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	<title>Comments on: I took this picture the day after I found out you cheated on me&#8230;</title>
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		<title>By: Hiding</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-16432</link>
		<dc:creator>Hiding</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 01:42:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is an amazing post.  Beautiful picture.  Thank you for the inspiration.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is an amazing post.  Beautiful picture.  Thank you for the inspiration.</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 00:38:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This was such a beautiful secret to come across.  I also love everyones honest and very personal stories that they shared.  I for one do believe it is imossible for humans to remain completely and 100 percent monogamous for a entire life time because it is only natural to yearn for other humans but it is how we deal with it that is what makes us or breaks us.   I am all for being open and honest with my significant other so that we can share experiences together.  I think it builds a string relationship to acknowledge our lust or feelings for others.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was such a beautiful secret to come across.  I also love everyones honest and very personal stories that they shared.  I for one do believe it is imossible for humans to remain completely and 100 percent monogamous for a entire life time because it is only natural to yearn for other humans but it is how we deal with it that is what makes us or breaks us.   I am all for being open and honest with my significant other so that we can share experiences together.  I think it builds a string relationship to acknowledge our lust or feelings for others.</p>
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		<title>By: b</title>
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		<dc:creator>b</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 20:19:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this is my town!! so pretty.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this is my town!! so pretty.</p>
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		<title>By: Stu @Mor Manufacturing</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stu @Mor Manufacturing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jun 2011 10:54:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The picture that you were post is great, love the view,its good to know that you get over, thanks for sharing your stories and keep it up!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The picture that you were post is great, love the view,its good to know that you get over, thanks for sharing your stories and keep it up!</p>
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		<title>By: scott @ classic photo booth rental</title>
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		<dc:creator>scott @ classic photo booth rental</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 01:50:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>NIce post! its good to know that you get over on it, well done and i love your photograph, thanks for sharing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>NIce post! its good to know that you get over on it, well done and i love your photograph, thanks for sharing!</p>
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		<title>By: Cody @New Mexico Machinery</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cody @New Mexico Machinery</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 May 2011 04:35:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great picture! and it was nice to read your stories, and to all the comments here, thanks for sharing anyway!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great picture! and it was nice to read your stories, and to all the comments here, thanks for sharing anyway!</p>
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		<title>By: Krich</title>
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		<dc:creator>Krich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Feb 2011 23:56:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was flipping through these and I realized that this picture looks familiar. It looks familiar because I live there. And that was my random coincidence for the day.
As for the secret, whoever wrote this, you are beautiful, too. Don&#039;t forget that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was flipping through these and I realized that this picture looks familiar. It looks familiar because I live there. And that was my random coincidence for the day.<br />
As for the secret, whoever wrote this, you are beautiful, too. Don&#8217;t forget that.</p>
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		<title>By: gregk</title>
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		<dc:creator>gregk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2010 17:10:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have discovered that everyone cheats love monogamy and faithfulness are all theoretical pipedreams</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have discovered that everyone cheats love monogamy and faithfulness are all theoretical pipedreams</p>
