Dear Great-Uncle Wayne

Dear Great-Uncle Wayne

Dear Great-Uncle Wayne

I wanted to let you know, I’m sorry. I’m sorry you were disowned from our family because you were gay. I’m sorry that you were alone in your fight against AIDS. Most people in our family don’t even know you exited. You died long before I was born, but for what it’s worth, I accept you for who you were.

Unlike my grandmother, I don’t think you’re rotting in hell.

- Tasha




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Comment by Jonna
2009-10-18 10:04:30

I just wanted to say that this secret brought tears to my eyes, because it reminded me that there really are accepting and loving people still in this world.

Thank you

Comment by melissa
2009-10-18 10:46:54

me too!

 
Comment by Tara Subscribed to comments via email
2009-11-17 20:26:29

I know me too….

 
 
Comment by paperheart Subscribed to comments via email
2009-10-18 20:07:06

rest in peace sir

 
Comment by alyssa
2009-10-20 10:51:19

Maybe we are related, this is just too coincidental.

 
Comment by celly
2009-10-21 15:33:55

Rest in peace in whatever religious afterlife you believe in, Tasha’s great-uncle Wayne.

 
Comment by Busy Braven
2009-10-21 16:48:24

I went to school with a boy named Wayne, He was gay, He died at an early age. Maybe AIDs I wished I had been a better friend to him.

 
Comment by Erin
2009-10-25 22:07:08

This made me cry. I’m sorry that some people just don’t understand. Maybe one day, everyone will get along. Rest in piece.

 
Comment by Laura Subscribed to comments via email
2009-10-31 18:08:33

I am so glad you posted your secret Tasha. As a religious person, I am surrounded by those who don’t accept others for who they really are. Some of my best friends and two of my uncles are gay and they are some of the most amazing and beautiful people I know. I don’t think any G-d would put a person in hell for the way He made them- and I hope your Uncle has a wonderful place in heaven, as do you. All the best and thank you

 
Comment by Andrew
2009-11-05 07:10:28

Wiping my eyes at work now. Thank you for sharing this.

 
Comment by Luc.
2009-11-05 23:30:16

This is beautiful.

 
Comment by Delaney
2009-11-11 08:07:21

Im really happy you put up this secret it made me cry instantly and for what its worth i bet your uncle was one of the most amazing people you could ever meet!

 
Comment by beastette
2009-11-25 20:39:29

This is utterly beautiful. RIP Wayne and all others who have died facing the rejection of their families on the grounds of sexuality. I’ll say a prayer for your great-uncle.

 
Comment by anon
2009-12-01 18:30:44

i accept you for who you are. rip wayne

 
Comment by Anon Subscribed to comments via email
2009-12-02 17:29:32

Brought tears to my eyes….you are filled with God’s grace to understand the sadness his family put him through. RIP Wayne

 
Comment by Emily
2009-12-07 16:56:34

Thank you for reminding me that there are wonderful people here.

 
Comment by Jessica
2009-12-15 04:34:28

My best friend just came out of the closet to his hardcore Catholic mother. She loved him and his boyfriend before she found out that they were gay and together. She now speaks to neither one of them.

I hope it doesnt take one of their deaths for her to realise what she has lost because of her narrow mind.

 
Comment by Sara
2009-12-18 19:15:26

This is beautiful.

 
Comment by Emily
2009-12-18 22:49:44

This is really touching.

I thought my family was fairly open to homosexuality (we have an openly gay cousin living with his partner, but apparently they’re total hypocrites who completely judge his lifestyle), but the past two days I’ve realized they aren’t. Apparently, we’ve become too accepting of every little minority out there. It kind of breaks my heart to hear them say such things. I’m gay (or, well, I think I am – regardless, it has given me a huge understanding of the gay community). My feelings have never been a choice. It hasn’t just been an option on a checklist I decided I’d like to try one day. It’s who I am. Period. The fact that my family, and many other people out there, would ostracize people for such a small thing amazes me (and not in a good way). Ignorance astounds me. I have so much more I would like to say about this topic, but I’d be here all night.

 
Comment by Kathleen
2009-12-21 21:53:50

That was beautiful, Tasha.

Rest in Peace Great-Uncle Wayne!

 
Comment by Michelle
2009-12-25 12:42:38

Absolutely beautiful. It brought a tear to my eye. God bless you and your great-uncle. <3

 
Comment by sinead
2009-12-30 15:43:41

That is so beautiful Tasha.
I was crying when i read it the first time, the second time and the third time.
RIP Great-Uncle Wayne. <3

 
Comment by Sierra
2009-12-31 21:38:05

This was beautiful….. I cried while reading this… So heart felt and beautiful. I could feel how she felt. This amazing.
Peace and Love <33

 
Comment by Lillyanna
2010-01-01 20:22:04

thank you for showing me there are good people in this world

 
Comment by Rej
2010-01-05 16:04:30

I accept you for who you are, rest in peace. I wish more people would be as loving as you.

 
Comment by Hannah
2010-01-10 12:48:00

I too have a uncle who is gay and suffers from AIDS. I get scared often about the future. I can’t picture life with out him. I’m very sorry for your loss. Glad you have an accepting attitude. I’m always baffled by the amount of people who are so ignorant on the subject. Thanks for the story.

 
Comment by Erin
2010-01-18 22:43:44

RIP Tasha’s Great-Uncle Wayne.
I accept you.

 
Comment by cheaaalsea
2010-02-18 15:43:56

the only other time i got goose bumps like i just did was when i read a book about a Holocaust survivor. And that was a hell of a lot more words than you used. Well put. I am glad you put this up here. May he rest in peace.

 
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