I took this picture the day after I found out you cheated on me…

I took this picture the day after I found out you cheated on me...

I took this picture the day after I found out you cheated on me… It reminds me that LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL WITHOUT YOU.




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Comment by N.A Subscribed to comments via email
2009-10-25 10:17:31

when i go to the place where i found he was cheating on me , i think back and i get a lil up set but the i say if it wasnt for him cheating on me i would of never found my TRUE LOVE :)

Comment by Aaron Borg
2009-11-15 17:45:53

Thats a beautiful picture of Coeur d’ Alene beach…

 
 
Comment by SlippedHalo Subscribed to comments via email
2009-10-26 07:29:01

Good for you. I am glad that you are moving on with life. Alwyas stay true to yourself.

Beautiful picture that you took.

 
Comment by Victoria Sobocki
2009-10-26 11:55:15

Beautiful! And that’s how it should be! :’)

 
Comment by amanda
2009-10-29 10:44:45

Wow, that picture is absolutely gorgeous. I’m happy for you, whoever you are.

 
Comment by Amy
2009-10-29 15:23:30

Beautiful secret…
I wish I could see it like you do =(

 
Comment by poopy Subscribed to comments via email
2009-11-03 15:07:51

i took a picture similar to this the day i touched my bumhole.
it was nice.
om nom nom.
now i look at the photo whenever i want to relive the experience.

 
Comment by Lindsey Subscribed to comments via email
2009-11-09 08:07:25

thanks for posting this it made my day. i hope i start to feel the same way.

 
Comment by Bryn
2009-11-20 20:49:48

Such a beautiful picture. Praying for the day I’ll feel this way. Seems like it’ll never happen. I’m so tired of the pain.

 
Comment by Me Subscribed to comments via email
2009-11-24 18:09:26

I just found out he cheated on me. Can I move on?

Comment by Zomb Subscribed to comments via email
2009-11-25 20:12:03

I just found out I was cheated on by the one I was hopelessly in love with. He wants to make things work but doesn’t want to deal with my pain at the same time…I love him so much but I don’t want to keep putting myself through this…it hurts. I hope one day I can heal too.

Comment by bloom Subscribed to comments via email
2009-12-16 09:52:14

It was a year ago this week that I found out that my high school sweat-heart, best friend for 20 years, mother of my two children, and wife of 13 years, cheated on me.

It has been one and a half years since the affaire… it was a two night stand, on a business trip with a peer from another state. She was not drunk when she did it.. it was premeditated and agreed to by both.

Up until that time neither of us had ever had sex with anyone else, this remains true for me. She continued the affaire via facebook after their original trist until I found out.

He is also married with a young daughter…. They had unprotected sex, and now my wife and I both have a high risk form of HPV from him.

There is not a day that goes by that I do not think about it… it used to be minute by minute, then hour by hour… now it is day to day….. I love my wife… She has harmed me like no one else ever could.

To make things work your true love has to own up to the guilt.

And it time you must let it go…. It is hard for the victim to not harp on the offender. I know.. I struggle with it daily…. But, If you are both committed it can work…. I will forever carry my scars… but the love was there first… and we are working to re-build.

All my best.

- B

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Comment by Me again Subscribed to comments via email
2009-11-24 18:11:07

How can I love someone who I never knew honestly?

 
Comment by Mari
2009-11-24 22:50:28

Wow… I never thought this would actually make it onto the site. I submitted this secret. It’s been a little over 2 years since I took that picture. Everyone who said they hope they feel the same as me someday, just know that you WILL. It’s so hard, but in the end, letting go is worth it. I’ll pray that each of you find the peace that I have. Even if it does hurt now and then.

Comment by ttt
2010-01-09 06:00:29

Dear Mari, you post secret made a difference. It is a gem. Thank you.

 
 
Comment by Kelly Alexa Silva
2009-11-27 23:30:17

wow this post secret is so powerful and it gives me strength.
it turned my night around.
why are we so dependent of others anyways.

 
Comment by charlotte
2009-12-06 21:12:25

the day he told me the truth the sky was beautiful.

 
Comment by Sophie Subscribed to comments via email
2009-12-11 17:51:14

This secret makes me feel SO strong! It’s almost like the world knows when the truth is being told & the clouds break & let a little sunshine in.
I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me 2 years ago.
I left him & it was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do, but I never regret it.
I’ve grown up so much, and have seen the world.
I stare out at the Canadian Rockies every morning, and know in my heart when he told me, that was the exact moment my life changed…for the better!
So, THANK-YOU!

 
Comment by cspgirl Subscribed to comments via email
2009-12-13 15:24:27

What a beautiful secret to share. I wish I could feel that way. I can’t even find the strength to take a picture, or to see how beautiful life may be without him. Even though it’s painfully obvious that my life before was a lie. Good luck to you, I’ll be checking back on this secret to hopefully remind myself there is always a tomorrow. :)

 
Comment by Breonna Subscribed to comments via email
2009-12-15 18:25:48

This proves my theory. Anyone who’s lover is unfaithful will find out. When they do , they’re not always so heartbroken and hurt. We can find away to get over it and we will show them that our life doesn’t revolve around them!

 
Comment by Nikita
2009-12-17 19:32:18

This is awesome. To whomever made this:

I hope you are happy now and with someone that deserves you and makes you feel loved

 
Comment by maryM
2010-01-04 17:40:02

I feel the same, I can do things i never do, I listen music, I can take care of myself,I read I write, it feel so precious it my life and it beautiful.

 
Comment by Hopeless
2010-02-02 19:45:00

The ‘other woman’ was my best friend. I’ve still never trusted another guy and it ruins all my relationships now.

 
Comment by Amanda
2010-02-05 17:52:35

I remember the exact details of the day I told him I cheated on him. It crushed him but left me relieved.

 
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