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		<title>By: Jean@coeur d'alene massage therapist</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jean@coeur d'alene massage therapist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 22:50:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Look at the positive side why you were being cheated. That means another better person is up for you. Your photo is good to see, message that you have moved on. Best regards. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Look at the positive side why you were being cheated. That means another better person is up for you. Your photo is good to see, message that you have moved on. Best regards. <img src='http://postsecretarchive.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Karen@chiropractic coeur d'alene</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen@chiropractic coeur d'alene</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Sep 2010 21:01:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Looking at the picture, I can say that you have indeed found a beautiful life after you were cheated. Everything that happened has a reason. That is another of God telling you to look at the beauty around you..and you found it :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Looking at the picture, I can say that you have indeed found a beautiful life after you were cheated. Everything that happened has a reason. That is another of God telling you to look at the beauty around you..and you found it <img src='http://postsecretarchive.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: coeur d'alene massage therapist</title>
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		<dc:creator>coeur d'alene massage therapist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 12:23:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If someones cheating on you. They&#039;re not worth thinking of, instead do some other stuff.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If someones cheating on you. They&#8217;re not worth thinking of, instead do some other stuff.</p>
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		<title>By: anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jun 2010 15:54:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your blog reminds me of why I cheated. Thank you. I now have a new life with the girl I cheated with. We broke up both of our families and they will probably never truly forgive us. It was one of the most selfish things I could&#039;ve ever done but in the end- it was so worth it. Six years later, my kids still love me; my exwife remarried. My kids will never have any kind of relationship with my girlfriend. Her kids will not talk to me. Her exhusband is still pissed. And she will not marry me because her first marriage was so bad. Doesn&#039;t want to be legally tied to anyone ever again. Oh yeah. So worth it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your blog reminds me of why I cheated. Thank you. I now have a new life with the girl I cheated with. We broke up both of our families and they will probably never truly forgive us. It was one of the most selfish things I could&#8217;ve ever done but in the end- it was so worth it. Six years later, my kids still love me; my exwife remarried. My kids will never have any kind of relationship with my girlfriend. Her kids will not talk to me. Her exhusband is still pissed. And she will not marry me because her first marriage was so bad. Doesn&#8217;t want to be legally tied to anyone ever again. Oh yeah. So worth it.</p>
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		<title>By: DoItAnyway</title>
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		<dc:creator>DoItAnyway</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2010 04:58:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You can&#039;t. You realize you only loved the person you thought they were.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You can&#8217;t. You realize you only loved the person you thought they were.</p>
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		<title>By: JayAye</title>
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		<dc:creator>JayAye</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jun 2010 16:29:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My boyfriend never technically &#039;cheated&#039;, in the sence of having a sexual relationship. But while I was home, pregnant with his child, he would drive an hour to see his &quot;friend&quot; and not return until between 3 and 6 in the morning. He crushed me. When our daughter was born it was like a light went off in his head, realizing that things had to change or he was going to lose everything, including his child. He only went to visit her once more, assumingly to end it. I stayed with him because he was my first love, my only love, and the father of my only child. We are now engaged, planning another child, and most important - amazingly happy. Remember, things can change. Never give up hope. There is no perfect relationship, every one needs work. I hope this will help someone. Keep your chin up and never forget - life is what you make of it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My boyfriend never technically &#8216;cheated&#8217;, in the sence of having a sexual relationship. But while I was home, pregnant with his child, he would drive an hour to see his &#8220;friend&#8221; and not return until between 3 and 6 in the morning. He crushed me. When our daughter was born it was like a light went off in his head, realizing that things had to change or he was going to lose everything, including his child. He only went to visit her once more, assumingly to end it. I stayed with him because he was my first love, my only love, and the father of my only child. We are now engaged, planning another child, and most important &#8211; amazingly happy. Remember, things can change. Never give up hope. There is no perfect relationship, every one needs work. I hope this will help someone. Keep your chin up and never forget &#8211; life is what you make of it.</p>
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		<title>By: Breonna Thomas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Breonna Thomas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jun 2010 23:21:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, maybe you dont need to be in a relatonship right now.I think you know that it&#039;s not really fair to this new guy in your life, if you dont trust him because of someone else that hashurt you. When Ihad been cheated on, I took time out from the world and focused on meat that moment. maybe you should do the same..... :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, maybe you dont need to be in a relatonship right now.I think you know that it&#8217;s not really fair to this new guy in your life, if you dont trust him because of someone else that hashurt you. When Ihad been cheated on, I took time out from the world and focused on meat that moment. maybe you should do the same&#8230;.. <img src='http://postsecretarchive.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: d</title>
