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My Sister used to feel this way about me… I tried really hard and she now forgives me and we have a great relationship.. I hope whatever your sister did to u she loves you enough to do the same, and remember you cant choose your family!!!!!!!!
There are a million and one excuses not to have that feeling of love for someone. Although one person’s reasoning might sound pathetic to you, it hits home for that person. So telling you their reasoning won’t put you on their side.
It sucks to realize that feeling, and the guilt that comes with it.
Sometimes, when her drama is at it’s highest and I see what it does to my parents (and, with shame, the inconveniences she’s caused me time and again), I wish she had been a cousin instead. It’s more fun to talk about your crazy cousin than admit someone you’re embarassed by is your sister.
Just remember that blood-relation doesn’t always mean family, and the family you choose doesn’t always have to be blood-related. Try not to feel forced to love her – you’ll just wind up hating her instead.
I know how you feel. My older sister has treated me like crap my whole life, but when she wants to manipulate me into doing something for her, she pulls the “sister” card. I’ve always been jealous of friends and cousins who are close with their sisters.
Same here! I miss the old days when we were young…
Now it’s to where i am demoted from maid of honor to nothing in her wedding this weekend
Kinda sad huh? Oh well i’m totally over it
I love my sister, but when her husband stated that my wife wasn’t welcome in their home, and when I protested, I was told to “get off your cross”, that was it for me. I know she will never figure out that what she did was wrong, and that she will never apologize. Her loss. I’m not willing to back down this time. I always have before, because I know how she is, but when she insulted my wife, that was unforgivable. I will not budge this time.
I’m sorry it has come to that with your sister and her family. But good for you standing up for your wife. I don’t know you, but I’m so proud of you. People, esp. family, can be so frustrating, and I hope your family and your sister’s family can get it all worked out (i.e., that she realizes how rude she and her husband were to you and your wife). Really, proud of you.
My sister is driving me crazy. She won’t take my phone calls. She thinks I should support her as an adult – she lives at home, mooching off of our parents, with no financial responsibilities, does nothing to help them around the house, and sneaks around with a busboy who is 10 years older than she is that none of us have met and then lies about it.
My sister feels the same way. Even thou I can’t change who I am. I cheated on my boyfriend of 2+ years with a girl. Now she’s my fiance and I couldn’t be happier; but now my family hate me
My half sister and I didn’t grow up together, and she’s never seemed to like me much. But I love her so much! I know all my cousins better than I know her, but I still have a very special love for her. Even when she ignored me for a while. We are polar opposites and see the world very differently, and have conflicting beliefs. But she’s still my sister and I love her.
my sister hates me and it’s grown so that i am on the verge of hating her
she hates for no reason
my aunt believes it’s jealusy
of what? idk
one incident i remember that made me o gry with her
i avoid as much as possible
and i’m happy to see that
she’s ruining her life
it gives me pleasure like you’d never know.
because i was right about her.
even when i didn’t want to be
I feel the same. My have two sisters. I adore one but hate the other in fact I cut her out of my life in June because shedid somethig unforgiveable. I didn’t live with my family al my life they got to live in good homes, while i was in foster care all because the sister I hate told child protective services my dad was beating me which he never touched me so my dad lost custody of me. since i was 10 she has always done things to hurt me and spread viscious lies. when I had my daughter she pretended to be all happy but then when my daughter was older she tried to have my daughter taken away from me with her lies. Needless to say I’m 30 now and married and have a great life and my dad says she is just jealous because she has no life no man and no job and never made it past the 8th grade. My new mother-in-law said something wise to me and this might help you..she said that we don’t have to stop loving our siblings, but we can cut them out of our lives. Honestly though, I feel nothing for her…when i think about her I just wish I never knew of her existence…and that is pretty sad too tho
I Haven’t seen my sister ever since I was 4 now i’m 17 I miss her everyday and the hardest thing is I know where she is but i can’t get there on my own
So I don’t understand how you can hate your sister
@ Jess….Being that you did not grow up wth your sister (sorry) then no, you wouldn’t understand. Not every family is close and until someone has had to live a sad life or walk in thier shoes, then no you can’t understand. She might just feel like she hates her for now, but this may not always be the way she feels. I do hope that you are able to reunite with your sister that you have not seen in 13 years tho.
Is your sister letting her abusive husband have custody of there daughter too?
