Comments on: I’m afraid

By: Alexa

Alexa — Sat, 14 Jan 2012 08:25:32 +0000

Well, I told a guy how I feel about him, and it turned out he felt the same way, starting today we will be starting our relationship, it may be long-distance and I hope it works out for the best but so far, I’m happy I told him.

By: psychicseeker1

psychicseeker1 — Wed, 14 Dec 2011 04:27:36 +0000

He used to be open. He knows how I feel but stays away. Ignores me. We don’t trust each other any more. I say mean sarcastic things. He sensitive. Now scared. So he runs from me. Hurts me. I left him. I feel better now that I’m away. But I miss his friendship. We were such great friends. Love fucks up everything.

By: Danielle

Danielle — Sun, 15 May 2011 01:30:20 +0000

I feel the same exact way. I have been in love with this guy from my high school class for two years and I am afraid to tell him how I feel because I don’t know if he feels the same way. Should I just take a chance?

By: ellie212

ellie212 — Mon, 09 May 2011 23:25:01 +0000

I know! It’s so hard but you only live once and you have to love yourself enough to tell yourself that it is worth knowing. Now if only I could take my own advice

John, I love you.

By: ellie212

ellie212 — Mon, 09 May 2011 23:24:21 +0000

I know! It’s so hard but you only live once and you have to love yourself enough to tell yourself you are worth knowing. Now if only I could take my own advice

John, I love you.

By: humblepie

humblepie — Sat, 19 Mar 2011 06:01:59 +0000

I know exactly how this feels. I’m lonely too and I’m afraid I’m going to be lonely all of My life.

By: psychicseeker

psychicseeker — Sat, 19 Feb 2011 20:12:10 +0000

We love pain. I know I do. Otherwise we would move on and attract love in a healthy way. Some of us don’t love ourselves and don’t think we deserve love. So we fall in love with people we can not have.

By: laura

laura — Mon, 17 Jan 2011 21:03:43 +0000

well that’s kind of silly.
if you tell him, and lose him what’s the difference if you never had him in the first place because you were too scraed.
if it’s really been that long and taken that much out of you, what’s the difference if you tell him and get rejected or not tell him and never have a chance.

By: carrie

carrie — Thu, 25 Nov 2010 20:38:28 +0000

story of my freaking life.

By: XP

XP — Wed, 01 Sep 2010 22:35:18 +0000

Who doesn’t know this feeling?

By: Briana

Briana — Mon, 09 Aug 2010 02:27:29 +0000

I told him how I felt and then pushed him away when he said he would cheat on his girlfriend with me. Best thing I ever did, even if I miss him every single day. He was my best friend for over six years of my life, and now I’m moving on. He was verbally abusive and a downright arse to me, and I let him keep it up for all that time. His girlfriend still has no idea.

By: broken

broken — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 20:35:50 +0000

So I lost him later. Knew it. I told him he hesitated, so I let him know I could not stay in a relationship with a man that could not tell me he loved me. Of course he told me to stay, that he would be able to tell me he felt the same, it was just hard for him. Well that just started the lies. Be upfront with the one you love and if they are not giving it back in the way that you need them to LEAVE! Don’t waste anymore of your time. I put myself through hell and have yet to recover. It’s almost been 9 months

By: Jen

Jen — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 23:01:26 +0000

I can’t tell him how I feel. I love him. But he has a girlfriend.

By: carolynxlouise

carolynxlouise — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 22:28:23 +0000

me too we really should tell them but i know i won’t have the courage…

By: Facebook User

Facebook User — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 06:20:09 +0000

i don’t want this to be me…so i’m vowing to myself right now, i’m going to tell him.

By: Amy

Amy — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 23:16:20 +0000

It’s all the same in the end =/
Sooner or later, it’s equally hard to forget

By: That girl.

That girl. — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 19:54:11 +0000

DO it. I did and even though it didn’t turn out how I would have wished… we have an understanding that in the future there is a possibility, and he loves me in return.

By: Alli Seats

Alli Seats — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 04:48:06 +0000

i know… he’s never gonna know because i cant tell him, is it worse to be rejected and have tried or to not try at all and live in a lopsided friendship?

By: c

Thu, 05 Nov 2009 17:47:46 +0000

Then tell him/her; it’s worth it, no matter what the response.

By: Paila

Paila — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 06:18:08 +0000

I know what you mean. I just can’t tell him that I like him, even though I think he may like me back

By: Is a dream a lie if it doesn't come true, or is it something worse?

Is a dream a lie if it doesn't come true, or is it something worse? — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 07:33:47 +0000

I wish I would had told Nickelynn Withers how I felt. She was the first girl crush I ever had, and regret not telling her all those years I went to school with her.

By: broken hearted

broken hearted — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 20:48:40 +0000

im in the same boat. i am really in lust or love cant really tell with this guy.hes my total opposite but i want him and i need him hes like my drug i cant get enough of him if i know hes around i have to see him if i see him i have to talk to him.its sad.he always told me how he felt about him but i could never tell him because i was scared i would lose him and i would go numb(its happened before with him).he finally got a girlfriend told me we never happened because i never said how i felt about him.but it was to hard for me to put into sentences.but when we talked i told him everything how i felt even thought it was to late and he cheated on his girlfriend with me.but i still care about him more than anything and i have to walk around like i dont which is the worst part.

By: Laura

Laura — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 20:03:47 +0000

It’s never too late.
Do it, you may be surprised at the results.