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		<dc:creator>d</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jun 2010 15:57:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this really touched me for some reason... well done and i love your photograph</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this really touched me for some reason&#8230; well done and i love your photograph</p>
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		<title>By: hehee</title>
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		<dc:creator>hehee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 19:08:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i like the way you say &quot;bumhole&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i like the way you say &#8220;bumhole&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: herart less</title>
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		<dc:creator>herart less</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2010 15:53:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOVE SCARES ME SO MUCH I PROMISE TO STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM IT I HAVE U TO THANK FOR CHANGING MY FEELINGS FROM LOVE TO EVOL IT HURTS AND I HOPE UR NEW MARRIAGE U DONT HURT HIM LIKE U HURT ME P.S. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE THE KIDS NO MATTER WHAT U DID TO US!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOVE SCARES ME SO MUCH I PROMISE TO STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM IT I HAVE U TO THANK FOR CHANGING MY FEELINGS FROM LOVE TO EVOL IT HURTS AND I HOPE UR NEW MARRIAGE U DONT HURT HIM LIKE U HURT ME P.S. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE THE KIDS NO MATTER WHAT U DID TO US!</p>
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		<title>By: kaylanne91</title>
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		<dc:creator>kaylanne91</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 07:26:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>beautiful. I&#039;ve also been cheated on, and at first it was the most painful thing. I thought my heart was going to just stop, but then i realized something. Once i got past the pain, life is so much better without him. No one deserves to be treated like that, and i know i deserve much better</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>beautiful. I&#8217;ve also been cheated on, and at first it was the most painful thing. I thought my heart was going to just stop, but then i realized something. Once i got past the pain, life is so much better without him. No one deserves to be treated like that, and i know i deserve much better</p>
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		<title>By: Don's Fool</title>
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		<dc:creator>Don's Fool</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 01:19:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was such a fool to believe he would be faithful.  He is lying, cheating trash and will always be lying, cheating trash.  I am so fortunate to be free of him and to have it end when it did...I could have made an even bigger mistake!  Thankfully he is visiting his lies and cheating on some other poor idiot who.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was such a fool to believe he would be faithful.  He is lying, cheating trash and will always be lying, cheating trash.  I am so fortunate to be free of him and to have it end when it did&#8230;I could have made an even bigger mistake!  Thankfully he is visiting his lies and cheating on some other poor idiot who.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 01:52:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I remember the exact details of the day I told him I cheated on him. It crushed him but left me relieved.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remember the exact details of the day I told him I cheated on him. It crushed him but left me relieved.</p>
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		<title>By: Hopeless</title>
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		<dc:creator>Hopeless</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 03:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The &#039;other woman&#039; was my best friend. I&#039;ve still never trusted another guy and it ruins all my relationships now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The &#8216;other woman&#8217; was my best friend. I&#8217;ve still never trusted another guy and it ruins all my relationships now.</p>
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		<title>By: ttt</title>
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		<dc:creator>ttt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jan 2010 14:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Mari,  you post secret made a difference.  It is a gem.  Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Mari,  you post secret made a difference.  It is a gem.  Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: maryM</title>
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		<dc:creator>maryM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 01:40:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I feel the same, I can do  things i never do, I listen music, I can take  care of myself,I read I write, it feel  so  precious it my life  and  it beautiful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel the same, I can do  things i never do, I listen music, I can take  care of myself,I read I write, it feel  so  precious it my life  and  it beautiful.</p>
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		<title>By: Nikita</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nikita</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 03:32:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is awesome. To whomever made this:

