Comments on: I cheated on my boyfriend with his best friend

By: D.A.

D.A. — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 23:47:45 +0000

I feel sorry for the Boy friend. He is a going to be soo hurt when he finds out. She (and the boyfriends best friend) are terrible people

By: jessi

jessi — Tue, 20 Dec 2011 21:52:35 +0000

I met my fiance because I was sleeping with his friend. I don’t talk to the friend anymore, but my fiance loves me and is ok with what happened.

By: Mav

Mav — Wed, 14 Dec 2011 09:37:52 +0000

Dude … lots of girls think its terrible when guys cheat … come on, man …

By: thegriffin88

thegriffin88 — Sun, 11 Dec 2011 18:51:36 +0000

Haha slut.

By: Anyperson

Anyperson — Sat, 10 Dec 2011 05:45:04 +0000

I just put down two comments as a male and one as a female of basicly what this entire debate is about. representing what most women say and what most men say.

By: AnyGuy

AnyGuy — Sat, 10 Dec 2011 05:43:03 +0000

I dont think any guy would get a high five for this. chick is a whore, slut, bitch and I KNOW every girl that supports this is obviously a cheater. Whore

By: AnyGirl

AnyGirl — Sat, 10 Dec 2011 05:39:27 +0000

I belive its okay that she cheated because it makes me feel better when i do it.I personally like to cheat on my guy often and when i do i hope that no one is judging me for it cause i dont deserve to be judged for hurting other people right? I do not think she should be judged he is a guy she did this to people HE DESERVED IT.

By: adam

adam — Thu, 17 Nov 2011 05:19:27 +0000

As I read this comments I keep telling my self : I’m glad I don’t trust women and vow to never get married… Three out of 5 female comments are agreeing with the women on cheating…
I really did hope to find the one=\

By: Teenuhh

Teenuhh — Mon, 31 Oct 2011 05:12:02 +0000

Same exact thing happened with me.. All I have to say is dont tell him, his “best friend” is an asshole, & you’ll forget about it soon enough. (:

By: SC

SC — Tue, 18 Oct 2011 14:48:46 +0000

I’ll never understand why people dont just end a relationship if they’re cheating… especially if its without regret.

By: somebody19

somebody19 — Sun, 09 Oct 2011 04:52:07 +0000

This happen to me. Not to long ago. I don’t what to do anymore.

By: Rachel

Rachel — Fri, 30 Sep 2011 11:34:19 +0000

People put too much meaning on sex. At the end of the day, It’s just sex, a means to an end, in this case an orgasm. If you truly loved your bf or he was satisfying you, you’d feel guilty or you wouldn’t have done it in the first place. I see no reason to feel bad.

By: franny.

franny. — Thu, 22 Sep 2011 23:33:30 +0000

so, i thought this website was about being able to share your secrets without getting judged.. i am now disappointed and will keep my secret to myself forever.

By: Charlene

Charlene — Thu, 15 Sep 2011 15:18:27 +0000

You people need to shut the hell up.

By: loa

loa — Tue, 23 Aug 2011 00:36:58 +0000

Sloppy seconds, or would it be thirds now?
Bros before hoes- Unless you can share.

By: Jim

Jim — Sat, 30 Jul 2011 09:53:45 +0000

Definitely a whore

By: Penny London

Penny London — Sat, 23 Jul 2011 20:11:39 +0000

You are all thinking about this the wrong way. This isn’t a place to respond to the postee, or ARGUE and tell people how they should feel about said post. It’s just to create a creative, therapeutic way to let go of some things. Everything happens for a reason. Usually it’s to teach you some kind of lesson. Those of you who find her to be so intolerably wrong that you had to post on an anonymous site about it, may just find yourselves in a similar predicament down the road..
If you are intolerant and do not understand someone’s side and motives, someday you will probably end up where they are, just for the purpose of making you understand.
On the other hand, I am a little bit upset by the fact that people wrote such angry and hateful responses here. She is recognizing it was wrong by putting it out there.. there is no point in being disrespectful and angrily commenting about it. Let it be.

