Comments on: I drink to forget you http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/ Tell us your secret Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:48:31 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: speck http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-10859 speck Wed, 25 Aug 2010 19:10:17 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-10859 i did this the other night, biggest mistake of my life, second day of school, he comes up to me to tell him eveything i said, i cant tell my new boyfriend, because i know it will tear him up inside, i kinda meant what i told him that night on my phone i did this the other night, biggest mistake of my life, second day of school, he comes up to me to tell him eveything i said, i cant tell my new boyfriend, because i know it will tear him up inside, i kinda meant what i told him that night on my phone

]]> By: never again http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-10217 never again Sun, 11 Jul 2010 07:31:28 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-10217 i did the same thing for a year and i realized i was making myself look stupid so i stopped.. now i have a bf and he makes me cry more than i did when i was drunk i did the same thing for a year and i realized i was making myself look stupid so i stopped.. now i have a bf and he makes me cry more than i did when i was drunk

]]> By: W http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-10044 W Fri, 02 Jul 2010 00:50:26 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-10044 She used to do that to me. I'm glad, for her sake, that she doesn't anymore. She used to do that to me. I’m glad, for her sake, that she doesn’t anymore.

]]> By: Me Too http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-9159 Me Too Sat, 27 Mar 2010 17:26:53 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-9159 Me too, and i feel so stupid and pathetic after Me too, and i feel so stupid and pathetic after

]]> By: cc http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-9106 cc Thu, 18 Mar 2010 08:45:52 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-9106 I did that but my drunk mind still remembered his number. 3 years later (2 of them dating his bestfriend, and him just gettin out of a serious 2 year relationship) we find ourselves in the exact same position....and it kills me I did that but my drunk mind still remembered his number.
3 years later (2 of them dating his bestfriend, and him just gettin out of a serious 2 year relationship) we find ourselves in the exact same position….and it kills me

]]> By: online stock trading advice http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-8488 online stock trading advice Mon, 11 Jan 2010 05:16:55 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-8488 Your site was extremely interesting, especially since I was searching for thoughts on this subject last Thursday. I'm Out! :) Your site was extremely interesting, especially since I was searching for thoughts on this subject last Thursday.

I’m Out! :)

]]> By: Eli http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-7135 Eli Sun, 18 Oct 2009 23:58:04 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-7135 Ah, I'm one of the ones that gets called. I love it, just as much as I love you (but seriously, you shouldn't need the alcohol!) Ah, I’m one of the ones that gets called. I love it, just as much as I love you (but seriously, you shouldn’t need the alcohol!)

]]> By: Rachel Scruton http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-6971 Rachel Scruton Mon, 12 Oct 2009 21:44:54 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-6971 Do what I do, delete his number an wait for him to text or ring u, thn u kno if he cares or not to stay in touch! Do what I do,
delete his number an wait for him to text or ring u,
thn u kno if he cares or not to stay in touch!

]]> By: LKS http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-6959 LKS Mon, 12 Oct 2009 17:23:46 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-6959 Everyone repeat after me.... I will not drink and dial!!!! Health issues aside, you are never at the top of your game when you are drunk, you just sound either crazy or pathetic. That is not the way to get them back. Everyone repeat after me…. I will not drink and dial!!!!

Health issues aside, you are never at the top of your game when you are drunk, you just sound either crazy or pathetic. That is not the way to get them back.

]]> By: Brenda http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-6847 Brenda Tue, 06 Oct 2009 17:31:52 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-6847 I feel so sad for you. I'm having flashbacks of my life 20 years ago. I was hurt very badly by a man I loved so dearly...and he rejected me. I was pregnant too. I dranked for a good 4 years out of lonliness and depression and also dranked to try and cope with the pain of not being with him. I nearly destroyed my life over him and the repucussion of that drinking lasted longer...over the next 2 decades. My life is good now. I did end up back with him 10 years later and married him, but I realized I had grown up and no longer desired him. I knew this even before I married. I divorced him a year later. There is not a day that went by for the past 2 decades where I cannot believe I destroyed my life over him with drinking. He was not worth it at all!! I want to tell you...I know its hard to believe, but you're better off without him. Go on with your life and be happy. There is someone out there for you that is better for you and better than him. Don't call him, erase him and stay away from the alcohol for now. Surround yourself with friends. You will be ok. I learned the hard way!!! Hang in there sweetie, I'll be praying for you. I feel so sad for you. I’m having flashbacks of my life 20 years ago. I was hurt very badly by a man I loved so dearly…and he rejected me. I was pregnant too. I dranked for a good 4 years out of lonliness and depression and also dranked to try and cope with the pain of not being with him. I nearly destroyed my life over him and the repucussion of that drinking lasted longer…over the next 2 decades. My life is good now. I did end up back with him 10 years later and married him, but I realized I had grown up and no longer desired him. I knew this even before I married. I divorced him a year later. There is not a day that went by for the past 2 decades where I cannot believe I destroyed my life over him with drinking. He was not worth it at all!! I want to tell you…I know its hard to believe, but you’re better off without him. Go on with your life and be happy. There is someone out there for you that is better for you and better than him. Don’t call him, erase him and stay away from the alcohol for now. Surround yourself with friends. You will be ok. I learned the hard way!!! Hang in there sweetie, I’ll be praying for you.