I hope you are happy now and with someone that deserves you and makes you feel loved</description>
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<p>I hope you are happy now and with someone that deserves you and makes you feel loved</p>
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		<title>By: bloom</title>
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		<dc:creator>bloom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Dec 2009 17:52:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It was a year ago this week that I found out that my high school sweat-heart, best friend for 20 years, mother of my two children, and wife of 13 years, cheated on me.  

It has been one and a half years since the affaire... it was a two night stand, on a business trip with a peer from another state. She was not drunk when she did it.. it was premeditated and agreed to by both.  

Up until that time neither of us had ever had sex with anyone else, this remains true for me.  She continued the affaire via facebook after their original trist until I found out.  

He is also married with a young daughter.... They had unprotected sex, and now my wife and I both have a high risk form of HPV from him.  

There is not a day that goes by that I do not think about it... it used to be minute by minute, then hour by hour... now it is day to day..... I love my wife... She has harmed me like no one else ever could. 

To make things work your true love has to own up to the guilt.  

And it time you must let it go.... It is hard for the victim to not harp on the offender.  I know.. I struggle with it daily.... But,  If you are both committed it can work.... I will forever carry my scars... but the love was there first... and we are working to re-build.   

All my best. 

- B</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was a year ago this week that I found out that my high school sweat-heart, best friend for 20 years, mother of my two children, and wife of 13 years, cheated on me.  </p>
<p>It has been one and a half years since the affaire&#8230; it was a two night stand, on a business trip with a peer from another state. She was not drunk when she did it.. it was premeditated and agreed to by both.  </p>
<p>Up until that time neither of us had ever had sex with anyone else, this remains true for me.  She continued the affaire via facebook after their original trist until I found out.  </p>
<p>He is also married with a young daughter&#8230;. They had unprotected sex, and now my wife and I both have a high risk form of HPV from him.  </p>
<p>There is not a day that goes by that I do not think about it&#8230; it used to be minute by minute, then hour by hour&#8230; now it is day to day&#8230;.. I love my wife&#8230; She has harmed me like no one else ever could. </p>
<p>To make things work your true love has to own up to the guilt.  </p>
<p>And it time you must let it go&#8230;. It is hard for the victim to not harp on the offender.  I know.. I struggle with it daily&#8230;. But,  If you are both committed it can work&#8230;. I will forever carry my scars&#8230; but the love was there first&#8230; and we are working to re-build.   </p>
<p>All my best. </p>
<p>- B</p>
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		<title>By: Breonna</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-8183</link>
		<dc:creator>Breonna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Dec 2009 02:25:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This proves my theory. Anyone who&#039;s lover is unfaithful will find out. When they do , they&#039;re not always so heartbroken and hurt. We can find away to get over it and we will show them that our life doesn&#039;t revolve around them!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This proves my theory. Anyone who&#8217;s lover is unfaithful will find out. When they do , they&#8217;re not always so heartbroken and hurt. We can find away to get over it and we will show them that our life doesn&#8217;t revolve around them!</p>
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		<title>By: cspgirl</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-8134</link>
		<dc:creator>cspgirl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 23:24:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What a beautiful secret to share.  I wish I could feel that way.  I can&#039;t even find the strength to take a picture, or to see how beautiful life may be without him.  Even though it&#039;s painfully obvious that my life before was a lie.  Good luck to you, I&#039;ll be checking back on this secret to hopefully remind myself there is always a tomorrow.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a beautiful secret to share.  I wish I could feel that way.  I can&#8217;t even find the strength to take a picture, or to see how beautiful life may be without him.  Even though it&#8217;s painfully obvious that my life before was a lie.  Good luck to you, I&#8217;ll be checking back on this secret to hopefully remind myself there is always a tomorrow.  <img src='http://postsecretarchive.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Sophie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sophie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 01:51:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This secret makes me feel SO strong! It&#039;s almost like the world knows when the truth is being told &amp; the clouds break &amp; let a little sunshine in.
I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me 2 years ago.
I left him &amp; it was one of the hardest things I&#039;ve ever had to do, but I never regret it.
I&#039;ve grown up so much, and have seen the world.
I stare out at the Canadian Rockies every morning, and know in my heart when he told me, that was the exact moment my life changed...for the better!
So, THANK-YOU!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This secret makes me feel SO strong! It&#8217;s almost like the world knows when the truth is being told &amp; the clouds break &amp; let a little sunshine in.<br />
I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me 2 years ago.<br />
I left him &amp; it was one of the hardest things I&#8217;ve ever had to do, but I never regret it.<br />
I&#8217;ve grown up so much, and have seen the world.<br />
I stare out at the Canadian Rockies every morning, and know in my heart when he told me, that was the exact moment my life changed&#8230;for the better!<br />
So, THANK-YOU!</p>
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		<title>By: charlotte</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-8009</link>
		<dc:creator>charlotte</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 05:12:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the day he told me the truth the sky was beautiful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the day he told me the truth the sky was beautiful.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly Alexa Silva</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7883</link>
		<dc:creator>Kelly Alexa Silva</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Nov 2009 07:30:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>wow this post secret is so powerful and it gives me strength. 
it turned my night around. 
why are we so dependent of others anyways.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>wow this post secret is so powerful and it gives me strength.<br />
it turned my night around.<br />
why are we so dependent of others anyways.</p>
