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You are a crappy person

You’re a damn whore.

You should be ashamed… How on earth do you not regret it?

Slut.

None of us should judge you. I would only tell you that you need to have a conversation with your boyfriend. You may or may not tell him about cheating, that is your call. But you really should discuss your relationship.

i dont judge you; nor should anyone else. this should be a place where people can share there secrets judge free. yet here you are calling her a slut? a crappy person? she should be ashamed? no. its you guys who should be ashamed. addmitt it. shit happends. o well.

Why should she be ashamed? If a guy did that, He’d be high-fived!

I realize that ideally this isn’t what people like to hear from girls, but agreed a guy would be getting a high five so what makes it different for girls?

The sexists are out today! Omg, if it was a guy, “boys just being boys.”

I agree, the only people that tend to respond to this immediately jump to their initial thought and don’t take the time to understand that things like this happen.

You should be ashamed for thinking you have the right to hurt someone with your words. I’m sure you’ve done something that could get you called mean names. I hope no one ever calls you mean names and I hope you never Hurt someone with your words again.

Maybe you should look at the plank in your eye before pointing out the speck in her eye. It took courage for her to right in her secret and you shouldn’t judge her so cruely. You should be ashamed.

you people crack me up. 1. when you generalize men and say that men would all high five other guys for cheating your being sexist yourselves. 2. Your justifying her cheating which is certifiable bull shit. 3. I hope when i do hurt someone i have people around me that will let me know and straighten me up, and if they call me mean names i probably deserve it. Don’t glorify her just cause she told the secret, she’s wrong for cheating and what she did was a crappy thing.

Get a grip people

I think it’s rediculous that people would call this women a slut and a whore I’ve always been confused how if women cheat they’re sluts but if guys cheat their friends support them, People call it a “guy” thing but in reality it’s a “Human” thing. My boyfriend has cheated on me several times but I have stuck by him and worked it out. Yet last night I found out if I so much as held another mans hand he would dump me with out contemplation. It’s just rediculous

Guys would be high-fived? Are you girls serious?

Maybe in some twisted frat boy universe, but most guys would not.

Chauvinist. Plenty of men do similar things, I don’t ever hear you calling them a whore.

i agree that’s it’s stupi that they#re glorifying her cheating but i think the main point is that when women do something like this or are promicuous they’re always called a whore or a slut, they aren’t allowed to be sexual without it damaging any reputation or opinion people have of them.
men sometimes get called a player but nothing that carriers the baggage or low opinion of being called a whore or slut.

and you’re a damn sexist.

anyone, male or female, who cheats on their partner is a whore. man whore, woman whore. this isnt sexism 101, you cant glorify her cheating on a man by saying “men cheat on women too”. thats not an excuse, because the men are just as wrong when they cheat too. This woman is a whore. “thats life, it happens” well bull shit. It happens to people who are with whores.

I’m sorry but did anybody ask for your opinions?

She’s only a whore if the ex-boyfriend paid her. Otherwise…she’s just a girl getting laid…isn’t that what you guys do all time? Does that make you a “man-whore”?

I love it when people say “These things happen.” lol. It just brings to mind a scenario where someone trips into coitus.
“Oops… damn it… Oh well, might as well get off while I’m here.”

It’s called willpower and empathy… Invest.

It doesn’t matter that guys get high fives. They SHOULDN’T.

You all have no right to judge and she’s not asking for freaking advice.

She’s still a whore and yes if a guy does it he’s a piece of shit, i’m a guy and i think guy’s that cheat are pieces of shit… so is she

I love how people are trying to justify this. This shit isn’t right whether you’re a guy or a girl. And comments are here to express your opinion on the secret, and in my opinion this chick is a whore. Stop whining about it.

hey it is what is …dude you are my hero …he what he doesnt no wont hurt him plus thats ur ex hich mean you can have sex with him any time you want… hey we just doing whta guys been doing forever which is fucking..

I don’t think you’re a terrible person. In some ways, I understand, though I have never done so. Sex can be about love, or just about sex. There is no shame here. I hope that people will stop judging for this.

Guys do not high-five guys who cheated on their gf. We do not think that cheating is acceptable. And to everyone who believes that we guys do: Stop being so sexist.

You NEVER date your friend’s partner. EVER. I’m not sure what guys think about this, but the golden rule that my mother always told me is this: Never date your friend’s ex, even if you ask her and she says you can. She might have feelings for him, and you might seriously wreck your friendship. That guy should have never went out with his friend’s ex, so he shares part of the blame. I get the impression that this girl: A) Went out with his friend to make him jealous. B) Took his best friend because the other guy rejected her. I think that if she doesn’t feel guilty, then she never truly loved or respected him in the first place. She should break up with him, either way. I don’t know the story, so I’m not going to judge.

My secret: I was lucky, my ex and current boyfriend used to be friends and I was sometimes able to have both at the same time. I like bisexual men.

I did that too.

Why does this get more response than the cards about people being sexually molested, who are crying out for help?

You made a mistake. Be strong, live on.

Hello..CUNT!

HAHAHAHA im glad i wasnt the only one who found all the bs comments funny as hell. You know they stone sluts in iran for that type of shit lol

Just because a person makes a mistake doesn’t mean they should regret what they’ve done. I try to live life without regrets…what can we do about the past anyway? No one here should pass judegement without walking in your shoes, and hopefully sending in your secret allows you to let go of the guilt you may feel, whether or not you’ll ever feel regret.

that is so true. why can guys bang 30 girls, and be idolized, but a girl sleeps with like 4 and she a slut..

You know that saying, “Whoever didn’t sin throw the first stone” or some Jesus thing like that?

HEY ALL YOU COMMENTERS: YOU’RE THE ASSHOLES.

I’m not judging.

you just did

I did the same thing too..
but i was still in love with my ex.

Why shouldn’t I judge you? You’re did something faithless and then put it out for the whole world to see. That’s a horrible act. Does it make you a horrible person? No. But I wouldn’t trust you or respect you. if I did the same thing and I expected you to not judge me, still trust and still respect me, I would not be in touch with reality. If you don’t find your way to some remorse, I hope you get exactly what you deserve.

Hey Kaitlin. The Bible says “Whatever measure you use in judging others, it will be used to measure how you are judged.” If you catch me cheating and then posting about it for the world to see, please conclude that I am a narcissistic jackass.

And my final comment for the “people shouldn’t judge” crowd. I sincerely hope you’re all on the wrong end of this exact situation. That way we can all be certain that those with the right kind of tolerance and understanding will be dealing with the situation, thereby lowering the level of heartache, tension, therapy, and assault and battery in the world.