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If all you want is a kiss, play spin the bottle, then you don’t have to deal with all the crap.
I’ve always found girls better than boys in every area, and i can’t believe there are so many people saying that they want a girl ! I’m just glad women are so much more fluid with their sexuality than men are (generally speaking..) (:
I have really enjoyed reading all the responses this secret inspired. I too want to kiss a woman. Makes me think that if I am more open to it and not judging myself, then their are a lot of chances that it could happen. Hhhmmmm, Yay!
I want to have a lesbian experience so bad! i’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years but I’m dying to be with a girl at least for a night!
i love girls , nd girls love me ..but every woman is beautiful somehow !
meee
I constantly look at lesbian porn it looks so funa nd i have dreams of having sex with a girl but i have been with a guy for 2 years and now were engaged but im dying to be with a girl so bad!!!!! i wouldnt know where to go i just want that experience so bad
i feel the same way too!
I have similar desires as many of you women, i am in a committed relationship with my boyfriend and i do love him but i want to touch and be touched by a women desperately.
“I’ve always found girls better than boys in every area…”
Cool it on the man-hating, butchy.
“I’ve always found girls better than boys in every area…”
Tone down the man-hatred, butchy.
Yup, best to make sure she isn’t jailbait before you go and put the moves on her, eh lizzie? But then again, you might see a lot of girl-on-girl action behind bars, so maybe you should go for it!
Did you dream you had an orgasm, or have an orgasm while you were dreaming?
I had a dream I was with two girls as well. One of the girls was named Veronica and the other was Betty. It ended with me doing Betty doggy-style while she was diving Veronica’s muff. As Veronica started to cum under Betty’s lingual ministrations, I shot a powerful load deep into Betty’s womb, thrusting my cock in deeper with each ejaculation. As I dozed off in exhaustion, the girls continued to go at it the whole night through.
If any of you ladies want to carry out your same-sex fantasies but with a comforting male presence around, give me a shout.
Maybe he feels the same way?
Sorry dude! I didn’t mean to come across so hardcore
believe me you are never to fat! true beauty is inside and if yo have a sexaul experience with someone, it will boost your confidence. i thought i was to fat to ever have one or find anyone. I eventually found my girlfriend who happens to be alot smaller than me and she finds me just as beautiful as ever. All in all dont ever be afraid, its worth the risk…
i always knew i was bi, but just kind of ignored it, because i never had the opportunity, and that was okay. now i have a crush on a good friend, who is bi, but i’m in a serious long distance relationship with a guy, who i love so much. i just want to hook up with her, i’m not sure what to do, because i am very happy in my relationship. we’ll see.
I know how you feel. Sucks, huh?
Me too! Except not married. I’ve been with the same guy for 2 years though. Honestly? Try talking to him about it… my boyfriend understood that I’ve been with girls in my past. It doesn’t mean you want to leave him. And it helps talking with someone.
You are you, without her, and that’s never a bad thing. So you fell for a person you love? Why does everyone think this is such a crime?
You didn’t do anything wrong. Start helping yourself and opening up to others. You’ll learn to walk again.
Stop being an asshole.
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I watch lesbian porn and I wish I could experiment as well. It seems like I’m not the only one that’s thought about this… haha. =)
I had this on ” my list of things to do before I die.”
I wanted it to be special, not just a physical fling with a stranger, but an emotionally intimate experience with someone I could love and trust and be totally vulnerable with. I wasn’t going to settle for anything less than that.
I didn’t pursue it or try to make it happen, but one day, years later, meeting someone in a bar, I shook her hand…and couldn’t let go. Her skin was so soft…and she kinda felt the same.
She was the one.
I ran into her a couple of days later, and was really honest about what it was I was wanting.
Amazing chemistry, I became so male in my pursuit of her, wooing!
I believe that I was her husband in a past life, so much chemistry, so much love!
So familiar. I have seen things that confirm it for me, and she has too.
A tension that had been in my body for my whole life, stress, fear, something —
after we made love, gone.
I relaxed in a way I had never been able to my whole life. and it’s stayed to this day.
Now, months later, that sexual karma, or sexual way of relating is gone,
but i am committed to love her as a true friend, forever.
I feel the same. I have a boyfriend, who I love deeply. But, even before him and I started dating, I wanted to just experience what it was like to be with a woman, sexually. I told him that, and he got jealous and insecure, feeling like I want other people, and not just him. But I feel like if I got to have this experience, and just got it out of my system, then I would only just want him. But, I don’t know how to tell him any of this without making him feel like I don’t love him or want him. When, I do. I just want to know what it’s like to be with a woman, that’s all. No strings attached.