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		<title>By: Zomb</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7863</link>
		<dc:creator>Zomb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 04:12:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just found out I was cheated on by the one I was hopelessly in love with.  He wants to make things work but doesn&#039;t want to deal with my pain at the same time...I love him so much but I don&#039;t want to keep putting myself through this...it hurts.  I hope one day I can heal too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just found out I was cheated on by the one I was hopelessly in love with.  He wants to make things work but doesn&#8217;t want to deal with my pain at the same time&#8230;I love him so much but I don&#8217;t want to keep putting myself through this&#8230;it hurts.  I hope one day I can heal too.</p>
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		<title>By: Mari</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7860</link>
		<dc:creator>Mari</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 06:50:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow... I never thought this would actually make it onto the site.  I submitted this secret.  It&#039;s been a little over 2 years since I took that picture. Everyone who said they hope they feel the same as me someday, just know that you WILL.  It&#039;s so hard, but in the end, letting go is worth it.  I&#039;ll pray that each of you find the peace that I have.  Even if it does hurt now and then.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow&#8230; I never thought this would actually make it onto the site.  I submitted this secret.  It&#8217;s been a little over 2 years since I took that picture. Everyone who said they hope they feel the same as me someday, just know that you WILL.  It&#8217;s so hard, but in the end, letting go is worth it.  I&#8217;ll pray that each of you find the peace that I have.  Even if it does hurt now and then.</p>
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		<title>By: Me again</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7859</link>
		<dc:creator>Me again</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 02:11:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How can I love someone who I never knew honestly?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How can I love someone who I never knew honestly?</p>
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		<title>By: Me</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7858</link>
		<dc:creator>Me</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 02:09:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just found out he cheated on me. Can I move on?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just found out he cheated on me. Can I move on?</p>
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		<title>By: Bryn</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7766</link>
		<dc:creator>Bryn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 04:49:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Such a beautiful picture. Praying for the day I&#039;ll feel this way.  Seems like it&#039;ll never happen. I&#039;m so tired of the pain.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Such a beautiful picture. Praying for the day I&#8217;ll feel this way.  Seems like it&#8217;ll never happen. I&#8217;m so tired of the pain.</p>
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		<title>By: Aaron Borg</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7645</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaron Borg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 2009 01:45:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thats a beautiful picture of Coeur d&#039; Alene beach...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thats a beautiful picture of Coeur d&#8217; Alene beach&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Lindsey</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7537</link>
		<dc:creator>Lindsey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 16:07:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks for posting this it made my day. i hope i start to feel the same way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks for posting this it made my day. i hope i start to feel the same way.</p>
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		<title>By: poopy</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7414</link>
		<dc:creator>poopy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2009 23:07:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i took a picture similar to this the day i touched my bumhole.
it was nice.
om nom nom.
now i look at the photo whenever i want to relive the experience.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i took a picture similar to this the day i touched my bumhole.<br />
it was nice.<br />
om nom nom.<br />
now i look at the photo whenever i want to relive the experience.</p>
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7306</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 23:23:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful secret...
I wish I could see it like you do =(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful secret&#8230;<br />
I wish I could see it like you do =(</p>
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		<title>By: amanda</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7303</link>
		<dc:creator>amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2009 18:44:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, that picture is absolutely gorgeous. I&#039;m happy for you, whoever you are.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, that picture is absolutely gorgeous. I&#8217;m happy for you, whoever you are.</p>
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		<title>By: Victoria Sobocki</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7270</link>
		<dc:creator>Victoria Sobocki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 19:55:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful! And that&#039;s how it should be! :&#039;)</description>
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		<title>By: SlippedHalo</title>
		<link>http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-7267</link>
		<dc:creator>SlippedHalo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 15:29:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you. I am glad that you are moving on with life. Alwyas stay true to yourself.

Beautiful picture that you took.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good for you. I am glad that you are moving on with life. Alwyas stay true to yourself.</p>
<p>Beautiful picture that you took.</p>
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		<title>By: nalfaro89</title>
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		<dc:creator>nalfaro89</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 18:17:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>when i go to the place where i found he was cheating on me , i think back and i get a lil up set but the i say if it wasnt for him cheating on me i would of never found my TRUE LOVE :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>when i go to the place where i found he was cheating on me , i think back and i get a lil up set but the i say if it wasnt for him cheating on me i would of never found my TRUE LOVE <img src='http://postsecretarchive.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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