By: Catherine

Catherine — Tue, 19 Jul 2011 11:32:44 +0000

i cheated on my ex with his best friend, his GF was my best friend and still is, it is a secret i shall live with forever. No one needs to know and no one needs to go through the same hurt. I am ashamed of wht I did and I feel teriible, Iknow it is wrong and nothing will make it right! And for those of you throwing the word “whore” around you need learn the true meaning of it; “a woman who engages in promiscuous intercourse usually for money like a prostitute”.

I think its time everyone just gets of their high horse, remember you sheit stinks too!

By: Wow.

Wow. — Sat, 16 Jul 2011 06:51:03 +0000

How dare anyone talk badly about secrets, everyone does wrong. You’re mad because you’re effected by something similar.

By: Inbetween

Inbetween — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 00:04:08 +0000

Tho I do not think she should be called a whore, I do believe what she did or is still doing is wrong. I’m sure she would be very hurt and heartbreak if her boyfriend did it to her as anyone would. She should choose which one she wants. You can’t eat your cake and have it too, or however that goes. It’s not fait to anybody.

By: Shae dailey.

Shae dailey. — Tue, 28 Jun 2011 17:10:18 +0000

I made this post secret over a year ago, and just recently have I regretted the choices that I made, and I have moved forward and grown and the man who I cheated on and thought myself to have loved with all my heart, is gone. I am doing fine now in a healthy relationship with a guy who I have no want or need to cheat on. I really don’t think my post is a big deal and for so many to argue over it is silly. Everyones opinion counts but I don’t see the point in shoving it down another persons throat.

By: Wulf

Wulf — Sat, 18 Jun 2011 14:58:03 +0000

This, of all the secrets, *deserves* judgment. We all make mistakes, but the lack of regret makes her a b****.

By: anonymousbubble

anonymousbubble — Tue, 07 Jun 2011 22:00:13 +0000

I agree that this shouldn’t be judged. But cheating isn’t necessarily “getting some.” Because if you wanna sleep with multiple people, then don’t be in a relationship. OR b in an open relationship. It’s not hard to figure out.

By: ...

... — Sun, 22 May 2011 00:02:04 +0000

I really don’t think the point of post secret is to pass judgement on people’s secrets

By: anonymous

anonymous — Wed, 18 May 2011 02:14:26 +0000

I love my boyfriend of 1 year and 5 months with everything in me. I cheated on him 4 months into our relationship. I hate myself. My boyfriend is everything that I have ever wanted. He treats me like a princess, something I’ve always wanted to feel. I don’t know why I cheated. I don’t want to be with anyone else. He is the only person to make me happy. I cry every night knowing that I am everything he has ever wanted. Knowing that he loves me and does so much for me. I cry every night feeling the shame of what I wish I could take back. I didn’t realize how much he meant to me until I realized how life would be if he knew my secret. I’m falling apart.

By: Rachael

Rachael — Mon, 28 Mar 2011 21:18:30 +0000

I did the same way. I yet to this day to regret it. Just keep your head up, cuz there’s nothing more that can be done. It’s over and done with.
I still love him.

By: paradox

paradox — Sat, 19 Mar 2011 02:10:58 +0000

Any of you guys ever stop to think for a minute? whenever you do something you have a reason for doing so. I’m sure that she had a reason for taking the actions she wanted.
Not to mention she posted this one this site, Which to me indicates she has some guilt for what shes done to her what i assume to be ex-boyfriend. She has decided to show this publicly which also shows humility. Are you so naive to think she didn’t expect this nasty entourage of comments from people that apparently don’t have anything better to do than bitch about other peoples life, most likely on the basis there not even satisfied with their own…

By: well fucK

well fucK — Tue, 15 Mar 2011 01:26:56 +0000

What has the world come to when it is admirable and not utterly discusting that someone whores around? Feel sorry for the guy who is dating this bitch:P

By: Peace

Peace — Sun, 06 Mar 2011 23:20:57 +0000

I understand.

By: Just Jess

Just Jess — Tue, 01 Mar 2011 06:43:21 +0000

That’s hot.

By: Sen

Sen — Wed, 09 Feb 2011 06:44:51 +0000

This is true for me too. I’ve only slept with two men in my life.

I cheated on my second with my first.

And I still don’t know why it helped me understand so much about myself.

By: Nancy

Nancy — Sun, 30 Jan 2011 21:38:25 +0000

This debate can go on forever, but unless you know the person who cheated personally I don’t think you have any reason to judge her. I have been cheated on by the person I love, and I still love him, even though we are no longer together. I have also cheated on boyfriends, and do not feel guilty. Because instead of feeling lonely, I felt happy.

