Comments on: i secretly hate my friends

By: Jasmine

Jasmine — Tue, 03 Aug 2010 01:42:04 +0000

you said that perfectly! Bravo!

By: private

private — Sun, 25 Jul 2010 17:37:25 +0000

Wow. When I saw this secret I almost started crying. This is totally how I feel too.. And sometimes I feel like my friends only keep me around because I’m smart and they know I’ll help and do pretty much anything for them. It doesn’t often seem they I’m their friend because they just want to hang out with me. And what makes it even worse is a couple of my friends always seem to think it’s funny to give my cell # to the “gross” guys that they would never consider. One gave my # to a guy she met yesterday and I’m just waiting to find out what’s wrong with him… That’s one of the things that hurts the worst, I’m never their first choice and they always give me their garbage….Writing this made me realize how true all that really is. I can’t wait until I go off to college so I can just start over! Hopefully it’ll be better then.

By: AliceInWonderland

AliceInWonderland — Tue, 20 Jul 2010 20:04:41 +0000

3 things…

1. Interesting that this secret has the most comments I’ve ever seen on a postsecret, tells you something about society, no?
2. I’d like to mention that genetics is NOT “an excuse” but a genuine stumbling block for many overwieght people. It causes people to be predisposed to weight gain (thats why you get those friends who can eat and eat and eat, do very little exercise and remain “skinny” while others eat minimally, work out regularly and lose as little as 2lb per week) Its unfair to marginalise these people simply because of the family they were born into, if you thought racism was bad try being on the receiving end of fatist comments.
3. BUT the world is unfair, the same way some people are just not bright and others have high intellect, and if it bothers you that much you can overcome genetics by working hard (you may have to work harder than most but, hey, life’s a bitch right?)

By: Lolo

Lolo — Sat, 17 Jul 2010 02:30:40 +0000

If you are my friend, I’m sorry. I’m just as self conscious about my weight as you.

By: Wulf

Wulf — Fri, 18 Jun 2010 03:59:23 +0000

I think one of the reasons my ‘best friend’ quit hanging out with me is because when we decided to start losing weight I’ve been losing whiles she’s been gaining. You shouldn’t dislike people just because they are trying to get into shape. It’s not like life is a competition.

By: Heartbreak

Heartbreak — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 20:47:52 +0000

I’m 5’0 and 159 pounds, so a pretty big girl, and I have never felt resentment towards my skinny friends because I understand the implications that go along with being skinny. People expect you to be a certain way to think certain things.

I like having full breasts and a nice butt. Most my skinny friends have zero curves. I don’t like, however, my overweight female friends. Because the are constantly complaining about how they WISH they could be my size, and sometimes even belittle me for weighing less.

It’s hurtful that they treat me badly for being “skinny” when I am over-weight for my height!

By: mmmhmmm

mmmhmmm — Fri, 02 Apr 2010 05:59:15 +0000

irrigate is watering plants, irritate is what i think you were goin for…

By: love yourself

love yourself — Fri, 02 Apr 2010 05:58:23 +0000

in a world where everything revolves around appearances, learn to love the skin your in. once you start doing that, the people around you will too. who cares if you have a little extra, someone is going to love you for EXACTLY who you are. you will know who you want to keep in your life by who accepts you for your flaws and imperfections if thats even what they are. you may look at your butt and say its too big or small, but i guarantee there are people who think it is just right!! dont give in to what society’s view of beautiful is. once you think you are beautiful, you will be. just embrace who you are and have the confidence to match. you can get any one you want that way.

By: lili

lili — Sun, 28 Mar 2010 16:08:07 +0000

My best friend is 5’5 and weighs 98 pounds. i’m 5’2 and i weigh 110. It sucks.

By: Annie @ Hypothyroidism Diet

Annie @ Hypothyroidism Diet — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 10:14:41 +0000

I know how you feel. this also irrigates me.