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my boyfriend talked to his ex behind my back for the entire time we dated. it was supposed to stop when we got married 4 years ago. it has not.

I feel you, dear.

12 and half years in to my marriage and my husband still talks to his ex behind my back. Get use to it or get out.

i am the ex. it isnt like that. he was best friend for 4 years. thats all it will ever be because if he wanted to be with me he wouldnt have left me for her

I know the feeling, 2 years into a relationship and hes still talking to her, I hate her for it, she comes to him, he doesnt go to her.

Maybe he isn’t worth it

well he has finally cut all ties from her. new cell phone. blocked email address. thank god.

Her parents still tell him they love him and come to see him all the time. And I’m scared that in his Mom’s mind, I’m never gonna measure up to her even though she was so mean to him. He has no interest in her or talking to her. I would feel a lot worse about this if it wasn’t for the fact that she has a mustache.

i still check my boyfriends phone every chance i get after i saw that last conversation that whore and he had

This one really hits home for me. I really like this guy and he supposedly really likes me but he still talks to this girl that treats him like trash. I can’t imagion why he would want to be with her when I am RIGHT HERE waiting to drown him in love and happiness. I don’t understand.

I’m the ex also. She got him to cheat on me (she knew about me and didn’t care), but I still love him more than life itself. We still talk, behind her back…he hides it, because she’s a super jealous bitch. I don’t feel bad about it one bit. She loves to flaunt the fact that she has him. I wish the ugly slut would read this and know she doesn’t own him.

I just found out a few weeks ago that my husband’s been cheating on me for the last 7 months, with someone he admits wasn’t even worth it. I thought I could deal with the betrayal, but sometimes, it overwhelms me. It’s tough realising I might never be able to trust him again. And as much as I still love him, I don’t know if living with this pain is really worth it.

he told me that he wished i was the girl he had met down there.
i’m too hurt to still talk to him. but i miss him everyday.

I know this one. Lol. The person I was supposed to be with still has pictures of himself and his ex together. She tells him she misses him, and he says he misses her. Hell, she even tells him she misses having sex with him. [: He wouldn’t get rid of the pictures.. And wouldn’t stop talking to her because she turned his phone off when he did. And, this is the girl that pushed him down a flight and a half of stairs and destroyed his laptop.

It took me moving away for him to stop. I live 12 hours away, and he cries because I’m gone.

my boyfriend started talking to his ex a month ago and he says they are just friends but he also told me he still loves her…but he LOVES me…it is killing me every time I think about it…she says she misses him but he dosnt say that back I dont know if I can trust him since he has cheated on all his past gf’s except for me

You’re right, I do… It doesn’t even make me feel bad, most of the time. Then I admit again that you know…

… I talk to her in front of you instead. Is that better?

It’s been 1 year and 3 months…….
I don’t know if there has EVER been one single day when he didn’t talk to her.
At the begining….he cheated
and I forgave him…..
He left me over something she said….
and I forgave him and took him back….
under ONE condition
NO MORE!
On valentines day he got a message from her,
“I love you”
I don’t know how to deal with it.
She was horrible to him. She hurt him. Used guilt against him. Yelled at him.
Why can’t he leave her behind?
He says they’re best friends……
but I know all she wants is him back

he left me almost a year ago for some other whore. we were engaged. he wants to work things out. everyday i wonder if he still talks to her and wonder if i will ever not wonder anymore. i cant spend the rest of my life wondering