Post Secret Archive

all i can say is tell her!

I think you should post her this exact secret. The sketch with the blue yes- if I opened my mailbox with a picture of me like that, I would be very very touched.

Tell her. She may very be waiting for you. If you keep waiting you may miss that chance Hun. Good luck.

When I saw this I thought “god that looks like me” and I thought about how heartbroken I would be if it was and I never knew. TELL HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TELL HER! I am actually in the same exact position. I can’t stop thinking about a guy who went to school with me back in 5-6 years ago. I want to tell him how I feel but I haven’t talked to him since then. This post card has kind of made me decided.

I hope this has helped as much as it’s helped me

I’m sorry. You should tell her how you feel.

Please tell her. You don’t know how much I regret not telling my best friend that I loved him. Don’t put yourself through that regret if you have the chance to prevent it.

Please tell her I’d be so happy if I was that girl that someone cared so much about me… afterall what do you have to lose?

Love Amy xx

It’s never too late

Man you need to tell her!!!! If you don’t tell her you will soon regret it later

Tell her. What have you got to lose? And don’t say friendship. Friendships can always be rebuilt.

this was once my secret, too. it turned out I waited too long. whatever it is you choose to do, just make sure you’ll be alright in the end.

please tell her. That looks like me but i doubt it is but trust me, if it were, I would wish on every single star in the sky for you to tell me.

TELL HER!!!

you should tell her. I’ve missed many chances like this 21 and never dated…. even if she says no you don’t have to live with regret then. good luck:)

To love from afar is a cowards death. I know. I’ve done it. You fear that what you have now will go away if they know how you feel. Thing of it is, what you have now will *always* go away.

If you don’t do anything, it will end.
If you bare your heart, it may end or it may develop.

If you don’t do anything, you will hurt and hate yourself for what might have been.
If you bare your heart, she may say no. This is real and it will hurt. It may change what you have, but she may say *yes*.

These are the choices that make a life. It isn’t safe and it isn’t comfortable.

Or did you suppose that you would enter Paradise without facing the same as those who came before you?

In situations like this, I always vote for the “Tell Him/Her” camp! Keep in mind that some of the best relationships start from a friendship based on mutual affection and common interests. I know from experience – a friend of 13 years is now my husband of 5 years!

Look at it this way – you already know that he/she enjoys your company, and more than likely admires many things about you because you are friends. If he/she treats you well (i.e. considers your feelings, doesn’t lie to you or ditch plans with you for a “better offer”) then you’ve got a good indication, and decent odds, that he/she may be responsive to your declaration! Good Luck!

I was in love with my best friend for 5 years before I finally decided to tell him. We’ve now been dating for over 5 years and I’m so happy I finally got up the courage. You may be thinking you value the friendship too much to take the chance, but telling someone how you feel should never ruin a true friendship.

If you won’t tell her, you will be afraid that you were wrong for the whole life… So, of course, you should tell her!

I was in love with a girl for 8 years. My senior year I asked her out. She said no. Now she’s engaged. I’m not sure if I could’ve lived with myself if I hadn’t asked her.

I also looked at this picture and thought, except for the blue eyes this picture looks a lot like me. If someone felt that about me I’d want to know. it’s very touching. TELL her! it’s never “too late.”

A wish for love with silent prayer cannot travel through the air.
A wish for love with form and phonics propagates, and finds harmonics.

It is only too late when one of you is dead. Tell her!

The biggest regrets in life are not things we have done, but things we have failed to do.

Say something.

That looks like my cousin, except she doesn’t have blue eyes.

I was in love with my best friend. I kept thinking I’d tell him when I lost weight or got my life perfect. I tried so hard to show him I was worthy.

I finally told him and he just wasn’t interested in anything but being best friends. I relaxed and we stayed friends.

Nine months later, he changed his mind and we kissed.

Fast forward two months, he gave me roses and told me he loved me.

Another two months and we moved in together.

Skip ahead five months and he asked me to marry him.

Nine months later, we both said ‘I do’.

That was 13 years ago. I’m married to my best friend, living a wonderful life I never thought possible with him and our kids.

TELL HER.

Please tell her. She needs to know. Maybe she loves you too and is waiting for you to make the first move. And if she doesn’t, well, at least she knows. Then you can move on. Please tell her. It’ll make everything better.

this is me. those are my eyes. tell me…

You should tell her. The worst thing that could happen if you tell her is that she doesn’t love you back. The worst thing that could happen if you don’t is that you could wonder forever…

MAN UP… and in the future, because this will happen to you again, don’t waste everybody’s time.

If you want a girl, tell her as soon as possible.

I’ve had so many male friends try to be my BF by roundabout ways. And it always fails. If a girl wants you, she usually knows w/in 10 minutes of meeting you.

She already knew whether she was interested in you a long time ago. You’re just wasting your life not finding out sooner rather than later.

There’s NOTHING I hate more than some prick who tries to be super-nice to me, and then gets his feelings hurt when I reject him 1 year away from when we first met, and then acts all f*ing bitter because I’m not interested.

Sometimes you TELL a guy you’re just friends, not interested, and they still do this, and get all bitchy once you finally confirm what you originally told them.

Whatever the end result, just don’t be creepy after the fact. There really are a million fish in the sea.
If you can’t see this- it’s because you’re either young or anti social. Make an effort to meet more people. Don’t be so self centered. Get some hobbies.

hey that looks like me too, I dont know anyone who wouldnt want to be told about this

You should tell her. She is your friend at the very least, and in what possible way could she ever take being adored by someone she cares about in a negative way. I told mine, and we worked it out. We are still best friends. Telling her how you feel doesn’t guarantee the fairytale, but it at least makes it a possibility. You only have everything you desire to gain! My best wishes to you, L xxx

Tell her!Tell her!Tell her!