Thats why i dont. I cant when i know she doesnt love her own daughter enough to fight for her. My niece is my favorite person in the world i cant help hating my sister for hurting my niece
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i dont get it…. my sister HATES me… i cry so much because my friends and everyone i know with a sister gets along with them.. and she always tells meim immature and when i grow up she will like me…. really…i cant take it… i think about explaining it to my mom.. i wrote a note… but i never gave it to her… i feel my mom wont be able to do anything about it… i really just wish i could be like my frineds.. and i guess..”grow up” if thats what it takes…. im in 8th grade and shes a shopmore… why cant she just be nice…. i try .. i really do.. but when we are around her friends… shes a brat.. and i cant hang out wiht her.. and i cant be her sister.. she tells me im embarrassign… and ugly… and fat… and everyhting else… i cant take it…. i honestly cant.. and if it keeps up.. im not sure who else to take it out on except for myself… somebody please help before its to late. pelase please please help me…..
i am not sure of your complete situation so i may come off as condescending or patronizing and i’m sorry in advance. since you’re pretty young and your sister’s only a sophomore then the animosity from her might be just be typical discord between siblings. i hated my brother when i was younger because he treated me like crap and humiliated me in front of other family members, but we get along very well now. you and your sister might end up good friends in the future. that being said you sound very desperate and there is no excuse for your sister to call you ugly and fat (that might be jealousy, i bet you’re adorable). please please do not take it out on yourself. try and talk it out with a trusted friend if you can’t talk to your mum. if your relationship doesn’t improve when you’re older, i hope you’ll at least have the strength to stand up for yourself
My sister and I are complete opposites in every way imaginable, the only thing we have in common is our parents, but I still love her. She steals my stuff and calls me names but when she’s nice, she’s really nice. And I appreciate her for trying.
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You can I, my friend, have a lot in common. Although; I’m not sure I love any of my siblings anymore.
I apologized to my sister today and asked for forgiveness for a fight that she started…. Why does she hate me so much for things my mother did?
*You AND I. Sorry.
neither do i
my sisters nolonger love me. they never let me forgat it. you can not imagine the pian you are causing. and i love them any ways.
My Sister used to feel this way about me… I tried really hard and she now forgives me and we have a great relationship.. I hope whatever your sister did to u she loves you enough to do the same, and remember you cant choose your family!!!!!!!!
You can chose to keep people out for your own safety.
But why? And is it worth not loving her? I’m not saying you should. But make sure you shouldn’t.
There are a million and one excuses not to have that feeling of love for someone. Although one person’s reasoning might sound pathetic to you, it hits home for that person. So telling you their reasoning won’t put you on their side.
It sucks to realize that feeling, and the guilt that comes with it.
Sometimes, when her drama is at it’s highest and I see what it does to my parents (and, with shame, the inconveniences she’s caused me time and again), I wish she had been a cousin instead. It’s more fun to talk about your crazy cousin than admit someone you’re embarassed by is your sister.
Just remember that blood-relation doesn’t always mean family, and the family you choose doesn’t always have to be blood-related. Try not to feel forced to love her – you’ll just wind up hating her instead.
I feel the same way about my sister.
I know how you feel. My older sister has treated me like crap my whole life, but when she wants to manipulate me into doing something for her, she pulls the “sister” card. I’ve always been jealous of friends and cousins who are close with their sisters.
I BET MY SISTER POSTED THIS
I DO TOO
Me either. And it is all her fault.
i am scared my sister will hate me for things i have no control over.
Same here! I miss the old days when we were young…
Now it’s to where i am demoted from maid of honor to nothing in her wedding this weekend
Kinda sad huh? Oh well i’m totally over it
no you are not. You are just saying u are over it so that it doesn’t hurt.otherwise u won’t miss the ol’ days.
I’m so worried that my sister posted this. We are so different and she hates almost everything I do
i dont respect my sisters’ affair she is having with a married father who is over 10 years older than her… but i still love her.
I love my sister, but when her husband stated that my wife wasn’t welcome in their home, and when I protested, I was told to “get off your cross”, that was it for me. I know she will never figure out that what she did was wrong, and that she will never apologize. Her loss. I’m not willing to back down this time. I always have before, because I know how she is, but when she insulted my wife, that was unforgivable. I will not budge this time.
I’m sorry it has come to that with your sister and her family. But good for you standing up for your wife. I don’t know you, but I’m so proud of you. People, esp. family, can be so frustrating, and I hope your family and your sister’s family can get it all worked out (i.e., that she realizes how rude she and her husband were to you and your wife). Really, proud of you.
good thing i don’t give a damn anymore.
no one loves me.
I love you.
My sister is driving me crazy. She won’t take my phone calls. She thinks I should support her as an adult – she lives at home, mooching off of our parents, with no financial responsibilities, does nothing to help them around the house, and sneaks around with a busboy who is 10 years older than she is that none of us have met and then lies about it.
I know. I can see it.
Truth is, I can’t help myself.
