Comments on: I took this picture the day after I found out you cheated on me… http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/ Tell us your secret Mon, 22 Mar 2010 04:48:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Don's Fool http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-8927 Don's Fool Thu, 11 Feb 2010 01:19:27 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=2037#comment-8927 I was such a fool to believe he would be faithful. He is lying, cheating trash and will always be lying, cheating trash. I am so fortunate to be free of him and to have it end when it did...I could have made an even bigger mistake! Thankfully he is visiting his lies and cheating on some other poor idiot who. I was such a fool to believe he would be faithful. He is lying, cheating trash and will always be lying, cheating trash. I am so fortunate to be free of him and to have it end when it did…I could have made an even bigger mistake! Thankfully he is visiting his lies and cheating on some other poor idiot who.

]]> By: Amanda http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-8861 Amanda Sat, 06 Feb 2010 01:52:35 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=2037#comment-8861 I remember the exact details of the day I told him I cheated on him. It crushed him but left me relieved. I remember the exact details of the day I told him I cheated on him. It crushed him but left me relieved.

]]> By: Hopeless http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-8823 Hopeless Wed, 03 Feb 2010 03:45:00 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=2037#comment-8823 The 'other woman' was my best friend. I've still never trusted another guy and it ruins all my relationships now. The ‘other woman’ was my best friend. I’ve still never trusted another guy and it ruins all my relationships now.

]]> By: ttt http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-8469 ttt Sat, 09 Jan 2010 14:00:29 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=2037#comment-8469 Dear Mari, you post secret made a difference. It is a gem. Thank you. Dear Mari, you post secret made a difference. It is a gem. Thank you.

]]> By: maryM http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-8418 maryM Tue, 05 Jan 2010 01:40:02 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=2037#comment-8418 I feel the same, I can do things i never do, I listen music, I can take care of myself,I read I write, it feel so precious it my life and it beautiful. I feel the same, I can do things i never do, I listen music, I can take care of myself,I read I write, it feel so precious it my life and it beautiful.

]]> By: Nikita http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-8214 Nikita Fri, 18 Dec 2009 03:32:18 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=2037#comment-8214 This is awesome. To whomever made this: I hope you are happy now and with someone that deserves you and makes you feel loved This is awesome. To whomever made this:

I hope you are happy now and with someone that deserves you and makes you feel loved

]]> By: bloom http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-8194 bloom Wed, 16 Dec 2009 17:52:14 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=2037#comment-8194 It was a year ago this week that I found out that my high school sweat-heart, best friend for 20 years, mother of my two children, and wife of 13 years, cheated on me. It has been one and a half years since the affaire... it was a two night stand, on a business trip with a peer from another state. She was not drunk when she did it.. it was premeditated and agreed to by both. Up until that time neither of us had ever had sex with anyone else, this remains true for me. She continued the affaire via facebook after their original trist until I found out. He is also married with a young daughter.... They had unprotected sex, and now my wife and I both have a high risk form of HPV from him. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think about it... it used to be minute by minute, then hour by hour... now it is day to day..... I love my wife... She has harmed me like no one else ever could. To make things work your true love has to own up to the guilt. And it time you must let it go.... It is hard for the victim to not harp on the offender. I know.. I struggle with it daily.... But, If you are both committed it can work.... I will forever carry my scars... but the love was there first... and we are working to re-build. All my best. - B It was a year ago this week that I found out that my high school sweat-heart, best friend for 20 years, mother of my two children, and wife of 13 years, cheated on me.

It has been one and a half years since the affaire… it was a two night stand, on a business trip with a peer from another state. She was not drunk when she did it.. it was premeditated and agreed to by both.

Up until that time neither of us had ever had sex with anyone else, this remains true for me. She continued the affaire via facebook after their original trist until I found out.

He is also married with a young daughter…. They had unprotected sex, and now my wife and I both have a high risk form of HPV from him.

There is not a day that goes by that I do not think about it… it used to be minute by minute, then hour by hour… now it is day to day….. I love my wife… She has harmed me like no one else ever could.

To make things work your true love has to own up to the guilt.

And it time you must let it go…. It is hard for the victim to not harp on the offender. I know.. I struggle with it daily…. But, If you are both committed it can work…. I will forever carry my scars… but the love was there first… and we are working to re-build.

All my best.

- B

]]> By: Breonna http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-8183 Breonna Wed, 16 Dec 2009 02:25:48 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=2037#comment-8183 This proves my theory. Anyone who's lover is unfaithful will find out. When they do , they're not always so heartbroken and hurt. We can find away to get over it and we will show them that our life doesn't revolve around them! This proves my theory. Anyone who’s lover is unfaithful will find out. When they do , they’re not always so heartbroken and hurt. We can find away to get over it and we will show them that our life doesn’t revolve around them!

]]> By: cspgirl http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-8134 cspgirl Sun, 13 Dec 2009 23:24:27 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=2037#comment-8134 What a beautiful secret to share. I wish I could feel that way. I can't even find the strength to take a picture, or to see how beautiful life may be without him. Even though it's painfully obvious that my life before was a lie. Good luck to you, I'll be checking back on this secret to hopefully remind myself there is always a tomorrow. :) What a beautiful secret to share. I wish I could feel that way. I can’t even find the strength to take a picture, or to see how beautiful life may be without him. Even though it’s painfully obvious that my life before was a lie. Good luck to you, I’ll be checking back on this secret to hopefully remind myself there is always a tomorrow. :)

]]> By: Sophie http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/10/i-took-this-picture-the-day-after-i-found-out-you-cheated-on-me/comment-page-1/#comment-8112 Sophie Sat, 12 Dec 2009 01:51:14 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=2037#comment-8112 This secret makes me feel SO strong! It's almost like the world knows when the truth is being told & the clouds break & let a little sunshine in. I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me 2 years ago. I left him & it was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, but I never regret it. I've grown up so much, and have seen the world. I stare out at the Canadian Rockies every morning, and know in my heart when he told me, that was the exact moment my life changed...for the better! So, THANK-YOU! This secret makes me feel SO strong! It’s almost like the world knows when the truth is being told & the clouds break & let a little sunshine in.
I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me 2 years ago.
I left him & it was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do, but I never regret it.
I’ve grown up so much, and have seen the world.
I stare out at the Canadian Rockies every morning, and know in my heart when he told me, that was the exact moment my life changed…for the better!
So, THANK-YOU!

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