By: Slim

Slim — Sun, 23 Jan 2011 17:37:15 +0000

Can none of you read? Clearly the op is a little off-put that she knows she’s done something bad, but has YET to feel the kind of remorse she thinks she should. The card is about questioning where morals come from, and why our feelings sometimes conflict with what we and society have generally accepted as right or wrong.

By: Randy

Randy — Fri, 21 Jan 2011 00:59:13 +0000

Enoculum,

That was very well stated. Thank you.

By: Enoculum

Enoculum — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 22:06:29 +0000

The issue is this ; This site started out as a haven for folks looking for absolution, and catharthic healing from whatever issues they are dealing with. However many people who are devoid of a conscience, remorse, repentance, or decency realize that they too can get relief and benefit from purging themselves here as well.

Based on Sarah Beth’s argument murderers, rapist, child molesters and the like should be able to post here so that they can feel better about themselves although they care nothing about the wake of victims they leave behind.

The woman who originally posted this secret, showed no sign or semblance of remorse. In no way did she give one the impression she felt poorly for what she did, or was concerned about how it may have hurt or damaged others. SO why should others be overly concerned with her feelings?

If we allowed folks like this to post here and then support their actions, we become part of the problem and what is called in psychological terms an “enabler”

By: Randy

Randy — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 19:10:59 +0000

Sarah Beth.
Your reasoning is infantile. It’s no secret that I think you’re an idiot. And pick one first name.

By: Tim

Tim — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 02:05:55 +0000

To Sarah Beth,

Can you not read what is written above? She does not regret what she did nor does she think she made a mistake. First off your correct, it doesn’t say we can judge or bash or talk down to, nor does it say we can’t. If I post something such as this above than i expect a harsh reaction because it’s a shitty thing to do, maybe if she regretted it I wouldn’t be so harsh but she clearly has no respect for anyone but herself, she is SELFISH. The fact is she is a bitch for what she did and there’s no changing that. Your kind of a bitch for cheating as well, someone put their trust in you and expected the truth, and you lied and disrespected them, talk about a double standard. Now you obviously regret what you did and everyone makes mistakes, that doesn’t change the fact that it was wrong. To error is human, it’s how we change that defines us. She’s a Bitch.

By: Sarah Beth

Sarah Beth — Thu, 20 Jan 2011 01:42:39 +0000

This is a website to says your secrets, things you’ve done, things you’ve regretted, things that have changed you. No where does it say you have the right to judge people and belittle their secrets or how they feel. People make mistakes, no one is perfect and I’m sure you’ve done things in your life you wish you hadn’t. I’ve been cheated on, I’ve cheated, and I’ve been the other girl. She’s brave for posting this. She’s not a whore, or a slut, or a skank, or any other name you want to call her. She’s a woman who probably made a big mistake and it’s as simply as that. If you’re going to judge her, you better be sure as hell ready to have people judge you for the things you’ve done in your life.

By: Hello Love

Hello Love — Sat, 15 Jan 2011 21:09:52 +0000

Who are you guys to determine what is moral and what is not? Who are you guys to determine what a whore is? We all live our own lives, we all have our own secrets. I’m sure you wouldn’t want people judging you for a secret, so stfu and stop judging her.

Hasn’t postsecret taught you anything? It’s supposed to be a safe community that accepts any and all of your secrets, no matter how dark they are. Stop tainting it with your hateful comments

By: Lara

Lara — Tue, 04 Jan 2011 22:57:34 +0000

I honestly believe there is supposed to be catharsis in the anonymous sharing of something that a person felt they NEEDED to get off there chest. Everybody on this site is here because they relate. Maybe not to this post, but to something on here. You don’t deserve to be judged and neither does this person. You can look at any post, even a post from somebody considered more of a “victim” but as a rape victim, I can say you will still be called a whore, people who lost someone will still be blamed for not doing all they could, and so on. You wouldn’t want to be attacked for whatever secret you hold. Don’t attack her.

By: Ash

Ash — Tue, 28 Dec 2010 07:10:18 +0000

That is completely unfair. You shouldn’t judge what and who you don’t know.

