Comments on: I’m waiting for the day

By: evolutionpeas

evolutionpeas — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 23:35:53 +0000

For me it’s like im a child again at xmas praying for the dolls house..that you never got

By: Suki

Suki — Tue, 05 Jul 2011 14:26:42 +0000

I love this and everyday I hope he says the same thing too.

By: rj

rj — Mon, 27 Jun 2011 00:17:44 +0000

My boyfriend tells me “you” everytime I ask him that question. Even though he says it I dont believe him. I think I am self sabotaging a great relationship…

By: poetgirl

poetgirl — Wed, 10 Nov 2010 01:20:46 +0000

http://ansleypoetry.blogspot.com/

By: Sammie

Sammie — Sat, 18 Sep 2010 23:07:07 +0000

i had that momment… and like an idiot i asked him to wait 2 weeks till i was ready because i didnt want to get hurt again….. he’s with her now… that was three days ago… nothing has ever hurt worse.

By: emsters

emsters — Sun, 15 Aug 2010 16:36:20 +0000

OMG an asian guy??? race shouldn’t matter!!!!

By: Keli

Keli — Sun, 01 Aug 2010 03:33:43 +0000

When it does happen, you’re going to love it. It’s worth the wait…, trust me.

By: Same here..

Same here.. — Wed, 16 Jun 2010 06:54:59 +0000

I love my best friend and we hang out all the time.. but she doesn’t feel the same.. and a big part of why is because I’m white and she wants an asian guy. I can’t help that.. and I get to hear all about the ‘hot’ guys she sees, and who she likes, and I have to pretend it doesn’t bother me when it really does. All the time.

By: Heather

Heather — Sat, 16 Jan 2010 23:26:39 +0000

My best friend flirted with me and led me on for two years. My friends all thought we should be together & were mad at him because he wouldn’t ask me out. One day he told me he valued our friendship and closeness and didn’t want to risk it for a relationship that could end badly. A month or two later he started dating his other friend. I still feel like I’m not good enough.

By: maggy

maggy — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 08:26:57 +0000

I confessed my love for my bestfriend after two years of me praying that he felt the same(everyone was already convinced we were dating). When I told him, he said it just wasn’t mutual for him… he felt horrible, but since we would talk everyday i told him i needed my time and for him to wait for me to talk to him when i was ready. I didn’t talk to him for two weeks and he went insane trying to get my attention. I gave in and we had a long talk, we are still best friends now its been about 5 months, but i constantly get mixed signals, hes so scared of me not talking to him again and i am the only person he hangs out with and calls when we come back from college. I wish this was a success story, but i just keep falling for him more and more and he wont let me stop.

good luck to all of you:)

By: emma

emma — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 03:05:26 +0000

jesus, way to ruin the poetry of this secret! don’t be so literal…

By: Oh for christ's sake...

Oh for christ's sake... — Tue, 13 Oct 2009 00:57:04 +0000

Incessantly asking me what I’m thinking is one of the quickest ways to convince me that we’re not a good match in the long term. If you’re fishing for a particular response, there are more constructive ways to go about it. If you’re incapable of sharing a comfortable silence with me, I’m eventually going to find your company unbearable.

I used to date someone (best friends, etc) who did that. We’re still friends, but I’ve made it clear that I have no patience whatsoever for that question.

By: Rachel Scruton

Rachel Scruton — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 21:43:24 +0000

I know what you mean..
I’m mates with my ex who ive loved for ova 3 yrs an i wait and wait for him 2 say he feels the same..
It’s going to be a long wait!

I wish you luck! x

By: le_sigh

le_sigh — Mon, 12 Oct 2009 01:09:37 +0000

I dated my best friend for six years. Let me say, once you break up, there’s no best friend anymore. He still calls me to tell me how much he misses me and how I’m still his best friend. But he won’t leave his girlfriend. I’m hopeful to a point; I’ve stopped waiting.