Me
I feel the same way sometimes… I’ll talk to guys and itll be fun for a while then it will just get annoying it seems like. But I talk to my best friend everyday. There has only been one day when didnt talk to each other and it kinda sucked! Sometimes I feel like I might feel more for her than just friendship.. but then when I think a lot about it it seems kind of wierd. I’ve never actually been with a guy so its so hard to know what I want. I’m just so confused. I’ve always had the dreams of growing up getting married to my prince charming and having kids. But what if that isn’t what is right for me? It scares the hell out of me everyday just thinking about it. I find guys to be extremely attractive but that feeling goes the other way too. I just don’t know what to do.
Well I have never ever dated a girl but when I met my girlfriend of now! I just love her to death!!! It’s way better to be with a girl than a guy. I was afraid of anyone knowing but then later I realized I didn’t care anymore.
I’m a lesbian, and I’ve barely had a lesbian experience, and I just think I’m not attractive enough to get a second date, let alone an actual girlfriend.
I’ve been pretty sure I was going to die alone since I was a teenager. Now it’s ten years later, and nothing’s changed. I’ve had my heart broken, and anyone I love never loves me back.
I want mine too
So do i
I wish there were more people like you here Amanda. I seem to be turned down due to my weight and it doesn’t help that I’m socially awkward to boot.
I know exactly how you feel, Chris.
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I am the same way, only i’m not single. I am engaged to a wonderful, loving man. My family is religious and would die if they found out… I just need one experience to tell me if the feelings I feel are as real as I think they are!!
To all of you girls and women who’ve never experienced a girl. Try it as soon as you can. I’m 19 and had my first time with my bestfriend when I was a senior in highschool. Being with her was probably one of the relationships I’ve ever had. It opened a completely new door for me, as far as being comfortable with my sexuality goes. Although I know many people will judge me for this, I loved being with my bestfriend so much that I got into porn because I wanted to work with all the beautiful girls. I’ve put that career on hold, but have lots of girl friends that are in the industry. We “play” all the time and it’s great. Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE GUYS. But girls connect on a completely different level; in a completely different way. So my advice would be to find someone you trust, someone you’re attracted to, and go for it! It’s definitely an experience to be had.
XO,
Stevie.
I watch Lesbian porn. It’s the only kind of porn that turns me on. I’ve had a lesbian experience, but I don’t know if I like vagina.. I just like kissing girls, and I like breasts. It turns me on, but I don’t think I could end up not having a man in my life. I am dating my best (guy) friend, and I love him to death.. and he was upset when I told him about the experience..
Definitely confused.
i’m 14… i think i’m a lesbian, or at the very least bisexual. i want to tell my friends but then they won’t even hug me anymore… they’ll think i’m coming on to them. i want to have a lesbian experiance but i’m scared of being bisexual. i’m not homophobic, i’m just not brave.
I was exactly where you were, Laney. You need to find one friend that you trust. Test the waters first, say.. I don’t know, your cousin just came out as a lesbian, or bisexual, and gauge her reaction. I know it’s scary, but it’s worse keeping it a secret.
I really hope you find someone you trust enough to tell.
everyone should go on myspace and try set it up.. then if you all feel the same you can meet up!! Let me know when your all on so i can add you and join in xx
everyone has something that they dislike about themeselves everyone, be it from weight to eye colour, but there is always, always people out there who love you for who you are, your personality, i know it sounds cheesy, but its true, i dont think you could be with someone based completly on looks. you girls are beautiful, there is someone for everyone and i truly believe that, and being shy is ok just put your personality out there, some people wont like you but theres the people who will love you, you will catch someones eye, and who knows, it could end up being the person you spend the rest of your life with, so dont give up because of feeling insecure because you are really truly beautiful.
i AM a lesbian, and im not comfortable with my size. im shy about dating, because im afraid ill never find the girl that will love me no matter how i look. im too nervous to talk to pretty girls because i think they wont like me. i just wish i could find a girl with good personality and things in common with, that wont turn me down.
Well, anyone from Calgary, let me know. I’d love to have a couple new friends here.
If you live your life as a straight woman, no one can simply GUESS that you want to be with another woman. I am a 37 yr old lesbian and live most of my life seeing mostly straight people everywhere I go. If you live as a straight woman you can’t expect someone will just guess or assume you want to be with a woman. You will have to TELL them you want to be with a woman. People can’t just guess. And obviously….from this reply feed, there are plenty of other women that want to be with women too.
I know I’m late to the party here, but my high school girlfriend weighed about 250 pounds and still managed to cheat on me with two other girls. If her skank ass can get laid, so can you.
all of us shy lesbians need to get together! i live in kansas and everyone is so homophobic here!!
I have the same worry.. I have a very good girl image, straight and christian. im just curious…
its scary the first time, but if its right it’ll just happen, like with a guy, but if you cant end up with that girl in real life with ppl accepting it, dont get involved, its a bond that is too tight to be broken and causes a lot a lot of hurt
hey i’m in kansas we should meet up =)