July 6, 2010 by Wait When I was dating, someone told me to treat your boyfriend as if they were to someday be married to someone else (because no matter how much we think we love someone, that may not be who God has chosen us to be with). Meaning don’t do anything you would feel uncomfortable telling his wife you had done with him. But considering a lot of people nowdays cheat with someone who is married without feeling any guilt, other peoples feelings don’t matter. Also you don’t want to have to tell your husband about how you have slept with as many guys as a hooker and will not only be giving yourself to him, but also 3 STD’s. So at least look at it like you don’t know who you are going marry. Maybe this is just me, but if my husband told me he slept with a lot of different girls, I would be too nervous about how i compared to them to enjoy it. And if sex is a skill and you can get better with other people, why can’t you perfect your skill with just your husband? My husband is the only man I’ve had sex with and I wouldn’t change a thing. And God wants you to wait not to give you rules, but to protect you and your heart. He knows sex before marriage can break your heart and He wants to save you from that. And He created sex FOR marriage, and if your marriage is truly Gods will, the sex WILL be amazing. If it’s not, that’s because you followed your own will and not His.