Comments on: I’m tired of waiting for my birthday

By: im chaste tooo

im chaste tooo — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 15:39:07 +0000

I too am chaste. Im an eighteen year old girl and I am saving myself for my husband. solely. I would love for my husband to share himself with me too. God bless all of you my chaste brothers and sisters in Christ.

By: Wait

Wait — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 14:39:03 +0000

Your wife will be truly grateful and your marrige will benifit greatly from that. I pray that God gives you the strength to follow through with this. If a girl doesn’t see this as a good thing, she is not worth it ayways.

By: Wait

Wait — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 14:33:14 +0000

When I was dating, someone told me to treat your boyfriend as if they were to someday be married to someone else (because no matter how much we think we love someone, that may not be who God has chosen us to be with). Meaning don’t do anything you would feel uncomfortable telling his wife you had done with him. But considering a lot of people nowdays cheat with someone who is married without feeling any guilt, other peoples feelings don’t matter. Also you don’t want to have to tell your husband about how you have slept with as many guys as a hooker and will not only be giving yourself to him, but also 3 STD’s. So at least look at it like you don’t know who you are going marry. Maybe this is just me, but if my husband told me he slept with a lot of different girls, I would be too nervous about how i compared to them to enjoy it. And if sex is a skill and you can get better with other people, why can’t you perfect your skill with just your husband? My husband is the only man I’ve had sex with and I wouldn’t change a thing. And God wants you to wait not to give you rules, but to protect you and your heart. He knows sex before marriage can break your heart and He wants to save you from that. And He created sex FOR marriage, and if your marriage is truly Gods will, the sex WILL be amazing. If it’s not, that’s because you followed your own will and not His.

By: chaste

chaste — Sat, 03 Jul 2010 02:53:07 +0000

Sex is NOT about “preforming” or “having experience”. If you love someone that much that you’d share yourself with them wholely, than you’ll wait. And, as a nineteen year old guy, I not only am a virgin, but I plan to wait for marriage to share myself with only one person…my future bride.

By: c

Tue, 29 Jun 2010 04:59:27 +0000

I think you’ve had about the best reply to this kind of comment yet

By: c

Tue, 29 Jun 2010 04:53:49 +0000

Or he doesn’t want to go through trying to get another girl to the point of wanting to have sex, really, seems easier to get someone to keep having sex than to get someone else to have sex with you for the first time

By: Chloe

Chloe — Sun, 23 May 2010 21:13:33 +0000

Mine hurt real bad… then again i was 13 and had nothing up there before.

By: Michael

Michael — Sat, 01 May 2010 15:12:49 +0000

So she should marry him before she turns seventeen?

By: Jaco

Jaco — Sat, 01 May 2010 12:48:54 +0000

I would have forgot about it when you turn 17, as he would be with somebody else. Give it away only AFTER marriage

By: Michael

Michael — Fri, 30 Apr 2010 16:57:11 +0000

Not to mention proving one’s manhood.