]]> By: AF http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-6539 AF Sun, 13 Sep 2009 22:11:34 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-6539 my boyfriend broke up with me and did that for a while. i knew he was in pain and that he never wanted to hurt me, so i talked him through every drunken panic attack. he said he didn't want to "drag me down with him". he finally accepted that i would be there for him through everything and i was strong enough to handle whatever life throws at me. we've been back together for two years and he apologizes almost everyday. he doesn't drink when he's upset anymore. i don't doubt that we love each more than anything. my boyfriend broke up with me and did that for a while.
i knew he was in pain and that he never wanted to hurt me, so i talked him through every drunken panic attack.
he said he didn’t want to “drag me down with him”.
he finally accepted that i would be there for him through everything and i was strong enough to handle whatever life throws at me.
we’ve been back together for two years and he apologizes almost everyday. he doesn’t drink when he’s upset anymore.
i don’t doubt that we love each more than anything.

]]> By: Leslie http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-6320 Leslie Mon, 31 Aug 2009 19:59:23 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-6320 Something I have to remember each time I drink is to have my good friends there to stop me from calling him once I've had too many. They usually deter me from calling him, not always, but, it is your life and you will do what you want. Keep giving it time and space, if you stop texting/calling him for one month and after that one month he doesn't call, move on to better things because you will spend your life wasting it on the man you thought was "the one", don't you think "the one" would stick around and profess his love for you if you really believed in your heart he was the one? Good luck girl. Something I have to remember each time I drink is to have my good friends there to stop me from calling him once I’ve had too many. They usually deter me from calling him, not always, but, it is your life and you will do what you want. Keep giving it time and space, if you stop texting/calling him for one month and after that one month he doesn’t call, move on to better things because you will spend your life wasting it on the man you thought was “the one”, don’t you think “the one” would stick around and profess his love for you if you really believed in your heart he was the one? Good luck girl.

]]> By: Pino http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-6188 Pino Fri, 21 Aug 2009 15:49:50 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-6188 dude i've been hoping this would go away for me, 2 weeks later and i still haven't had a sober night.... dude i’ve been hoping this would go away for me, 2 weeks later and i still haven’t had a sober night….

]]> By: Laura http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5778 Laura Mon, 20 Jul 2009 19:50:14 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-5778 I drank to forget him. It turns out it was the drink that drove him away. I can safely say, it's the biggest mistake I've ever made. All I can tell you is that you will stop. You will learn that it's not doing you good, this secret is just the begining. Then you'll know you're ready to get over him rather than running away. That feeling is a huge relief. I drank to forget him.
It turns out it was the drink that drove him away.
I can safely say, it’s the biggest mistake I’ve ever made.
All I can tell you is that you will stop.
You will learn that it’s not doing you good, this secret is just the begining.
Then you’ll know you’re ready to get over him rather than running away.

That feeling is a huge relief.

]]> By: jmiller http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5718 jmiller Sat, 18 Jul 2009 16:42:43 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-5718 I drink to have fun, but in the end I always end up calling him... I'm scared one times I call he will have blocked my number I drink to have fun, but in the end I always end up calling him… I’m scared one times I call he will have blocked my number

]]> By: Jaye http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5705 Jaye Fri, 17 Jul 2009 17:50:36 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-5705 Wow this is exactly how I feel and what I do everyday. I miss you JCH! Wow this is exactly how I feel and what I do everyday. I miss you JCH!

]]> By: Michele http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5687 Michele Thu, 16 Jul 2009 23:42:17 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-5687 Wow Cindy, don't be so rude. This is a place for people to share their secrets, not for people to attack those who decide to send them in... Wow Cindy, don’t be so rude. This is a place for people to share their secrets, not for people to attack those who decide to send them in…

]]> By: Cindy http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5501 Cindy Thu, 09 Jul 2009 17:40:07 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-5501 Come on now do you think that drinking is really going to help you. No its going to kill you, so if thats what you want to do to yourself, why dont you go jump off a bridge or something. Do you honesty think that the other person your trying to forget is doing the same thing, drinking to forget you, if they are, then they would be with you, not killing themselves because they want to be with you so bad. Get STRONG, turn your life around and change cause your the only person that could make yourself happy not the bottle. Come on now do you think that drinking is really going to help you. No its going to kill you, so if thats what you want to do to yourself, why dont you go jump off a bridge or something.
Do you honesty think that the other person your trying to forget is doing the same thing, drinking to forget you, if they are, then they would be with you, not killing themselves because they want to be with you so bad.
Get STRONG, turn your life around and change cause your the only person that could make yourself happy not the bottle.

]]> By: nobody http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5188 nobody Tue, 23 Jun 2009 03:14:05 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-5188 don't we all! and if he's alone he'll talk about how much he wants to see me...if he's with his girlfriend...he always blows me off! don’t we all! and if he’s alone he’ll talk about how much he wants to see me…if he’s with his girlfriend…he always blows me off!

]]> By: Rei-zombie http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-5003 Rei-zombie Wed, 10 Jun 2009 02:00:18 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-5003 I think this is something we all do sweetie dont feel bad. x I think this is something we all do sweetie dont feel bad. x

]]> By: anon http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-4958 anon Mon, 08 Jun 2009 03:27:57 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-4958 6 months later and im still in this habit. 6 months later and im still in this habit.

]]> By: J http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/05/i-drink-to-forget-you/comment-page-1/#comment-4696 J Tue, 26 May 2009 12:06:10 +0000 http://postsecretarchive.com/?p=1156#comment-4696 I did the same for some months, till I realized that every time I woke up after getting drunk, my memories of her would be even stronger. I did the same for some months, till I realized that every time I woke up after getting drunk, my memories of her would be even stronger.

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