By: Alicia Stanek

Alicia Stanek — Tue, 29 Sep 2009 01:57:16 +0000

I fell in love with this guy the first day I met him and we became best friends. During the time period that we were still becoming friends this girl a year older than us asked him out and they dated of close to 3 years. during those 3 years him and I still stayed best friends. I was patient just waiting for him to realize he was all I ever wanted. Then during our senior year him and his girl friend broke up and me and my boy friend ended up breaking up a few months later. Me and him started getting to be closer friends. then at prom we ended up dancing the WHOLE dance together. My heart felt like it was going to break out at any moment. During the week after prom we texted eachother like crazy and then he just asked in a text one night when my cousin and i were driving home from college. I screamed soooo loud! she couldnt hear for a few minutes, lol. so we have been best friends for 4 years now and we have been dating for almost 5 months. he goes to school in marquette up in the U.P. and im stuck 7 hours away from him for the rest of the semester until i move up there with him. we have been planning to get married and start a life together and i have never been happier. so for everyone out there who’s in love with theyer best friend dont try to rush anything. if its ment to happen just let it happen when its supposed to. i had to wait the 3 years that my babe was dating the same girl and i thought they would be together forever. I finally got my chance and i will never let go of him. so hold in there and i hope the best for everyone.

By: Limey

Limey — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 22:14:13 +0000

I really wish my boyfriend would reply like that. 2 Year relationship and still waiting

By: sunshine

sunshine — Mon, 21 Sep 2009 23:23:07 +0000

you will, i promise its possible and the first time you hear it you will not know what to say because it’s that amazing.

By: evola

evola — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 20:35:49 +0000

ughhh, i hope i find the person that does say “you”.
pretty crazy thought though.

By: Purple_rain

Purple_rain — Mon, 07 Sep 2009 05:10:09 +0000

My boyfriend told me after we started dating that that’s the way he felt about me before we got together. And though I kept denying him that’s how I felt about him too. Your prayers worked Brian. We were afraid of losing our best friends but we both gained so much more. Thank you.

By: truebeliever

truebeliever — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 04:01:30 +0000

Since he’s been with her, he’s told me he still loves me and that he will never be able to get over me. I feel like he’s just staying with her because it’s not serious between them…so it doesn’t scare him like our relationship did. I really feel like an idiot for even thinking about giving him another chance.

By: Caitlin

Caitlin — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 03:23:13 +0000

he told me he loved me shortly after I posted my comment, it may actually have been that very night after I posted, I’m sure you could understand how amazing it was to know that, but he then went away for a family reunion and found out some unsettling facts about why his parents got married (and later divorced)and he has now pulled a 180 on me, he no long wants to be with me, and i haven’t gotten the guts to ask if he still loves me, but he wants to ask a girl out we knew from high school. he told me he was afraid that he was just settling for me when he didn’t meet any one new… one of our good friends told me that from an outsiders point of view it looked like we’re crazy in love with each other he is just to chicken to face up to it… even with everything he said and what we’ve been through the years, i still love him and want another chance.

By: tom the tank

tom the tank — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 01:22:34 +0000

I hope my girlfriend knows that there is really a second that she is not on mind.
I love her so much and she means so much to me<3

By: truebeliever

truebeliever — Fri, 28 Aug 2009 02:36:09 +0000

Sounds just like me…but in my case, he is with someone who he knows he’s not going to stay with. It’s been 10 months now, I’ll never be over him. It’s a very difficult situation to be in. I don’t want to get anyone else involved with me since I’m not over him. Been there, done that…and it didn’t turn out well.

By: Sampy

Sampy — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 14:36:27 +0000

I’ve been there.
I found that person who’ll answer with “you.” and it’s beautiful, and possible.
Keep searching for the person who will. It’ll be worth it.

By: KattheGrace

KattheGrace — Wed, 19 Aug 2009 03:17:49 +0000

Yea, i’m the same. I’ve stopped talking to him but still think of him. Sometimes i think it’s not right, why losing a good friend just because i love him. But, it’s really hard to bear seeing he loving someone else. It’s hurt a lot. Maybe i’m jealous. I don’t know it’s a mistake or not either.

