..

By: jenna

jenna — Wed, 29 Sep 2010 02:14:44 +0000

i feel yah,

By: liedetector

liedetector — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 02:47:12 +0000

Then I thought, “Lemme get some more chili cheese fries.”
Attention whore.

By: lilith

lilith — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 08:27:01 +0000

That sums up my past relationship perfectly.

By: rose

rose — Tue, 24 Aug 2010 07:25:40 +0000

i’m glad i’m not alone.

By: Faye

Faye — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 03:40:12 +0000

I thought it was a good idea, until you took my virginity…

Then I knew.

I love you baby, a little bit more each day.

By: v

Wed, 18 Aug 2010 08:52:05 +0000

this lets me know i’m not the only one.

By: d.

d. — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 20:04:30 +0000

me too!

By: lauren

lauren — Sun, 01 Aug 2010 21:08:03 +0000

i feel the same way.