I still love you
I love you for being you, and being strong enough to hate me.
My sister feels the same way. Even thou I can’t change who I am. I cheated on my boyfriend of 2+ years with a girl. Now she’s my fiance and I couldn’t be happier; but now my family hate me
I didn’t love my sister anymore. But she moved away and I realized that we cared about each other.
Time helps, so does space
I LOVE all my sisters a million times over! They are my best friends. I wonder how certain people go thru live with out one…I have 4.
Me neither. She’s extremely moody and manipulative. Everyday she felt differently towards me and treated me as such. Most days weren’t good ones.
My half sister and I didn’t grow up together, and she’s never seemed to like me much. But I love her so much! I know all my cousins better than I know her, but I still have a very special love for her. Even when she ignored me for a while. We are polar opposites and see the world very differently, and have conflicting beliefs. But she’s still my sister and I love her.
My twin sister died 5 months ago.
and to this very day, I love her more than anything, and I told her everyday……
I still tell her.
my sister hates me and it’s grown so that i am on the verge of hating her
she hates for no reason
my aunt believes it’s jealusy
of what? idk
one incident i remember that made me o gry with her
i avoid as much as possible
and i’m happy to see that
she’s ruining her life
it gives me pleasure like you’d never know.
because i was right about her.
even when i didn’t want to be
I feel the same. My have two sisters. I adore one but hate the other in fact I cut her out of my life in June because shedid somethig unforgiveable. I didn’t live with my family al my life they got to live in good homes, while i was in foster care all because the sister I hate told child protective services my dad was beating me which he never touched me so my dad lost custody of me. since i was 10 she has always done things to hurt me and spread viscious lies. when I had my daughter she pretended to be all happy but then when my daughter was older she tried to have my daughter taken away from me with her lies. Needless to say I’m 30 now and married and have a great life and my dad says she is just jealous because she has no life no man and no job and never made it past the 8th grade. My new mother-in-law said something wise to me and this might help you..she said that we don’t have to stop loving our siblings, but we can cut them out of our lives. Honestly though, I feel nothing for her…when i think about her I just wish I never knew of her existence…and that is pretty sad too tho
I Haven’t seen my sister ever since I was 4 now i’m 17 I miss her everyday and the hardest thing is I know where she is but i can’t get there on my own
So I don’t understand how you can hate your sister
@ Jess….Being that you did not grow up wth your sister (sorry) then no, you wouldn’t understand. Not every family is close and until someone has had to live a sad life or walk in thier shoes, then no you can’t understand. She might just feel like she hates her for now, but this may not always be the way she feels. I do hope that you are able to reunite with your sister that you have not seen in 13 years tho.
my sister is pregnant by my ex-boyfriend, but i still love her
I NEVER loved my sister.
Is your sister letting her abusive husband have custody of there daughter too?
Thats why i dont. I cant when i know she doesnt love her own daughter enough to fight for her. My niece is my favorite person in the world i cant help hating my sister for hurting my niece
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i dont love her any more she is a stuped girl sh thouhgh that she a lovely girl and i dont love her
i dont get it…. my sister HATES me… i cry so much because my friends and everyone i know with a sister gets along with them.. and she always tells meim immature and when i grow up she will like me…. really…i cant take it… i think about explaining it to my mom.. i wrote a note… but i never gave it to her… i feel my mom wont be able to do anything about it… i really just wish i could be like my frineds.. and i guess..”grow up” if thats what it takes…. im in 8th grade and shes a shopmore… why cant she just be nice…. i try .. i really do.. but when we are around her friends… shes a brat.. and i cant hang out wiht her.. and i cant be her sister.. she tells me im embarrassign… and ugly… and fat… and everyhting else… i cant take it…. i honestly cant.. and if it keeps up.. im not sure who else to take it out on except for myself… somebody please help before its to late. pelase please please help me…..
i am not sure of your complete situation so i may come off as condescending or patronizing and i’m sorry in advance. since you’re pretty young and your sister’s only a sophomore then the animosity from her might be just be typical discord between siblings. i hated my brother when i was younger because he treated me like crap and humiliated me in front of other family members, but we get along very well now. you and your sister might end up good friends in the future. that being said you sound very desperate and there is no excuse for your sister to call you ugly and fat (that might be jealousy, i bet you’re adorable). please please do not take it out on yourself. try and talk it out with a trusted friend if you can’t talk to your mum. if your relationship doesn’t improve when you’re older, i hope you’ll at least have the strength to stand up for yourself
My sister and I are complete opposites in every way imaginable, the only thing we have in common is our parents, but I still love her. She steals my stuff and calls me names but when she’s nice, she’s really nice. And I appreciate her for trying.