By: Ramil Meza

Ramil Meza — Sat, 27 Nov 2010 10:08:16 +0000

No he would not! if a dude told me he cheated on his girl i may not say anything to him but he sure as fuck is not getting a high five how much of a feminist are you to believe that? why is it that no matter what the scenerio of these kinds of situations thats always the first and only comment ever made by women. imagine me sayin this in a snobby bitchy voice as i just did reading yours, “if it was a guy they would get a high five” NO THEY WOULDNT!
heres a post secret

sometimes i feel like people that make dumb assumptions should be instantly slapped

By: John Stiles

John Stiles — Fri, 26 Nov 2010 22:23:04 +0000

Well when all is said and done this girl is a bitch plain and simple.

By: jerry

jerry — Thu, 25 Nov 2010 23:14:32 +0000

I have to say as a MAN/GUY it is reverse sexism and prejudice to say that if it were a guy he would be hi-fived.

It saddens me that such a large amount of women feel men are devoid of morality or honor. The same is true of many men these days. I hear that women have agendas and are consummate liars. I find the act NOT the person deplorable and morally bankrupt. If a male friend of mine told me he was sleeping with his girlfriend’s best friend I would find it just as sad and disappointing as I do in this case.

Suddenly this forum becomes a male bashing session? What that tells me is that many people here have a variety of issues. To think so little of me means you are destined to have dysfunctional relationships with men until you come to terms.

The woman here shouldn’t be judged. No man has the right to judge another. Hate the behavior; not the one misbehaving. None of us can walk in someone else’s shoes or know why someone does what they do. Maybe she was abused as a child and promiscuity equates into love for her? That is not uncommon.

Or maybe she simply hasn’t come to terms with what she has done or what it symbolizes. I am guessing she isn’t in love with the man she cheated on, and clearly doesn’t have a healthy respect for him.

Who knows. I do know that men/women who think in such gender profiling and prejudicial terms are simply looking in the wrong place for a mate/lover.

In other words, “Don’t look in the toilet for tangerines”.

By: Kandas

Kandas — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 18:06:48 +0000

your crappy for putting that. people make mistakes its NOT YOUR JOB TO JUDGE.

By: Andrew

Andrew — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 04:39:10 +0000

What person gets together with his best friend’s ex? … And what person fucks his best friend’s girl?

P.s; For all of you people saying “gee don’t call her that”. Listen, if you put this out there, you know shit comes with it. Does it matter? no, it’s anonymous.

By: Katie

Katie — Sun, 14 Nov 2010 21:34:28 +0000

It’s not like they’re married anyway, and maybe he deserved it.

By: Courtney

Courtney — Sat, 13 Nov 2010 00:41:37 +0000

Not all guys would be hive-fived. I think cheating is wrong, regardless of gender. Society may pat boys on the back more readily than girls, but you can’t tell me that her boyfriend isn’t devestated and she ruined a friendship. Anyway you look at it, male or female, gay or straight, its wrong.

By: megen

megen — Fri, 12 Nov 2010 18:43:57 +0000

stfu

By: Betsy

Betsy — Fri, 12 Nov 2010 02:26:18 +0000

Bullshit. Just because we think she should be ashamed doesn’t mean we think it’s okay for a guy. Cheaters are scum, plain and simple.

By: Mick's Yankie Girl

Mick's Yankie Girl — Mon, 08 Nov 2010 12:26:34 +0000

Is this what this site is for? people who harp on someone they don’t even know who is getting something off their chest? you people are pathetic. and, ” happy yet sooo sad”, I’m not saying that it isn’t human to pass judgement.. I’m only saying that there are other websites to do that. It seems sad to me to pick at someone who posted on a website to anonymously reveal one’s secret. Did no one think that some, if not most, might be appalling? Grow Up. Yes, cheating is wrong. It’s not you who’s doing it ( though the amount of response says otherwise… that’s called deflection, kids) So why are you bothering with it? Get over it.

By: Happy yet sooo sad

Happy yet sooo sad — Wed, 27 Oct 2010 15:45:26 +0000

K I am going to do this systematically to the peep who are calling her names such as slut whore ect! I completely agree how dare you play with some ones feelings??

To all of you who are defending her you guys are full of shit! Stop pulling out that non judgement crap we as humans judge fatal flaw if you want to call it that but regardless we all judge live with it!