By: blondie

blondie — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 15:21:22 +0000

God told them, “I’ve never quit loving you and never will. Expect love, love, and more love!”

By: Jessica Wiseman

Jessica Wiseman — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 00:37:22 +0000

I didn’t even know that this was a secret that I was holding back, but it is, and its killing me. I love him so much, and he is always on my mind, I just never feel like he is thinking about me at all……… :/ ughhhh

By: Caitlin

Caitlin — Mon, 03 Aug 2009 21:56:00 +0000

I’ve been in love for the past 5 years, we’ve dated 4 times, and I’m praying there will be a 5th. Every day I think of him, every day I worry some other girl will get his attention, and every day I wait to hear him say I want to be with you, but in the end, I would give it all up if I knew he would be happy with someone else, but if that day ever comes it will be the day our friendship ends, I want him to be happy, but I can’t stay around if he’s with another girl.

By: pain

pain — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 13:37:33 +0000

I admire your courage. I’m in the same situation but don’t think I can bring myself to stop talking to him. It hurts everyday to know he cares more about her than me.

By: Sunshine

Sunshine — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 15:23:18 +0000

I gave up on him being anything more than my best friend, I’ve never been happier. I found somebody who loves me back and tells me that I’m all he thinks about. If you don’t stop trying to get what you want out of the wrong person you might miss the person you are supposed to be with.We have been together a month and I already know he is my soulmate.

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 04:44:47 +0000

I was in love with my best friend for a year

But was scared of rejection, so I kept it to myself

One day I made a move…

…We’ve been together for three years now…

Just. Go. For. It.

By: Sunshine

Sunshine — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 21:55:02 +0000

im never the answer

By: Laura

Laura — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 19:32:32 +0000

I know how you feel.
But I never ask what he’s thinking purely because I’m scared that I’m not the answer.

I think I’d rather not know.

By: J

Mon, 13 Jul 2009 17:32:09 +0000

ha! I was that guy.
I always thought it, I just never said it… them days are gone (thank god)

By: Michelle Sabourin

Michelle Sabourin — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 08:23:59 +0000

hey..i know exactly what its like.. stay strong and keep you’re chin up.

By: Sunshine

Sunshine — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 02:17:02 +0000

not very nice

By: someone who understands

someone who understands — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 07:49:41 +0000

-mew- i’m lucky. My best friend and I are together and it’s wonderful.

*stops bragging now*

By: Reasons

Reasons — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 12:22:33 +0000

My Girlfriend Broke up with me about 2 weeks ago now….im 16 by the way. We were together for 2 years, in a way i grew up with her for those 2 years and now i dont know really what to do with myself. She loves post secret and this one reminds me of her so much.

By: Anon

Anon — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 12:26:14 +0000

I feel the same way.
And I have no idea what to do.

By: Cyndi

Cyndi — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 00:19:08 +0000

i know…it really sucks, and sometimes i wish i didnt have to hear about the girl du jour….but i could never give up our friendship

By: D

Sun, 28 Jun 2009 21:32:54 +0000

The first time my boyfriend ever said it I was not expecting it at all and it stopped my heart for a second or two. It was amazing. He still surprises me every time he randomly says it and it feels amazing every time. I wish every one could experience it. ^_^

By: Sunshine

Sunshine — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 13:43:35 +0000

I’m sorry for making it sound like i was trying to steal him…thats not really what i meant at all.It was more of a if things don’t work long distance for them…maybe something could happen between us.I know his girlfriend personally and I really do like her for him.I’m not the boyfriend stealing type I promise.

By: Michelle

Michelle — Sat, 27 Jun 2009 03:47:50 +0000

I feel this way every single day of my life.

By: ANW

ANW — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 06:12:05 +0000

When I first read this, my heart went out to the poster. But after you posted a comment and said he has a girlfriend, I can’t believe you would want to try to steal him away from another girl. Please re-think your decisions before getting involved with someone who’s taken. About 8 months ago, I lost the love of my life (of almost 5 years) to a girl who knew about me, but didn’t care…and I will never be over him, or be able to move on without him. He is my other half. He still tells me he isn’t over me, and how he knows she’s not “the one” for him. He even told me he doesn’t think anyone will ever love him as much as I do, or treat him as well…but it’s not enough…or maybe it’s too much? Eh….sorry for rambling.