What are you waiting for? Seriously, ask yourself that. And answer it. What.are.you.waiting.for? Any fear you may have, I can promise you that you will never regret taking a chance for her. This is one of those moments in life where if you take that chance, no matter what the outcome, you will never look back with regret. She will never be something you regret, kid.

I do hope that you’ll tell her eventually….I’ve liked a guy for six years too but I’ll never find the courage to tell him how I truly feel and have decided to stop holding on to this feelings… so maybe you could be the glimmer of hope for the rest of us who holds the same hopes and prove to us that crushes are not meant to be crushed and it could be a reality..may you find the happiness you are looking for=)

i totally understand you, I’ve loved this person since 3rd grade n iam a senior now n i havnt even told him n were best friends. you just dont want to tell them n i understand i think you should think about it very deeply n i think you will find your answer i did, didnt

This totally looks almost exactly like one of my best friends…

Even if it’s not I would tell her.

Wow, this looks just like me — If I were in this situation, I would tell her. You only live once my friend, don’t spend your whole life wondering, “what if?”

I decided not to tell my best friend that I was madly in love with him, for fear of rejection and loosing him if it never worked out. He wasn’t afraid and told me he felt exactly the same way as I do. So far I have never been happier in my entire life. TELL HER!!

Tell her, man. I knew a girl for two years that I desperately wanted to tell. I loved everything about her, the cute awkwardness, the way she looked at me, the deep conversations we had, every time we touched it was like electricity. She went to a foreign country to teach, met another guy and got married within the span of 5 months. I regret never breaking down and telling her how deeply I loved her, and I will for the rest of my life. She’ll always be the one who got away and I don’t want that for you. At least if she rejects you, you’ll never wonder what could have been.

tell her.
she is probably feeling the exact same way
i wish someone loved me,
sometimes i feel like im alone in this world

I felt the same way about someone. I told him and he didn’t feel the same. But he’s still my best friend. And I know that I don’t have to wonder about it anymore, so there’s never an awkward moment. TELL HER.

Josh?

I have liked this boy for almost eleven years. Went through phases of best friendship, and space. I moved away five years ago. I never got the chance to tell him.

This summer, I’m going back, and I’m going to tell him. You should do the same! Best of luck, friend

There is this girl..
I have loved all of my life…
We were suddenly seperated 36 years ago…
I found her recently…

I will leave everything I have,
to try to be with her.

I hope her heart is open,
but I will try anyway!

You should always keep your options open.

Consider other girls; do not close the door on this girl yet.

You should say her about your love!! It is the best variant!!

I’ve been in love with this guy for 5 years. I never got the courage to tell him and now 5 years later, I can’t get over it. If I had known how I’d feel now, I wouldn’t have been so scared. It’s torture. Just say it. Even if she says no, it would be better than having to deal with not knowing for the rest of your life.

go for it ! [=
best of luck if you havent
already xoxox

huhuhu…tell her x 1000000!

i told the boy i loved that i did love him, and i found out that all he was doing was using me. now i wish i had never told him so i could keep up the illusion that he actually loved me back

Definitely tell her… it’s never too late. The worst thing that can happen is she doesn’t have the same feelings you do. Honestly, if she says she doesn’t feel like you do you may think you’ll be hurt forever and never find anyone else. But think how you feel about her every day now… When you find out that she does or doesn’t like you it will set you free either way. No more wondering and you finally have the freedom to move on and find someone else.

I liked this girl for 5 years and she was dating someone else and I didn’t tell her how I felt. Finally I just told her and she felt the same way… However, we started dating and I was on my way out of the military so I was long distance for a bit and she started dating someone else. It hurt like hell for a bit but honestly after that I had a huge weight off my shoulders. I was a free man not wondering if I should be with her instead of the girl I was currently with. After that I knew she wasn’t right. Now I’m engaged to a different girl, the girl of my dreams. So TELL HER FOR CHRISTS SAKE!!! The worst thing she’ll probably say is aww thats sweet, I’m sorry I don’t feel the same way. She’ll be flattered you told her.

i once drew the guy i liked, and i gave it to him, i just never told him i liked him. now i’m with someone i love, but i think i love that guy more…

A guy once hid his feelings from me for two years, he was scared I would reject him due to the long distance between us.

We’ve been together for over a year now. The rare days we get to spend together are the happiest of our lives.

I fell in love with this guy from the first day that we met. I told him my feelings for him a year later and it turned out he felt the same way. We have been together for 5years so far. Tell her how you feel, it may seem scary but at least you wont regret it.

I was in the same position with a boy I went to school with… 6 years I never could say a damn thing. I thought I had lost my chance until I realized that life is too short. We’ve been together happily for the past 2 years now. I will NEVER regret taking that chance, but I would have always regretted it if I hadn’t.

Wow. I’m sending in a sketch of myself and in it I look just like this girl. If there was someone who secretly loved me for 6 years, I would be astonished. Because right now… I don’t feel loved at all.

I think who ever she is, she is lucky and you should tell her. Even if your voice shakes and your knees become weak. If the butterflies become to much to handle just think of how much it would be worth it to hear her say that she felt the same way back. You only live once. Make the best of it!

I feel you man. Been in the same boat for the past 5 years.

I’m in the same situation with a guy i have loved for 5 years now. He loved this other girl but she didnt love him. I still love him and always will if you do tell them be prepared for whatever answer you get, whether they love you back the same or not. I’ve told the guy i love how i feel about him 3 times before and we are the closest friends in the world. so dont worry about losing friendship. Just go and tell her. Have Faith.