The people who are pointing out some of the people need to get laid I got laid twice this morning and I am still pissed about this cheating immoral whore so I think you all are full of shit too

And finally to the cheating little bitch how dare you?

By: Marie Micaela

Marie Micaela — Mon, 11 Oct 2010 06:05:41 +0000

I admire the fact that you own up to not regretting your actions. I have a very handsome lover 20 years younger than myself, and I have never felt so desired. I’m 50.

By: Bob

Bob — Fri, 01 Oct 2010 01:36:37 +0000

what kind of guys do you hang out with Rachel?

By: mak

mak — Thu, 30 Sep 2010 17:52:20 +0000

Judging by the comments left here, I wonder why would anyone feel they need to keep secrets. Since we’re all so open and understanding here.

By: Dillon K

Dillon K — Thu, 30 Sep 2010 14:54:19 +0000

Excuse me I would like to comment on “Mads” comment…..EVER HEARD OF….GO FUCK YOURSELF!!!!!

By: Cisher

Cisher — Mon, 27 Sep 2010 04:45:23 +0000

Anyone get the feeling all these angery comments come from possesive guys or people who have been cheated on?

I think if your judging, your taking on all those negitive feelings. Go ahead, im no one to judge and happy.

By: Abbie

Abbie — Wed, 22 Sep 2010 11:52:15 +0000

i wish ppl wuld b nice 2 1 n other ur’re all so judgemental to each other! lyk all of u

ur’re all f***wits

By: John Stiles

John Stiles — Tue, 21 Sep 2010 16:01:30 +0000

I am so proud to have started this massive debate…. but for the record, she’s still a whore

this is also the definition of a whore, as you can see words have more than one meaning, welcome to learning, oh and by the way same place where you got your definition, i saw yours right next to this one. “to seek that which is immoral, idolatrous, etc”

Notice the word immoral, its a big one

By: Jesus

Jesus — Tue, 21 Sep 2010 09:23:47 +0000

to tell you the truth, half of you sound like you need to get laid more often and stop bitching about the people who get more then you!
AND GTFO YOURSELVES!

By: Bob Dole

Bob Dole — Tue, 21 Sep 2010 08:28:51 +0000

And as you can see the dictionary meaning says USUALLY not always so you can still apply the word whore.

By: Mad

Mad — Mon, 20 Sep 2010 12:34:42 +0000

You can tell you haven’t been laid in a long time! you’re getting jealous!

So what if what she did was wrong? does it really matter about the past?
EVER HEARD THE SAYING FORGIVE BUT DON’T FORGET???

the dictionary meaning of whore….
whore: noun, verb, whored, whor·ing.
–noun
1. a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.

last i read it doesn’t say she got paid for anything. Learn the English language and get the f*** over yourself

By: Mad

Mad — Mon, 20 Sep 2010 12:33:50 +0000

You can tell you haven’t been laid in a long time! you’re getting jealous!

the dictionary meaning of whore….
whore: noun, verb, whored, whor·ing.
–noun
1. a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.

last i read it doesn’t say she got paid for anything. Learn the English language and get the f*** over yourself

By: bader

bader — Mon, 20 Sep 2010 02:44:37 +0000

So someone who cheats on her boyfriend with his best friend is not an obvious whore? What reality do you live in?

By: bader

bader — Mon, 20 Sep 2010 02:43:48 +0000

You are a lying whore. These idiots saying “don’t judge her” are just that…idiots. What you did is horrible and there is no excuse.

By: MAD

MAD — Sun, 19 Sep 2010 23:34:35 +0000

this is called a post secret for a reason.
“Frank Warren claims that the postcards are inspirational to those who read them, have healing powers for those who write them, give hope to people who identify with a stranger’s secret, and create an anonymous community of acceptance”

YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO BE CALLING HER A WHORE! YOU’VE NEVER MET HER!!!!

By: MAD

MAD — Sun, 19 Sep 2010 23:29:36 +0000

STOP JUDGING PEOPLE!!!!!!

