Post Secret Archive

I know exactly what you’re talking about.
It’s hard, especially when he’s your best friend.
It sucks listening to him talk about other girls, when I’m waiting, waiting for him to realize that I’m right in front of him.
Good luck to you, dear.

Being best friends with the person you love can suck.
Thank you, and good luck to you, as well.

Arghh this sucks so much.
My best friend and I fell in love, dated for a bit and then broke up. We vowed to stay friends but it didn’t quite work out like that for a number of reasons. Now we never speak. Sometimes I really regret it ever happened, I miss talking to him so much.
But maybe you’ll be one of the lucky ones who it all works out for. Good luck =]

Hey everybody, when i first saw this secret…my secret…i was shocked. i want to thank you guys for understanding, it really does mean alot, as an update….i still have not heard that one magic word, but i will keep waiting…we are going to college 3 hours away from each other one august rolls around…18 hours away from his girlfriend so who knows maybe something will happen. Good luck to all of you in your love endeavors

When my best friend started dating this other guy, I was so overwhelmed by jealousy that I convinced myself that I couldn’t bear to be the cause of rumors and gossip that can jeopardize their relationship because I would still hang out with her. So I forced the two of us to stop talking to each other and now we don’t talk ever. It’s so awkward whenever we see each other that I don’t want to see her anymore.

And even though I try really hard to forget about her and just get over it, I still think about her from time to time and try to figure out if what I did was a mistake or not.

Whenever I catch my girlfriend zoning out in thought, I ask her “what are you thinking about?” Just a little quirk in me I guess.

She always says she’s thinking about “that street sign over there” or something small, but it’s fine and we giggle about it.

When I read this my heart fell to my feet, because I realized that I, too, just want her to say “you” one day without me having to tell her that.

That’s why I keep asking her. “You.”

What are you thinking about, baby?

me too…and when he’s alone he tells me he wants to but when it comes down to it…he won’t even take a few hours away from his girlfriend to actually do it…why do I let him string me along like this…

When I first read this, my heart went out to the poster. But after you posted a comment and said he has a girlfriend, I can’t believe you would want to try to steal him away from another girl. Please re-think your decisions before getting involved with someone who’s taken. About 8 months ago, I lost the love of my life (of almost 5 years) to a girl who knew about me, but didn’t care…and I will never be over him, or be able to move on without him. He is my other half. He still tells me he isn’t over me, and how he knows she’s not “the one” for him. He even told me he doesn’t think anyone will ever love him as much as I do, or treat him as well…but it’s not enough…or maybe it’s too much? Eh….sorry for rambling.

Anyways, as much as I despise her for what she did, I haven’t tried to “steal” him…or get him to kiss me, like she did while we were together. Just think about how you would feel if you were the other girl. I’m not bashing you, I know you can’t help who you have feelings for…but you can control your actions as long as he is taken.

I feel this way every single day of my life.

The first time my boyfriend ever said it I was not expecting it at all and it stopped my heart for a second or two. It was amazing. He still surprises me every time he randomly says it and it feels amazing every time. I wish every one could experience it. ^_^

My Girlfriend Broke up with me about 2 weeks ago now….im 16 by the way. We were together for 2 years, in a way i grew up with her for those 2 years and now i dont know really what to do with myself. She loves post secret and this one reminds me of her so much.

-mew- i’m lucky. My best friend and I are together and it’s wonderful.

*stops bragging now*

hey..i know exactly what its like.. stay strong and keep you’re chin up.

ha! I was that guy.
I always thought it, I just never said it… them days are gone (thank god)

I know how you feel.
But I never ask what he’s thinking purely because I’m scared that I’m not the answer.

I think I’d rather not know.

im never the answer

I was in love with my best friend for a year

But was scared of rejection, so I kept it to myself

One day I made a move…

…We’ve been together for three years now…

Just. Go. For. It.

I’ve been in love for the past 5 years, we’ve dated 4 times, and I’m praying there will be a 5th. Every day I think of him, every day I worry some other girl will get his attention, and every day I wait to hear him say I want to be with you, but in the end, I would give it all up if I knew he would be happy with someone else, but if that day ever comes it will be the day our friendship ends, I want him to be happy, but I can’t stay around if he’s with another girl.

I didn’t even know that this was a secret that I was holding back, but it is, and its killing me. I love him so much, and he is always on my mind, I just never feel like he is thinking about me at all……… :/ ughhhh

I’ve been there.
I found that person who’ll answer with “you.” and it’s beautiful, and possible.
Keep searching for the person who will. It’ll be worth it.

ughhh, i hope i find the person that does say “you”.
pretty crazy thought though.

I really wish my boyfriend would reply like that. 2 Year relationship and still waiting

I fell in love with this guy the first day I met him and we became best friends. During the time period that we were still becoming friends this girl a year older than us asked him out and they dated of close to 3 years. during those 3 years him and I still stayed best friends. I was patient just waiting for him to realize he was all I ever wanted. Then during our senior year him and his girl friend broke up and me and my boy friend ended up breaking up a few months later. Me and him started getting to be closer friends. then at prom we ended up dancing the WHOLE dance together. My heart felt like it was going to break out at any moment. During the week after prom we texted eachother like crazy and then he just asked in a text one night when my cousin and i were driving home from college. I screamed soooo loud! she couldnt hear for a few minutes, lol. so we have been best friends for 4 years now and we have been dating for almost 5 months. he goes to school in marquette up in the U.P. and im stuck 7 hours away from him for the rest of the semester until i move up there with him. we have been planning to get married and start a life together and i have never been happier. so for everyone out there who’s in love with theyer best friend dont try to rush anything. if its ment to happen just let it happen when its supposed to. i had to wait the 3 years that my babe was dating the same girl and i thought they would be together forever. I finally got my chance and i will never let go of him. so hold in there and i hope the best for everyone.

I dated my best friend for six years. Let me say, once you break up, there’s no best friend anymore. He still calls me to tell me how much he misses me and how I’m still his best friend. But he won’t leave his girlfriend. I’m hopeful to a point; I’ve stopped waiting.

I know what you mean..
I’m mates with my ex who ive loved for ova 3 yrs an i wait and wait for him 2 say he feels the same..
It’s going to be a long wait!

I wish you luck! x

Incessantly asking me what I’m thinking is one of the quickest ways to convince me that we’re not a good match in the long term. If you’re fishing for a particular response, there are more constructive ways to go about it. If you’re incapable of sharing a comfortable silence with me, I’m eventually going to find your company unbearable.

I used to date someone (best friends, etc) who did that. We’re still friends, but I’ve made it clear that I have no patience whatsoever for that question.

My best friend flirted with me and led me on for two years. My friends all thought we should be together & were mad at him because he wouldn’t ask me out. One day he told me he valued our friendship and closeness and didn’t want to risk it for a relationship that could end badly. A month or two later he started dating his other friend. I still feel like I’m not good enough.