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I think you should post her this exact secret. The sketch with the blue yes- if I opened my mailbox with a picture of me like that, I would be very very touched.
When I saw this I thought “god that looks like me” and I thought about how heartbroken I would be if it was and I never knew. TELL HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TELL HER! I am actually in the same exact position. I can’t stop thinking about a guy who went to school with me back in 5-6 years ago. I want to tell him how I feel but I haven’t talked to him since then. This post card has kind of made me decided.
Please tell her. You don’t know how much I regret not telling my best friend that I loved him. Don’t put yourself through that regret if you have the chance to prevent it.
To love from afar is a cowards death. I know. I’ve done it. You fear that what you have now will go away if they know how you feel. Thing of it is, what you have now will *always* go away.
If you don’t do anything, it will end.
If you bare your heart, it may end or it may develop.
If you don’t do anything, you will hurt and hate yourself for what might have been.
If you bare your heart, she may say no. This is real and it will hurt. It may change what you have, but she may say *yes*.
These are the choices that make a life. It isn’t safe and it isn’t comfortable.
Or did you suppose that you would enter Paradise without facing the same as those who came before you?
In situations like this, I always vote for the “Tell Him/Her” camp! Keep in mind that some of the best relationships start from a friendship based on mutual affection and common interests. I know from experience – a friend of 13 years is now my husband of 5 years!
Look at it this way – you already know that he/she enjoys your company, and more than likely admires many things about you because you are friends. If he/she treats you well (i.e. considers your feelings, doesn’t lie to you or ditch plans with you for a “better offer”) then you’ve got a good indication, and decent odds, that he/she may be responsive to your declaration! Good Luck!
I was in love with my best friend for 5 years before I finally decided to tell him. We’ve now been dating for over 5 years and I’m so happy I finally got up the courage. You may be thinking you value the friendship too much to take the chance, but telling someone how you feel should never ruin a true friendship.
I was in love with a girl for 8 years. My senior year I asked her out. She said no. Now she’s engaged. I’m not sure if I could’ve lived with myself if I hadn’t asked her.
I also looked at this picture and thought, except for the blue eyes this picture looks a lot like me. If someone felt that about me I’d want to know. it’s very touching. TELL her! it’s never “too late.”
all i can say is tell her!
I think you should post her this exact secret. The sketch with the blue yes- if I opened my mailbox with a picture of me like that, I would be very very touched.
Tell her. She may very be waiting for you. If you keep waiting you may miss that chance Hun. Good luck.
When I saw this I thought “god that looks like me” and I thought about how heartbroken I would be if it was and I never knew. TELL HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TELL HER! I am actually in the same exact position. I can’t stop thinking about a guy who went to school with me back in 5-6 years ago. I want to tell him how I feel but I haven’t talked to him since then. This post card has kind of made me decided.
I hope this has helped as much as it’s helped me
I’m sorry. You should tell her how you feel.
Please tell her. You don’t know how much I regret not telling my best friend that I loved him. Don’t put yourself through that regret if you have the chance to prevent it.
Please tell her
I’d be so happy if I was that girl that someone cared so much about me… afterall what do you have to lose?
Love Amy xx
It’s never too late
Man you need to tell her!!!! If you don’t tell her you will soon regret it later
Tell her. What have you got to lose? And don’t say friendship. Friendships can always be rebuilt.
this was once my secret, too. it turned out I waited too long. whatever it is you choose to do, just make sure you’ll be alright in the end.
please tell her. That looks like me but i doubt it is but trust me, if it were, I would wish on every single star in the sky for you to tell me.
TELL HER!!!
you should tell her. I’ve missed many chances like this 21 and never dated…. even if she says no you don’t have to live with regret then. good luck:)
To love from afar is a cowards death. I know. I’ve done it. You fear that what you have now will go away if they know how you feel. Thing of it is, what you have now will *always* go away.
If you don’t do anything, it will end.
If you bare your heart, it may end or it may develop.
If you don’t do anything, you will hurt and hate yourself for what might have been.
If you bare your heart, she may say no. This is real and it will hurt. It may change what you have, but she may say *yes*.
These are the choices that make a life. It isn’t safe and it isn’t comfortable.
Or did you suppose that you would enter Paradise without facing the same as those who came before you?
In situations like this, I always vote for the “Tell Him/Her” camp! Keep in mind that some of the best relationships start from a friendship based on mutual affection and common interests. I know from experience – a friend of 13 years is now my husband of 5 years!
Look at it this way – you already know that he/she enjoys your company, and more than likely admires many things about you because you are friends. If he/she treats you well (i.e. considers your feelings, doesn’t lie to you or ditch plans with you for a “better offer”) then you’ve got a good indication, and decent odds, that he/she may be responsive to your declaration! Good Luck!
I was in love with my best friend for 5 years before I finally decided to tell him. We’ve now been dating for over 5 years and I’m so happy I finally got up the courage. You may be thinking you value the friendship too much to take the chance, but telling someone how you feel should never ruin a true friendship.
If you won’t tell her, you will be afraid that you were wrong for the whole life… So, of course, you should tell her!
I was in love with a girl for 8 years. My senior year I asked her out. She said no. Now she’s engaged. I’m not sure if I could’ve lived with myself if I hadn’t asked her.
I also looked at this picture and thought, except for the blue eyes this picture looks a lot like me. If someone felt that about me I’d want to know. it’s very touching. TELL her! it’s never “too late.”
A wish for love with silent prayer cannot travel through the air.
A wish for love with form and phonics propagates, and finds harmonics.
It is only too late when one of you is dead. Tell her!
The biggest regrets in life are not things we have done, but things we have failed to do.
Say something.
That looks like my cousin, except she doesn’t have blue eyes.
I was in love with my best friend. I kept thinking I’d tell him when I lost weight or got my life perfect. I tried so hard to show him I was worthy.
I finally told him and he just wasn’t interested in anything but being best friends. I relaxed and we stayed friends.
Nine months later, he changed his mind and we kissed.
Fast forward two months, he gave me roses and told me he loved me.
Another two months and we moved in together.
Skip ahead five months and he asked me to marry him.
Nine months later, we both said ‘I do’.
That was 13 years ago. I’m married to my best friend, living a wonderful life I never thought possible with him and our kids.
TELL HER.