By: Moree

Moree — Sun, 19 Sep 2010 14:02:17 +0000

The girl who wrote this postcard should’ve wrote more specific things to it. Like what’s going on with her boyfriend. She obviously doesn’t even love him or doesn’t understand yet how much she loved him. I held something like this inside for so long and its not worth it. I just fell more and more in love with my boyfriend So it would hurt more when he left me because of what I did. And I still fall more and more for him every second of every day since the first time I saw him. And he’ll never even know that. We were together for so long, and I should’ve kept up the faith we always had. I’m a fucking slut. Any guy who did this wouldn’t find a girlfriend for so long. Any guy who did this would be recieve the same treatment or worse. Other then a few people who blamed it on my boyfriend, at least 10 different people sent me things and wrote constanly to me about how much I am the filth of the world.

By: jordan

jordan — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 23:00:55 +0000

Yea, they stone, women, not men. Whats the difference?

Its wrong, and your wrong.

By: Bogna

Bogna — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 03:06:19 +0000

Exactly. Double standards in such situations were the main subject of my Bachelor’s degree work.

By: JExter

JExter — Wed, 15 Sep 2010 19:54:40 +0000

Your a fucking dumb ass….i guy would not be high fived at all. Stop basing all your comments on what u see in movies. whore

By: Lost Hope

Lost Hope — Sun, 12 Sep 2010 19:04:34 +0000

Agreed. As a guy, it still disturbs me when my fellow men cheat and consider it glorified. They have all lost respect that they will never get back.

By: Whodat

Whodat — Sun, 05 Sep 2010 01:54:45 +0000

I’ve done the same. I broke up my now ex’s and his bf’s friendship as well as lost the love of my life. Moral to the story- think long and hard before you act long and hard. It’s not worth it. I guess I’ll go back to my husband now…

By: Guy

Guy — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 02:34:43 +0000

I’m a guy and I think that other guys who cheat while in committed relationships are also sluts and whores. **People can get hurt**

By: Randy

Randy — Sun, 29 Aug 2010 09:30:25 +0000

And my final comment for the “people shouldn’t judge” crowd. I sincerely hope you’re all on the wrong end of this exact situation. That way we can all be certain that those with the right kind of tolerance and understanding will be dealing with the situation, thereby lowering the level of heartache, tension, therapy, and assault and battery in the world.

By: Randy

Randy — Sun, 29 Aug 2010 09:26:01 +0000

Hey Kaitlin. The Bible says “Whatever measure you use in judging others, it will be used to measure how you are judged.” If you catch me cheating and then posting about it for the world to see, please conclude that I am a narcissistic jackass.

By: Randy

Randy — Sun, 29 Aug 2010 09:20:39 +0000

Why shouldn’t I judge you? You’re did something faithless and then put it out for the whole world to see. That’s a horrible act. Does it make you a horrible person? No. But I wouldn’t trust you or respect you. if I did the same thing and I expected you to not judge me, still trust and still respect me, I would not be in touch with reality. If you don’t find your way to some remorse, I hope you get exactly what you deserve.

By: f

Sun, 29 Aug 2010 09:00:52 +0000

I did the same thing too..
but i was still in love with my ex.

By: John Stiles

John Stiles — Sat, 28 Aug 2010 16:09:07 +0000

you just did

By: Kaitlin Samantha Berry

Kaitlin Samantha Berry — Sat, 28 Aug 2010 00:20:42 +0000

You know that saying, “Whoever didn’t sin throw the first stone” or some Jesus thing like that?

HEY ALL YOU COMMENTERS: YOU’RE THE ASSHOLES.

I’m not judging.

By: kay

kay — Fri, 27 Aug 2010 19:19:59 +0000

that is so true. why can guys bang 30 girls, and be idolized, but a girl sleeps with like 4 and she a slut..

By: empathetic

empathetic — Thu, 26 Aug 2010 19:10:11 +0000

Just because a person makes a mistake doesn’t mean they should regret what they’ve done. I try to live life without regrets…what can we do about the past anyway? No one here should pass judegement without walking in your shoes, and hopefully sending in your secret allows you to let go of the guilt you may feel, whether or not you’ll ever feel regret.

By: Nathan Bumgarner

Nathan Bumgarner — Wed, 25 Aug 2010 19:03:51 +0000

HAHAHAHA im glad i wasnt the only one who found all the bs comments funny as hell. You know they stone sluts in iran for that type of shit lol

By: Nathan Bumgarner

Nathan Bumgarner — Wed, 25 Aug 2010 19:00:38 +0000

Hello..CUNT!