But, if you decide not to, you will love again and someone will love you.
You don’t get one shot at it.
Just let them know next time.

By: peaceleste17

peaceleste17 — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 14:16:06 +0000

i have to tell one of my friends how much im in love with him.
im putting it off because i know he dosent love me back…

By: Natasha

Natasha — Sun, 03 May 2009 11:09:50 +0000

Me too. ) And you know the funny thing? I barely even think about the other one anymore!

By: ally

ally — Sat, 02 May 2009 01:18:02 +0000

I’ve never worked up the courage to tell a guy that I liked him. Somehow, I know I’ll be brave enough to tell this one.

By: broken

broken — Fri, 01 May 2009 04:36:21 +0000

I told him and almost lost him too. I think because I didn’t lose him now can only mean I will lose him later. So is sooner really better than later?

By: Eliza

Eliza — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 23:27:51 +0000

i only lost him because i told him how i felt

By: kelsey ann

kelsey ann — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 20:23:18 +0000

wow i guess that most every person has been where you have been but if you really like somebody then you should tell them. I think i am learning that about myself as well.

By: kay

kay — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 15:45:51 +0000

you should ask me to coffee because otherwise i’ll never know who you are. and we might never have a class together again, ever.

you have nothing to lose.

By: Kathryn

Kathryn — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 13:54:48 +0000

The same thing happened to me Ciara. I am in love with a man who is so much older than me and the capacity in which we met each other is not one that society deems “normal” for forming a relationship. Telling him could have meant total humiliation, becoming a social outcast, being disliked by my friends and family and worst of all – him! But, I told him anyways -basically I was scared to death to tell him, but I was also scared to death not to. So I did. Result: best decision of my life. Even though at the moment we’re not technically a couple, I still love him more than anything and i think that he may be on his way to loving me and I think that every moment we spend together is more precious than anything!

By: tom

tom — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 01:57:24 +0000

girl that sits in front of my in my research methods for psychology class: i think about you too many hours everyday and i’ve talked to you like twice. you should ask me out because i don’t think i’ll ask you out in the two weeks until the semester is over.

By: Torn

Torn — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 20:31:25 +0000

:’( Makes me want to cry……. I think about this almost everyday. Will there ever be anyone who can take your place?? Although I’ve decided that I will never tell you how I feel, I sometimes think I should so maybe it will help me move on, and maybe meet some1 new….

By: el

el — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 07:26:45 +0000

possibly. i dream that one day he’ll turn to me and smile and say, “god, i never realized how amazing you are, how you were always there, how you were willing to stand by me when i was in trouble and i hurt. but now, i do. i really, really do.”

i know that if i tell him how i’ll feel, though, he’ll probably never talk to me again. and then i’ll lose my chance forever, and he’ll never hug me again or hold me when i cry.

By: Tawny

Tawny — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 19:20:42 +0000

Tell them. Then you won’t be stuck in this pit. You’ll get out either way once you tell him.

By: Ash

Ash — Sun, 12 Apr 2009 04:52:42 +0000

the only guy i have had a crush on for the past year committed suicide last thurs and i never got to tell him…thats gunna be with me forever.

By: Skydancer

Skydancer — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:33:47 +0000

I told a guy one of my best friends I was crazy about him. We got close, then distant, and closer than ever! Even though we did not have the titles we have the relationship and that’s all that matters.

Tell him! You have absolutely nothing to loose! If he doesn’t bite the bait, go to a new lake, there are a lot of them in the world.

By: Ciara

Ciara — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 04:15:08 +0000

Tell him. I told him. I was terrified of rejection and was heartbroken when he didn’t feel the same. But a few weeks and my persistance got us together and we are 9 months strong now. I love him more than anything in the world.

By: sotrue

sotrue — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 16:25:54 +0000

i know exactly how you feel. its the toughest choice you’ll ever have to make

By: littlebuddy

littlebuddy — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 16:24:48 +0000

i once told a really good friend of mine how i felt, i haven’t talked to him since. i killed my relationship with him by telling him, but you know what i don’t regret it for a second, because i took the risk and at least i don’t have to wonder if it could have been. you have nothing to lose by telling, and if he is good enough for you then you will make it past that even if he doesn’t feel the same.

By: Jamie

Jamie — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 05:02:22 +0000

meaning, more than you had to possibly gain?

By: Jamie

Jamie — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 05:02:00 +0000

would you really risk that much by telling them?

By: Briana

Briana — Sat, 28 Mar 2009 04:45:07 +0000

i feel the same way, he’s the only guy i’ve been extremely interested in,but so much is in risk if i tell him how i feel. So for three years i’ve been botttled up. To the point that it ACTUALLY HURTS, yes i’ve experienced actual heartache. I love him and he’ll never know.

By: Britt

Britt — Fri, 27 Mar 2009 00:06:42 +0000

i feel the same way,i have tried to deny my feelings but i kno that i still love him no matter where he is and he will never kno

By: Stevies

Stevies — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 15:09:37 +0000

I have felt the same way about someone for the past 6 years. im right there with you

By: Happy

Happy — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 17:23:45 +0000

I know how you feel! It’s like a weight is lifted when you actually tell that person! Like right now…….James….I AM IN LOVE WITH YOU!

By: Linzz.

Linzz. — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 21:27:19 +0000

I feel the same way, sometimes. <3 I’m right there with you.