Anyways, as much as I despise her for what she did, I haven’t tried to “steal” him…or get him to kiss me, like she did while we were together. Just think about how you would feel if you were the other girl. I’m not bashing you, I know you can’t help who you have feelings for…but you can control your actions as long as he is taken.

By: nobody

nobody — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 03:17:02 +0000

me too…and when he’s alone he tells me he wants to but when it comes down to it…he won’t even take a few hours away from his girlfriend to actually do it…why do I let him string me along like this…

By: M.B.

M.B. — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 05:04:21 +0000

Whenever I catch my girlfriend zoning out in thought, I ask her “what are you thinking about?” Just a little quirk in me I guess.

She always says she’s thinking about “that street sign over there” or something small, but it’s fine and we giggle about it.

When I read this my heart fell to my feet, because I realized that I, too, just want her to say “you” one day without me having to tell her that.

That’s why I keep asking her. “You.”

What are you thinking about, baby?

By: kaysterr

kaysterr — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 03:44:25 +0000

When my best friend started dating this other guy, I was so overwhelmed by jealousy that I convinced myself that I couldn’t bear to be the cause of rumors and gossip that can jeopardize their relationship because I would still hang out with her. So I forced the two of us to stop talking to each other and now we don’t talk ever. It’s so awkward whenever we see each other that I don’t want to see her anymore.

And even though I try really hard to forget about her and just get over it, I still think about her from time to time and try to figure out if what I did was a mistake or not.

By: Loz

Loz — Mon, 25 May 2009 07:40:43 +0000

i have this no-strings-attached relationship with my best friend. (we’re only 16)
last week we had the whole relationship talk and he said that we should start dating soon and that i should really think about it.
i told him last year how i him, alot. (but then we weren’t as close as we are now)
and now i want to tell him that im still insane over him but im worried he wont feel the same way :/

By: Leise Melodie

Leise Melodie — Fri, 22 May 2009 01:16:40 +0000

I feel you on this. I really wish I could tell my best friend that I am head over heels with him… and yet I am too terrified to be rejected, especially by someone who I could scare away, that I cannot bring myself to say a word.

By: Sunshine

Sunshine — Thu, 21 May 2009 12:29:48 +0000

Hey everybody, when i first saw this secret…my secret…i was shocked. i want to thank you guys for understanding, it really does mean alot, as an update….i still have not heard that one magic word, but i will keep waiting…we are going to college 3 hours away from each other one august rolls around…18 hours away from his girlfriend so who knows maybe something will happen. Good luck to all of you in your love endeavors

By: Amy

Amy — Tue, 19 May 2009 18:23:04 +0000

Arghh this sucks so much.
My best friend and I fell in love, dated for a bit and then broke up. We vowed to stay friends but it didn’t quite work out like that for a number of reasons. Now we never speak. Sometimes I really regret it ever happened, I miss talking to him so much.
But maybe you’ll be one of the lucky ones who it all works out for. Good luck =]

By: Ooompahpah

Ooompahpah — Tue, 19 May 2009 18:12:31 +0000

Being best friends with the person you love can suck.
Thank you, and good luck to you, as well.

By: Brian

Brian — Tue, 19 May 2009 17:22:40 +0000

I feel the exact same way about my best friend. she is the the only girl i’ve ever loved for the right reasons and everyday that i see her i just want to kiss her and tell her how i feel but i’m so scared that when i do she wont feel the same way and i’ll lose my best friend. I’m praying for everyone that feels this way that it will work out for the best.
I hope you both find happiness.

By: Ooompahpah

Ooompahpah — Tue, 19 May 2009 03:15:49 +0000

I know exactly what you’re talking about.
It’s hard, especially when he’s your best friend.
It sucks listening to him talk about other girls, when I’m waiting, waiting for him to realize that I’m right in front of him.
Good luck to you, dear.