By: Tiffanie

Tiffanie — Tue, 24 Aug 2010 23:14:45 +0000

Why does this get more response than the cards about people being sexually molested, who are crying out for help?

You made a mistake. Be strong, live on.

By: Ignorance

Ignorance — Mon, 23 Aug 2010 12:22:11 +0000

I did that too.

By: Blaise

Blaise — Sat, 21 Aug 2010 16:20:11 +0000

My secret: I was lucky, my ex and current boyfriend used to be friends and I was sometimes able to have both at the same time. I like bisexual men.

By: Tori

Tori — Fri, 20 Aug 2010 16:41:58 +0000

You NEVER date your friend’s partner. EVER. I’m not sure what guys think about this, but the golden rule that my mother always told me is this: Never date your friend’s ex, even if you ask her and she says you can. She might have feelings for him, and you might seriously wreck your friendship. That guy should have never went out with his friend’s ex, so he shares part of the blame. I get the impression that this girl: A) Went out with his friend to make him jealous. B) Took his best friend because the other guy rejected her. I think that if she doesn’t feel guilty, then she never truly loved or respected him in the first place. She should break up with him, either way. I don’t know the story, so I’m not going to judge.

By: Anon

Anon — Thu, 19 Aug 2010 16:15:23 +0000

Guys do not high-five guys who cheated on their gf. We do not think that cheating is acceptable. And to everyone who believes that we guys do: Stop being so sexist.

By: whoever

whoever — Tue, 17 Aug 2010 17:38:22 +0000

I don’t think you’re a terrible person. In some ways, I understand, though I have never done so. Sex can be about love, or just about sex. There is no shame here. I hope that people will stop judging for this.

By: leah

leah — Mon, 16 Aug 2010 15:52:48 +0000

hey it is what is …dude you are my hero …he what he doesnt no wont hurt him plus thats ur ex hich mean you can have sex with him any time you want… hey we just doing whta guys been doing forever which is fucking..

By: Brooke Jones

Brooke Jones — Mon, 16 Aug 2010 09:51:26 +0000

I love how people are trying to justify this. This shit isn’t right whether you’re a guy or a girl. And comments are here to express your opinion on the secret, and in my opinion this chick is a whore. Stop whining about it.

By: John Stiles

John Stiles — Fri, 13 Aug 2010 15:24:28 +0000

She’s still a whore and yes if a guy does it he’s a piece of shit, i’m a guy and i think guy’s that cheat are pieces of shit… so is she

By: Q

Fri, 13 Aug 2010 07:43:14 +0000

You all have no right to judge and she’s not asking for freaking advice.

By: KG

KG — Thu, 12 Aug 2010 10:21:24 +0000

I love it when people say “These things happen.” lol. It just brings to mind a scenario where someone trips into coitus.
“Oops… damn it… Oh well, might as well get off while I’m here.”

It’s called willpower and empathy… Invest.

It doesn’t matter that guys get high fives. They SHOULDN’T.

By: gina

gina — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 16:16:31 +0000

She’s only a whore if the ex-boyfriend paid her. Otherwise…she’s just a girl getting laid…isn’t that what you guys do all time? Does that make you a “man-whore”?

By: Ryan

Ryan — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 07:17:05 +0000

I’m sorry but did anybody ask for your opinions?

By: Will

Will — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 06:12:48 +0000

anyone, male or female, who cheats on their partner is a whore. man whore, woman whore. this isnt sexism 101, you cant glorify her cheating on a man by saying “men cheat on women too”. thats not an excuse, because the men are just as wrong when they cheat too. This woman is a whore. “thats life, it happens” well bull shit. It happens to people who are with whores.

By: Niamh

Niamh — Sun, 08 Aug 2010 21:13:22 +0000

and you’re a damn sexist.

By: Niamh

Niamh — Sun, 08 Aug 2010 21:12:58 +0000

i agree that’s it’s stupi that they#re glorifying her cheating but i think the main point is that when women do something like this or are promicuous they’re always called a whore or a slut, they aren’t allowed to be sexual without it damaging any reputation or opinion people have of them.
men sometimes get called a player but nothing that carriers the baggage or low opinion of being called a whore or slut.